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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon

Not seen one of these for ages. Well, at least a day or two!

I shall get the ball rolling:

How many lovers / sexual partners in my life?

More than Cliff, fewer than Mick.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Less than the fingers on both hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve slept with four men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than the number of pegs on my washing line, less than the number of granules left it my gravy tub.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies OP, have I to guess how many lovers or partners you have

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've had penetrative sex with only 2 men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, my guess is bloody thousands!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I wiil be back latter to lose the thread

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


" "

I dont believe you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"More than the number of pegs on my washing line, less than the number of granules left it my gravy tub."

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m a whore according to these numbers

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By *loudF7Man
over a year ago

South East

SebJohnson Mick Hucknell or Mick Jager?

I'm at half a century, cricket wise I could properly be in England's top batting order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than one hand minus a few fingers = My answer

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I've kind of forgotten, which gives you an idea of how memorable some of my shags have been....

(They'd no doubt say the same about me, too )

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've no clue whatsoever

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Well I’m a whore according to these numbers "

Same but I knew that anyway

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Apologies OP, have I to guess how many lovers or partners you have "

No.

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"SebJohnson Mick Hucknell or Mick Jager?

I'm at half a century, cricket wise I could properly be in England's top batting order "

Jagger.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

I dont believe you "

You're right. I'm not embarrassed

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"

I dont believe you

You're right. I'm not embarrassed "

Nor should you be

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"More than the number of pegs on my washing line, less than the number of granules left it my gravy tub.

Same "

Well I’m none the wiser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've honestly never kept track. Not because it's some obsceme number or anything like that - I've just never been the 'notches on the bed post' type.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Jo has been with 3 men and 3 women

I have been with an undisclosed number of women (in my teens! )

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than the number of my fingers and toes, less than the number of hot dinners I've had (and more women than men).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year cor.. One finger

I think I come last for how many fucks.

I was last at the 1500 at school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife had had her fair share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few....

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

None

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"None "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero thank heavens

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE

Any male or fem who has ever done a few summer seasons in any kind holiday resort (or even ski)

Could be answering this in the hundreds

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I don't need a lover i just need a friend " is from Texas

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Ermmm fuck knows is probably the closest guestimate I can make

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ermmm fuck knows is probably the closest guestimate I can make "

Memory gets a bit hazy after 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was trying to remember

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By *inkyRebelMan
over a year ago

Swindon

20 somthing I recon

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

13 x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Only one this year, that's far different than the preceding years

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"13 x"

That’s an unlucky number. Need to get away from it and quick!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"13 x

That’s an unlucky number. Need to get away from it and quick! "

Yes I really do! x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Not seen one of these for ages. Well, at least a day or two!

I shall get the ball rolling:

How many lovers / sexual partners in my life?

More than Cliff, fewer than Mick. "

More that Cliff Michelmore and less than Mick Hucknall? That's an interesting way of describing it.

I'd say more than Mary Whitehouse, less than the 13th Duke of Wybourne (with his reputation!)

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Not into 3 figures yet

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Not into 3 figures yet "

It’s the Star Wars pants holding you back.

Who will boldly go?

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By *ebjonnson OP   Man
over a year ago

Maldon


"Not seen one of these for ages. Well, at least a day or two!

I shall get the ball rolling:

How many lovers / sexual partners in my life?

More than Cliff, fewer than Mick.

More that Cliff Michelmore and less than Mick Hucknall? That's an interesting way of describing it.

I'd say more than Mary Whitehouse, less than the 13th Duke of Wybourne (with his reputation!) "

You know who I mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was to buy each of them a banana from Aldi, I'd get change from 60p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full sex 10...

Sucked more dick than i can count.. god knows..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, so I have tallied up as best I can, from sexual maturity to 24 I had approximately 87 partners, then got married and had 1, so 88 total.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Not as many as we would like but we are working on getting our numbers up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than the number of birthdays I've had, less that the amount of cakes I've eaten

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By *own and countryCouple
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Going to get Town to have more in a session than she has had in year before !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never kept a count. I’d like to add one more though lol

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

The last full time relationship I had in 2012 I was asked this question. Afterwards I was single again. Apparently being number 82 was not a sexy number.

Since then I don’t count. It would be a bit like counting how many times I have been fishing or been on a picnic, activities I like to do, when I have the time

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Less than the fingers on both hands."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less than the fingers on both hands."

