FabSwingers.com forum: looked at me

By *untime82 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just curious do most people activate the "Hide on looked at me" setting?

What's your reasoning...invokes too many messages/winks to deal with? Or is this needle just getting deeper into the haystack and lost amongst the numbers

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I leave mine on, I'm a blatant perve

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

As a single woman, it generates more messages. I am not complaining about the messages, I just don't want to generate any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I switch from on and off just depends what I’m doing haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave mine on, I’ve got nothing to hide when I perve

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"As a single woman, it generates more messages. I am not complaining about the messages, I just don't want to generate any more."

I just looked at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had mine on for quite sometime but I’ve switched it off recently

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

If I don’t stay in stealth mode, guys message asking why I looked and didn’t message them

It’s not a nice conversation to explain I looked and didn’t want to message afterwards

It just saves the same repeated conversations and bruised egos

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I echo the ‘don’t want any more messages’ thing from above.

Other than that I’d keep it on xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I just never look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they don’t want you looking at them

It’s the no reply to messages that I do not understand

I always sent messages that compliment them still no reply

Each to there own I guess

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"As a single woman, it generates more messages. I am not complaining about the messages, I just don't want to generate any more.

I just looked at you

Go away

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

I got 10 looked at me on Monday! Not my highest score and mostly blokes, but you've got to be positive

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By *untime82 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Thought that would be the case shame we can't do polls in these forums I'm of the belief you're probably in the majority of...well for women anyway

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I view in Stealth, previously if I checked someone’s profile as they’d looked at me you will sometimes get a message, along the lines ‘did you like what you saw ?’

We all view other people’s profiles for a variety of reasons, I don’t assume if someone has looked at mine it’s because they like me or want to meet. So it’s just easier to stay in Stealth mode.

I’d also like a filter that stops me from being seen online, so I can browse the forums and not get a message because I’m active on the site.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I got 10 looked at me on Monday! Not my highest score and mostly blokes, but you've got to be positive

It will be more than you see, because of us who view in stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had mine on. Learnt that about 10 years ago when I first joined and would get countless messages from guys saying “I see you’ve looked at my profile” then it’s like yeah and yet I still didn’t message you so obviously not someone I wanted to speak to.

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By *untime82 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I view in Stealth, previously if I checked someone’s profile as they’d looked at me you will sometimes get a message, along the lines ‘did you like what you saw ?’

I’d also like a filter that stops me from being seen online, so I can browse the forums and not get a message because I’m active on the site.

I wonder if that explains the random profiles I sometimes come across that have blocked despite never having looked at let alone interacted with them.

Actually scrub that it shows as profile hidden instead

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

"I got 10 looked at me on Monday! Not my highest score and mostly blokes, but you've got to be positive

It will be more than you see, because of us who view in stealth mode

Yeah they're all viewing in stealth mode today for sure.

How's that meant to stroke my ego?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I view in Stealth, previously if I checked someone’s profile as they’d looked at me you will sometimes get a message, along the lines ‘did you like what you saw ?’

I’d also like a filter that stops me from being seen online, so I can browse the forums and not get a message because I’m active on the site.

I wonder if that explains the random profiles I sometimes come across that have blocked despite never having looked at let alone interacted with them.

Actually scrub that it shows as profile hidden instead"

Sometimes without knowing it a guy can look into a profile too many times. Something very innocent but for the person being looked at, can appear to be ‘stalkerish’ so they get blocked. I often look a few times at someone, outside of Stealth it’s me that looks like I’m stalking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am nosey and looking doesn't mean interested so just easier that way

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

As a professional perv , i have a duty to leave it on

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

"As a single woman, it generates more messages. I am not complaining about the messages, I just don't want to generate any more.

I just looked at you

Go away

sad face.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"As a single woman, it generates more messages. I am not complaining about the messages, I just don't want to generate any more.

I just looked at you

Go away

sad face. "

Oh hell, I looked. Socks and sandals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive."

That's called perving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive.

That's called perving

Just call me a dirty perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive.

That's called perving

Just call me a dirty perv

I perv on you

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive.

That's called perving

Just call me a dirty perv

You added the word dirty, I just said perve

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

One, I'm not admitting how much of a pervert I am.

