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Im I missing something??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am i missing something?

What is it about kik or snap chat? I have spoken to many people on here and a lot go straight into "Have you got kik" ect.

Just asking!!

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By *-and-mCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Just easier to chat really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just easier to chat privately and share pictures on the likes of kik

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though "

Fancy moving this to kik?

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By *-and-mCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though "

Would love to kik sometime!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont use any outside platforms to speak to people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so is it any better than chatting on here ? I'm guessing from a ladies point of view receiving so many massages its easier?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I think because the live picture , that way they can verify you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok just reloaded it I'm convinced ...didn't take long lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think because the live picture , that way they can verify you "

Also you can get notifications if you're like me and forget to check messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier to talk on but also for some reason all my kik conversations seem to die a slow death... Maybe it's when they realise I don't send nudes idk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I should give it a go just not into my phone pinging and ponging all the time...ha I should be so lucky! Lol

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Kik is a way of chatting off site without giving out your number. Sensible way to go if trying to chat but can't log on to site.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

Fancy moving this to kik? "

See that's not quick at all! Love too

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

Would love to kik sometime! "

Deffo yes!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"It's easier to talk on but also for some reason all my kik conversations seem to die a slow death... Maybe it's when they realise I don't send nudes idk "

Definitely, I’ve found that the minute you go on kik, the demands for photos begin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though "

I agree with this.

I personally won't to chat to anyone off here until I get to know them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok I'm guessing that people who ask too quick are just after quick pic/vid thrills in real time. So best to chat in here first. Jesus social media fries my melon sometimes

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I think because the live picture , that way they can verify you

Also you can get notifications if you're like me and forget to check messages lol"

Don't understand what you mean but myself i got verifications meeting in person

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Ok I'm guessing that people who ask too quick are just after quick pic/vid thrills in real time. So best to chat in here first. Jesus social media fries my melon sometimes "

I would say is not any diferent type here in the site than type in any other app and same aply to video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am i missing something?

What is it about kik or snap chat? I have spoken to many people on here and a lot go straight into "Have you got kik" ect.

Just asking!!

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I have kik as I'd rather not give out my phone number.

Can be difficult to chat on here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier to talk on but also for some reason all my kik conversations seem to die a slow death... Maybe it's when they realise I don't send nudes idk

Definitely, I’ve found that the minute you go on kik, the demands for photos begin."

But then you block

Good way of removing the chaff from the wheat

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I think because the live picture , that way they can verify you "

You can send live pictures on here through messages. Verifications are given when meeting or webcamming. Pictures could be fake as they could take pictures of anybody and make out it’s them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

Fancy moving this to kik?

See that's not quick at all! Love too "

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I think because the live picture , that way they can verify you

You can send live pictures on here through messages. Verifications are given when meeting or webcamming. Pictures could be fake as they could take pictures of anybody and make out it’s them"

Completely agree with you , that's why i always say there's no diference between type here or in any app , is same .

Same with video

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Its sometimes easier to organise meets. Snapchat is a good way of proofing who you say you are.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I only move to kik when we have got to the stage of arranging a meet

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Its sometimes easier to organise meets. Snapchat is a good way of proofing who you say you are."

Why would be easier on Snapchat than in here

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By *oungalpha20Man
over a year ago

North West /Cumbria


"Its sometimes easier to organise meets. Snapchat is a good way of proofing who you say you are.

Why would be easier on Snapchat than in here "

Not everyone using cams on here. And snapchat you can video call.

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

I agree with this.

I personally won't to chat to anyone off here until I get to know them. "

Totally agree! As soon as you go off site you lose the protections the mods offer.

I'll happily go to other sites once we've had a social meet. But not before.

I guess it's different for females. We're so used to assessing how a situation could go bad and we're always aware of who'll offer some protection.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

I agree with this.

I personally won't to chat to anyone off here until I get to know them.

Totally agree! As soon as you go off site you lose the protections the mods offer.

I'll happily go to other sites once we've had a social meet. But not before.

I guess it's different for females. We're so used to assessing how a situation could go bad and we're always aware of who'll offer some protection. "

This ^

Plus its way too intrusive...you only have to give a couple of people your kik and the next thing you know your phone is blowing up at all hours with demands for pics, sexting when your trying to work, and no concept that you might have an actual life...i like keep conversation here so i can switch off when i need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have kik or any other

Not into long conversation about sex

Prefer to meet and do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it confirms interest.. some people ask way too quick though

I agree with this.

I personally won't to chat to anyone off here until I get to know them.

Totally agree! As soon as you go off site you lose the protections the mods offer.

I'll happily go to other sites once we've had a social meet. But not before.

I guess it's different for females. We're so used to assessing how a situation could go bad and we're always aware of who'll offer some protection. "

Thats it exactly. If someone says something inappropriate or against site rules they can be reported but thats not as easy on kik ect...

I understand that it works for some but I also don't understand why so many people are so keen to message off the site really quickly into a chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happened to "pen pals'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More personal and snap chat you can do more than on kik

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

I only message/chat on here away from normal everyday life. I tried kik a few years ago which ended up being a nightmare. I’d looked on here and responded to a few messages then needed to get back to the grindstone so shut the page. Not even 2 minutes later I’m getting abuse on kik because I didn’t reply to a message on here that I hadn’t seen. I just thought f**k that and blocked him on kik and then on here once I had 5 minutes. Needless to say I got rid of kik and the profile on here. I not put myself in that situation again, it’s hard enough being a single female on here keeping up with messages as it is. I don’t need to make it any worse by having kik pinging every 5 seconds

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