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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Feeling soppy tonight... What's the most romantic thing you've done?

or whats the most romantic gesture someone has made for you?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Mr took me away on a weekend break. He came home and told to pack a bag and the time to be ready for.

It was fantastic to be surprised like that.

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

Hm... I sent someone a letter and a USB stick with games she loved and couldn't get a hold of, for her birthday!

That's probably the most... The most I can think of, anyway. Took a lot of work and prep to get it all running easily, but well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seriously craving cheese when pregnant and lots of them are “banned”. Partner at the time sourced pasteurised Stilton and Brie from some cheese specialist deli place. So yes. Romantic cheese

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By *ountain of youthMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Didn't have much money for something to do for an ex's birthday so surprised her by taking her to the beach at night as we were both at work in the day, it was January so I told her to wrap up warm and we sat drinking wine and eating a picnic I'd prepared listening to the sea and looking at the stars.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mr took me away on a weekend break. He came home and told to pack a bag and the time to be ready for.

It was fantastic to be surprised like that."

ahh thats soooo lovely! xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The soppiest was probably when I looked after my high school boyfriend's lizard for him while he was away and I hid notes all over his room.

I don't think I've been on the receiving end of anything I would consider particularly romantic but I'm quite happy with small, thoughtful gestures.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was seriously craving cheese when pregnant and lots of them are “banned”. Partner at the time sourced pasteurised Stilton and Brie from some cheese specialist deli place. So yes. Romantic cheese

mega brownie points. xXx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

That is the height of romance in my opinion!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Took an ex to Mauritius for his birthday

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Set two of my friends up on a romantic picnic date with champers in the park, told both of them to meet me and under a gorgeous willow tree and I left them to it. Both had previously enquired about each other and they got married a year later

Love matchmaking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Didn't have much money for something to do for an ex's birthday so surprised her by taking her to the beach at night as we were both at work in the day, it was January so I told her to wrap up warm and we sat drinking wine and eating a picnic I'd prepared listening to the sea and looking at the stars."

Thats like perfection for me.. bet she loved it and really appreciated it x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I wrote N a poem. It wasn't very good, but as I'm usually as romantic as a brick she was quite taken by it

Mr KC

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Took an ex to Mauritius for his birthday "

date me.. lol

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By *um-2-playCouple
over a year ago

North East

Proposed to my wife in a gondola in venice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

MrsHotnotts says it’s when I threw a pint in her mates face for upsetting her by saying she dressed the same as her on a night out and they had a big fight in rock city over it. I think I was pissed and just fed up of them screaming ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did the washing up once

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The soppiest was probably when I looked after my high school boyfriend's lizard for him while he was away and I hid notes all over his room.

I don't think I've been on the receiving end of anything I would consider particularly romantic but I'm quite happy with small, thoughtful gestures. "

i find small thoughtful gestures are just the best.. x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if this counts as romantic...

When I was 20/21, I was going with this girl who lived in the next city for uni. I was only volunteering at the time so I stayed at hers from Saturday night until Tuesday. She worked in a night club at the time so she would leave me at hers on a Saturday evening. She had a laptop and a desktop computer and I would basically play the Sims 2 all evening. One Saturday the monitor packed up. So she said she was popping to the shop, came back a while later with a brand new monitor so I could keep myself entertained.

Not so romantic, but thoughtful...

Current lover gave me his log in details for his FiteTV app when I couldn't make it round to his to watch a wrestling PPV. So now not only can I watch new episodes of our favourite wrestling company when they come out (they're on at about 1am on a Thursday morning on the app but they're not on in the UK til Friday night) but I can also watch all the past episodes & any PPVs he's bought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did the washing up once"

I get the impression your more romantic than that Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the last 2 birthdays Xmas and valentines day J has made me a personalised card full of all our in jokes and his favourite pictures of us. 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wrote a letter to put in (ex) husband’s birthday card every year. Just a sort of reminiscing over things we’d done etc over the year and telling him how I appreciated him etc. I thought it was fairly romantic. Love a proper old fashioned letter

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The most romantic thing we do is go up to rutland water and go into "our" bird hyde we found and just cuddle up watching the birds on the water

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

It’s different, but after a hospital stay I was not able to do much for myself... so a knight in shining armour took me home, bathed me including hair wash, dried me then dressed me in comfy pjs, moisturisered my hands face and feet, brushed my hair and cuddled me all night and set and alarm so he remembered to give me my tablets on time..... Maybe not traditional romantic but it was to me xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

my ex boyfriend did the big romantic gestures but they didnt mean anything as it was the wrong person doing them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so romantic, but a kind gesture.

I bought my ex husband, his missus and my kids tickets to drayton manor for them to spend family time together.

I also buy the step mom mothers day and xmas presents "from the kids"

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

"Not so romantic, but a kind gesture.

I bought my ex husband, his missus and my kids tickets to drayton manor for them to spend family time together.

I also buy the step mom mothers day and xmas presents "from the kids""

this

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not so romantic, but a kind gesture.

I bought my ex husband, his missus and my kids tickets to drayton manor for them to spend family time together.