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe it is 23 men and 4 women

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Ermmm fuck knows is probably the closest guestimate I can make

Memory gets a bit hazy after 50 "

Yes that’s why I can’t remember, my old age

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont know but when ive tried to work it out logically about 5000 men give or take a couple of 100. Women a lot less about 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not into 3 figures yet

It’s the Star Wars pants holding you back.

Who will boldly go? "

Triggered

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Seriously no idea. Probably hundreds. I have safe sex though and I’m regularly tested - but if the number really matters to someone then I guess they’re not right for me!

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

More than the number of ferrari's I own but less than there are grains of sand on a beach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than katie price and pamela anderson combined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rough idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a rough idea. "

Some people love those types of ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever had penetrative sex with my wife.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

4 guys and 6 women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least triple my age but then I did and do work in the holiday and leisure industry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly how many.

What a bike!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

More than a mickle, less than a muckle

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Are we talking about in an afternoon or all told?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 lovers. Sexual partners??? If I thought about it I could probably come up with a ball park figure but I cant be bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've honestly never kept track. Not because it's some obsceme number or anything like that - I've just never been the 'notches on the bed post' type."

And that’s just another reason you’re my hero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 lovers. Sexual partners??? If I thought about it I could probably come up with a ball park figure but I cant be bothered "

That’s an excellent point. Lovers and sexual partners are completely different....sexual partners, I reckon in the 20’s but I haven’t exactly kept track x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More than the number of pegs on my washing line, less than the number of granules left it my gravy tub.

Same "

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Lovers, maybe 10...

People I've fucked, god only knows, cause I sure don't

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Lost count.

I'm bi so have had sex with men and women, so that doubles the opportunities right from the start

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By *ndy64hMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

20 plus of both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few more than my age just so easy to remember and update

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

lover

noun

a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.

In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Absolutely no idea I've never counted .

Roughly 20 to 30 at a guess

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"lover

noun

a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.

In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list. "

They're not failed if they made you happy at the time.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"lover

noun

a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.

In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.

They're not failed if they made you happy at the time. "

Yes, but they all ended, just the same. And the only common denominator in each one is me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"lover

noun

a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.

In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.

They're not failed if they made you happy at the time.

Yes, but they all ended, just the same. And the only common denominator in each one is me "

If you think you're doing something that sabotages relationships you wanted to continue then sure, make changes. However, it's also entirely possible that it was just a case of incompatibility and that isn't necessarily a failure on either side. It's also entirely possible to find someone you're incredibly compatible with but for you to grow and change as people over time and come to a point where you aren't compatible anymore. There isn't really anything wrong with having many relationships, as long as you're not damaging people in the process and it's not making you miserable.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I think I've had sex with around 20 ladies and the men is very much higher, haven't a clue how many though.

And for sucking cock, average 3-5 a night at Saunas and cruising spots x lots of times over the years plus lots of suck and go meets

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

I could count minw on the foot of a three toed sloth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few cocks

Not sure many of them could be classed as 'lovers'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's had a few cocks. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than Tom Jones but more than Mary Berry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I know is the more cock a woman has had the more I want her used pussy on my cock, and I like it if they've Just been fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2

I was a massive man tart between the ages of 18 and 22, travelling the world, enjoying myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in the region of 200

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 women thats it sad i know

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By *wodoswingCouple
over a year ago

swindon

in the hundreds

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Double figures. I can recall each one, given enough time and thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Triple figures and I definately don't remember half of them.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"lover

noun

a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.

In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.

They're not failed if they made you happy at the time.

Yes, but they all ended, just the same. And the only common denominator in each one is me

If you think you're doing something that sabotages relationships you wanted to continue then sure, make changes. However, it's also entirely possible that it was just a case of incompatibility and that isn't necessarily a failure on either side. It's also entirely possible to find someone you're incredibly compatible with but for you to grow and change as people over time and come to a point where you aren't compatible anymore. There isn't really anything wrong with having many relationships, as long as you're not damaging people in the process and it's not making you miserable. "

Unfortunately, with the last one I'm fairly certain I damaged her, and it's sure as hell made me miserable

I need to take a long, hard look at myself

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I’ve been called a ‘man slut’....

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Between not enough and too many

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

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By *ustysailorMan
over a year ago

lowestoft

Not enough

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