Two, when filters allow people to message, too many people assume that a look means a shag. Sometimes my fingers slip and I didn't even mean to click...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use ninja mode, I don't perv enough for me to want to hide it

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I leave mine on.

What are you gonna do about me viewing your profile? That's right, NOTHING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious do most people activate the "Hide on looked at me" setting?

What's your reasoning...invokes too many messages/winks to deal with? Or is this needle just getting deeper into the haystack and lost amongst the numbers "

Hide! Don't want you noticing a trend to when I'm wanking over your profile.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I even didn't know about this

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We (usually mrs) tend to perv in stealth mode as we had a few guys early on who took a profile view to be an invitation to join us in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive.

That's called perving

Just call me a dirty perv

I perv on you

I noticed

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"We (usually mrs) tend to perv in stealth mode as we had a few guys early on who took a profile view to be an invitation to join us in the bedroom

You mean it isn't?

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always hidden. A lot of time I'm just being nosey. If I want people to know I've looked then I fab their photos.

Mrs x

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We don't bother hiding as we don't get many messages anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always hidden. A lot of time I'm just being nosey. If I want people to know I've looked then I fab their photos.

Mrs x"

I saw you

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Always hidden. A lot of time I'm just being nosey. If I want people to know I've looked then I fab their photos.

Mrs x

I saw you

Haha...I wondered if you would

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"We (usually mrs) tend to perv in stealth mode as we had a few guys early on who took a profile view to be an invitation to join us in the bedroom

You mean it isn't?

Only if you wear the sandals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always hidden. A lot of time I'm just being nosey. If I want people to know I've looked then I fab their photos.

Mrs x

I saw you

Haha...I wondered if you would

Did you see me? Ninja mode activated

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

We are in stealth mode. We don't want people knowing how often we perve on them

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"We (usually mrs) tend to perv in stealth mode as we had a few guys early on who took a profile view to be an invitation to join us in the bedroom

You mean it isn't?

Only if you wear the sandals

Of course, one of the socks will be on the door anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve turned it on, I sometimes like to look at a profile several times and I don’t want to be overly obtrusive.

That's called perving

Just call me a dirty perv

I perv on you

I noticed

Not because of the looked at me thingy tho, eh?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious do most people activate the "Hide on looked at me" setting?

What's your reasoning...invokes too many messages/winks to deal with? Or is this needle just getting deeper into the haystack and lost amongst the numbers "

I didn't even know this setting existed until now, learn something new every day

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I got 10 looked at me on Monday! Not my highest score and mostly blokes, but you've got to be positive

15 today 13 from blokes, one couple and 1 female. But I won’t message them asking them why they didn’t message me. I Leave mine on I’ve nothing to hide. Profiles are there y thy o be looked at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I could stand all the extra attention / mail.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"I view in Stealth, previously if I checked someone’s profile as they’d looked at me you will sometimes get a message, along the lines ‘did you like what you saw ?’

I’d also like a filter that stops me from being seen online, so I can browse the forums and not get a message because I’m active on the site.

I wonder if that explains the random profiles I sometimes come across that have blocked despite never having looked at let alone interacted with them.

Actually scrub that it shows as profile hidden instead

I forget who I have looked at it's not that I am stalking

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"I leave mine on, I'm a blatant perve

Also me

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

If you turn it on, do you show up on the ones that you'd looked at in stealth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave mine on as it makes fuck all difference. My profile is as open as it can be and those who wish to engage message me. If I like somebody I send a message. If they don’t reply I take that as a thank you but no thanks. If they reply with the same then I wish them all the best in their endeavours vanilla or otherwise.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"I leave mine on as it makes fuck all difference. My profile is as open as it can be and those who wish to engage message me. If I like somebody I send a message. If they don’t reply I take that as a thank you but no thanks. If they reply with the same then I wish them all the best in their endeavours vanilla or otherwise. "

Top lad. More should be like you.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I get people looking but they never message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in full 'piss off can't be arsed with anyone' mode atm (one up from stealth mode, one down from profile deleted mode)

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Kept getting blocked for looking too often, doesn't happen now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've disabled it

If I want someone to know I've viewed their profile I'll either fab a pic or send them a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*wink

Damnit

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