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Vanity, validation and ego

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics.

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

I think you might be right on that OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m with you there..a big ego boost indeed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Is wanting ones ego boosted a bad thing?

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

My penis brings it's own hype

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use this site for different reasons, if confidence and attention is that reason, who are we to judge? X

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Don't see any issue , everyone is free to manage their profiles as they want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is wanting ones ego boosted a bad thing? "

If one has to ask for it, then does it have real value?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I totally agree. There seems to be a lot of begs for likes and please read our full profile EVERY WORD and you must send a face pic OR WE WONT REPLY OK.

All of that seems a bit arrogant and egotistical in a place where it should be about fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is wanting ones ego boosted a bad thing?

If one has to ask for it, then does it have real value? "

Preach it brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I totally agree. There seems to be a lot of begs for likes and please read our full profile EVERY WORD and you must send a face pic OR WE WONT REPLY OK.

All of that seems a bit arrogant and egotistical in a place where it should be about fun "

and there it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is wanting ones ego boosted a bad thing?

If one has to ask for it, then does it have real value?

Preach it brother"

coz it luv innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't see any issue , everyone is free to manage their profiles as they want "

As free as I am to try and understand a public behaviour. And there is no issue - as long as one behaves without malice or lack of consideration of others, then everyone can do what the fuck they like!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Think you’ve discovered a bit of a downside to social media there OP

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By *uziebabyWoman
over a year ago

Worcester

Its pretty if you have to ask for them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is wanting ones ego boosted a bad thing?

If one has to ask for it, then does it have real value? "

In my opinion we all ask for validation one way or another. It's just some of us are more subtle about it

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’m not bothered by fabs. I rarely check them. I completely understand why some people do enjoy that attention though.

I enjoy being sociable and cracking jokes to make people laugh. I enjoy the positive attention. To me, it’s the same thing.

How other people choose to boost their ego is a personal choice. We all do it, and I think it’s healthy to know what we can do to make ourselves feel good.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Yes I totally agree. There seems to be a lot of begs for likes and please read our full profile EVERY WORD and you must send a face pic OR WE WONT REPLY OK.

All of that seems a bit arrogant and egotistical in a place where it should be about fun "

I like fun

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I must admit I haven't really come across this unless it's alongside a forum thread about Fabbing pics. These are usually done 'tongue and cheek' style for fun and get people chatting. The silly threads are often the most fun and random to chat on to pass some time.

If it makes them happy then I don't see a problem, it's easy to pass it by if you don't like it

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*"

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*

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By *ighlandFilthyCouple
over a year ago

inverness

I enjoy getting up the Fabs coz I have a lovely natural body I like to showcase! It’s a nice way of people appreciating & thanking you For sharing your intimate body with them

Well that’s what I think anyway!

Happy Fabbing x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will* "

See

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Don't see any issue , everyone is free to manage their profiles as they want

As free as I am to try and understand a public behaviour. And there is no issue - as long as one behaves without malice or lack of consideration of others, then everyone can do what the fuck they like!"

I completely agree OP you are free to try to understand public behavior , like you said without malice or lack of consideration of others

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*

See "

I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics."

Everyone likes a ego boost surely? Human nature! I know I do! Get to my age and take what u can get lmao!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*

See

I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker "

Though spreading it out means more excuses to look

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*

See

I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That said I dont ask for fabs never have x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics.

Everyone likes a ego boost surely? Human nature! I know I do! Get to my age and take what u can get lmao!! "

Behave, I’m sure you can take what you want, not what you get! You’re doing bloody well for any age, let alone yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*

See "

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*

*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*

See

I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker

Though spreading it out means more excuses to look "

Maybe....

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I spend a lot of time trying to display nice pictures of myself.

A photo session does take a full afternoon from getting ready to choosing the right photos. So obviously a ‘fab’ or a message off a picture is the reward. But more importantly it will encourage you to upload more pictures.

So if there is a woman, couple, man or tv that you like their pictures, fab away as that encourages them to post more

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To each their own.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I spend a lot of time trying to display nice pictures of myself.

A photo session does take a full afternoon from getting ready to choosing the right photos. So obviously a ‘fab’ or a message off a picture is the reward. But more importantly it will encourage you to upload more pictures.

So if there is a woman, couple, man or tv that you like their pictures, fab away as that encourages them to post more "

We take a lot of time with our photos too and really enjoy fabs etc having exhibitionist tendencies . Recent events have made us put most of them in friends only though. So no more ego boosts or validation for us

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics.

Everyone likes a ego boost surely? Human nature! I know I do! Get to my age and take what u can get lmao!!

Behave, I’m sure you can take what you want, not what you get! You’re doing bloody well for any age, let alone yours! "

Aww thank u! U kind x x

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