I also buy the step mom mothers day and xmas presents "from the kids""

That’s very thoughtful and kind. Good on you.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Was Summer 2003 and that night i knew was full moom so i call my girlfriend and told her i would stay a litle bite more surfing and i would be late arriving home . Soon the the sunset over i set in the beach candles and some gifts . I drived home to pick her up and we back to the beach .while she was dressing the wetsuit a asked her to close her eyes , when she open the eyes the candles already on saying i love you , we slept that night on the beach , not the first time but that night the moon light was on our favour with beautiful light .

The most romantic thing i ever felt they have done to me

Switzerland 2000 , Cabanne de la Matz in Thyon 2000 walking to this hotel my girlfriend stopped and she toke my hand to her chest and with her other hand she touch very delicate my face and kissed me, at this exactly moment started rain , felt like that kiss lasted forever in a very sweet and tender way

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I wrote N a poem. It wasn't very good, but as I'm usually as romantic as a brick she was quite taken by it

Mr KC"

Oi! I very much liked the haiku you wrote and yes, it was very lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wrote me stories and made me feel like the only woman in the world. But the most romantic thing was when he wrote me a letter of apology and explanation. In it he also wrote a list all the things he loved about me and our highlights.

It was heartfelt and beautiful.

He ended it by saying he would be at a specific place at a specific time and he would wait on me to decide his fate. If I turned up or not.

Obviously I went.

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By *he BWCMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"Feeling soppy tonight... What's the most romantic thing you've done?

or whats the most romantic gesture someone has made for you? "

Took a lady for long weekend to Portugal four bottles of champagne on the flight and gave her a diamond necklace.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

my house gets really cold and my ex would go have a sit down wee when he woke.

I set my alarm for 10 mind before his and went and sat on the toilet even though I didn't need it so he had a warm loo seat.

That's probably the strangest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my house gets really cold and my ex would go have a sit down wee when he woke.

I set my alarm for 10 mind before his and went and sat on the toilet even though I didn't need it so he had a warm loo seat.

That's probably the strangest "

I’m welling up here!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"my house gets really cold and my ex would go have a sit down wee when he woke.

I set my alarm for 10 mind before his and went and sat on the toilet even though I didn't need it so he had a warm loo seat.

That's probably the strangest

I’m welling up here! "

I'm actually quite romantic and do notes n things, gestures ya know.

Alas my efforts have been wasted so far, so it's made me think I must just come over a needy sap walkover piece of worthlessness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not interested in material gifts but I got a playlist made for me where every song had been carefully selected for a reason. Beautiful

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By *he BWCMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"my house gets really cold and my ex would go have a sit down wee when he woke.

I set my alarm for 10 mind before his and went and sat on the toilet even though I didn't need it so he had a warm loo seat.

That's probably the strangest

I’m welling up here!

I'm actually quite romantic and do notes n things, gestures ya know.

Alas my efforts have been wasted so far, so it's made me think I must just come over a needy sap walkover piece of worthlessness.

Your none of those it just shows that you have a good heart and it's in the right place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my house gets really cold and my ex would go have a sit down wee when he woke.

I set my alarm for 10 mind before his and went and sat on the toilet even though I didn't need it so he had a warm loo seat.

That's probably the strangest

I’m welling up here!

I'm actually quite romantic and do notes n things, gestures ya know.

Alas my efforts have been wasted so far, so it's made me think I must just come over a needy sap walkover piece of worthlessness.

The little things are the best things, better than big gestures. I love getting notes in my lunch box.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I was travelled up the M6 to a friend to hand deliver a Valentines card.

Waited till she left for work and posted the card a few days later she told me not to do anything like as her boyfriend wasn't amused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filed for for divorce

He thanked me later

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich

I’m very lucky hubby has done so many romantic things for me over the years . from a surprise weekend away to making me breakfast in bed ,sometimes it’s the small gestures that are the most romantic and mean so much

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

Heavenly! |The best romantic surprise I've heard of.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

I travelled in to central London and into the multi story to search for his car to put a red rose under his wipers once. And I spent the day in an archive library trawling through microfiche of the back pages of his local childhood newspaper...he’d been a successful cyclist as a kid and his parents didn’t care, so I wanted to find the cuttings for him.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

"It’s different, but after a hospital stay I was not able to do much for myself... so a knight in shining armour took me home, bathed me including hair wash, dried me then dressed me in comfy pjs, moisturisered my hands face and feet, brushed my hair and cuddled me all night and set and alarm so he remembered to give me my tablets on time..... Maybe not traditional romantic but it was to me xx"

Oh my...this sounds beautiful (other than the hospital bit!!!)

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

that's my idea of a perfect day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn’t be there for my ex’s birthday as I was on my best mates stag do, so I arranged for all her friends to come round ours for a party,

I was in Ibiza and arranged with Cafe Mambo that when I FaceTimed her they’d play Happy Birthday and all the staff and customers joined in with us singing it to her.

Then I’d sorted a night out on the town for them all.

I don’t think she missed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my 20s went to Paris on a whim with my girlfriend at the time. In February.

Went to London, got a Eurostar, found a hotel near the Gare du Nord. First night there had a McDonalds with beer (round about the time Pulp Fiction had come out). At the time it was pretty special.

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