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By *ugofirst OP   Man
over a year ago

livingston

I’ve seen a couple of comments today from ladies receiving abusive messages on here.

Sorry I just don’t get it, I thought this site would be quite tolerable if creed, colour, likes, dislikes etc. I never expected much in the way of personal and what seem hurtful comments around how people look. Unless it’s because of rejection from them of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing people haven’t grown up and can’t handle rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m guessing people haven’t grown up and can’t handle rejection"

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Have you not been on the Internet long?

Honestly arsehats are everywhere, to think that a site or lifestyle breeds tolerance is...trying not to be rude but can't describe it better than to say, nieve.

Often the reverse is true, people think that because this is a "sex" site they can be the mean guy/gal and as people are displaying a certain vulnerability by being naked or displaying their lifestyle choice that just compounds such misguided belief.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Rejection isn't nice, but I've got used to it now.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Rejection isn't nice, but I've got used to it now. "

For what it's worth if i liked nob cheese i wouldn't reject ya

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Rejection isn't nice, but I've got used to it now.

For what it's worth if i liked nob cheese i wouldn't reject ya"

Errrrm. Thanks, i think

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

One minute you are a supermodel on fab and then you say no you become a fat mess.

I have been on here for more years than I like to admit and it’s always been like it.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes its when I turn someone down I get u fat/ugly/old anyway I wouldn't want to meet but it's very far and few between tbh the worst are the threatening ones I had one who said he would tell others here I'm a time waster I said I will block he then said he will get his friends to message me! Then after blocking he made a new account to barrage me with more insults x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called rude as f**k last night because after 5 or 6 unanswered messages the not much of a gentleman in question couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"I got called rude as f**k last night because after 5 or 6 unanswered messages the not much of a gentleman in question couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested. "

We don't do hints or subtleties

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"I got called rude as f**k last night because after 5 or 6 unanswered messages the not much of a gentleman in question couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested.

We don't do hints or subtleties "
some men dont do a thanks but no thanks either on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called rude as f**k last night because after 5 or 6 unanswered messages the not much of a gentleman in question couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested. "

Iv had this a few times recently.

Not reply and deleted the message to just get another one. Then like you said the abuse starts like I'm fake so now if I'm not interested in someone that messages I just block them. A polite no normally turns into "why babe" type responses. Just like I said easier to block anybody that isn't of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got called rude as f**k last night because after 5 or 6 unanswered messages the not much of a gentleman in question couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested.

Iv had this a few times recently.

Not reply and deleted the message to just get another one. Then like you said the abuse starts like I'm fake so now if I'm not interested in someone that messages I just block them. A polite no normally turns into "why babe" type responses. Just like I said easier to block anybody that isn't of interest."

On the whole, no reply usually works but in that instance it didn't.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"I got called rude as f**k last night because after 5 or 6 unanswered messages the not much of a gentleman in question couldn't take the hint I wasn't interested.

We don't do hints or subtleties some men dont do a thanks but no thanks either on here "

So very true and it ruins it for all of us sadly, why folk can't just be pleasant and mive on I'll never know

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Because even though you should be over 18 and an adult to be on here, some havent grew up mentally.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

FAB is just a reflection of society in general.

There are dickheads in both.

Lots of decent people too tho.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"FAB is just a reflection of society in general.

There are dickheads in both.

Lots of decent people too tho.

"

There's more decent people then dickheads - its just that they don't 'stick out' as much.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"FAB is just a reflection of society in general.

There are dickheads in both.

Lots of decent people too tho.

There's more decent people then dickheads - its just that they don't 'stick out' as much. "

Absolutely

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"FAB is just a reflection of society in general.

There are dickheads in both.

Lots of decent people too tho.

There's more decent people then dickheads - its just that they don't 'stick out' as much.

Absolutely "

BTW - love the batman knickers.

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