FabSwingers.com forum: I swear men on here don't know the meaning of the word straight

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft "

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve had messages off men asking if they can do things to me, yet their profile says straight looking for women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve had messages off men asking if they can do things to me, yet their profile says straight looking for women

I've had it all and I don't know why more than ever tonight. It's just aggravating me now.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's a "thing" in the gay community to find an up to that point straight guy to corrupt

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's the same with the women! All raving lesbians!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve had messages off men asking if they can do things to me, yet their profile says straight looking for women

I've had it all and I don't know why more than ever tonight. It's just aggravating me now.

If it's aggravating you adjust your filters to block men from messaging

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve had messages off men asking if they can do things to me, yet their profile says straight looking for women

I've had it all and I don't know why more than ever tonight. It's just aggravating me now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you get that?? i can't even meet with a woman as I've not got a review to be verified, but cant get verified until I Meet someone ?????

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It's the same with the women! All raving lesbians!

And I bet none of them like marmalade either!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but we are all fake so meh!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

It’s funnier when they ask you ‘how do you know you’re not gay?’

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It's the same with the women! All raving lesbians!

And I bet none of them like marmalade either!!

Nope! This place is a joke I tell you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many times I have simply answered 'but your profile says straight....'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve had messages off men asking if they can do things to me, yet their profile says straight looking for women

I've had it all and I don't know why more than ever tonight. It's just aggravating me now.

If it's aggravating you adjust your filters to block men from messaging

I think I will do that. It was amusing at first but when they are talking so daft it's annoying.

Like the one who sent me a picture of his arse and then told me that he wasn't gay he just wanted to be bottom.

what the fack man that's just divvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft "

#boasting

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I can assure you. I’m straight. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's the same with the women! All raving lesbians!

Thought I was the only one gutting this kinda attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried getting the spirit level out to check?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you tried getting the spirit level out to check?"

No I never thought about it

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"It's the same with the women! All raving lesbians!

A rave only for lesbians?

Whistles and glow-sticks too?

All socially distanced of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft "

Loads of couples profiles say no Bi men, so they say straight hoping to put themselves on their radar. Playing the field!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least you get that?? i can't even meet with a woman as I've not got a review to be verified, but cant get verified until I Meet someone ?????"

Just do a webcam session with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really grateful that women never get strange messages from men who are disrespectful about what it says on our profiles.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Saw a Fab straight yesterday. Single guys account, said straight of course. One of his pics was a screen shot of his " Fabguys" account picture.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Why not have your filters so guys can't message? Sounds like got into a few conversations with guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe i’m different to most but i couldn’t care less how anyone describes themselves on here. To me it’s all about what they want to do with me now today. That’s how i see sex myself. It’s simply whatever appeals to me at the time. The labelling might suit some but not everyone.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Quite a lot of guys will message you despite you being straight, as so many people have straight on their profile when they are far from it, so they are changing their luck and hoping you are one.

Also some guys are of the mind set that they can suck a 1000 cocks and as long as they don't actually fancy men then they are still 100 percent straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a lot of guys will message you despite you being straight, as so many people have straight on their profile when they are far from it, so they are changing their luck and hoping you are one.

Also some guys are of the mind set that they can suck a 1000 cocks and as long as they don't actually fancy men then they are still 100 percent straight."
. Why do some people have a problem with that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey.. lips are lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft "

What is your interpretation / definition of 'straight'..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I'm actually looking to meet guys

Do you think if I change my status to straight I might get a message?

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I get more messages from supposed straight men asking to suck my cock than any other. Why can't they just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are probably being honest, its a matter of interpretation. Seeing something differently to how you do doesn’t make a person dishonest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tick the box that you don't want to be messaged from, it's pretty simple.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"They are probably being honest, its a matter of interpretation. Seeing something differently to how you do doesn’t make a person dishonest. "

If they aren’t dishonest, then delusional maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics only seem to get a fab from straight guys. What’s that all about???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's straight, and then there's Fab straight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are probably being honest, its a matter of interpretation. Seeing something differently to how you do doesn’t make a person dishonest. "

You either like cock, or you don't lol. Many guys on here as straight, have profiles on fabguys as bi lol, it's dishonest and not a good start.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft "

Why do you not just use your filters to block men messaging.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

Why do you not just use your filters to block men messaging. "

Because there are couples in here who don’t run a couple profile, but seek men to join them

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

Why do you not just use your filters to block men messaging.

Because there are couples in here who don’t run a couple profile, but seek men to join them

Personally if they do not have a couples profile i would avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft "

I am bi but I respect peoples wishes so I never message "straight" guys unless the message me or wink and I like what I see, its just good manners but unfortunately because it's a pretty much Male dominated site you will get it a lot unless you block single men, hope you find what you're looking for, happy swinging.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Your on a site where sexual preferences has many faces. I tend not to bother too much about stuff in here.. there’s a real life out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

Why do you not just use your filters to block men messaging.

Because there are couples in here who don’t run a couple profile, but seek men to join them

Personally if they do not have a couples profile i would avoid."

Then you get the odd "couples" profiles that turns out to be a man wanting a blowjob, the standard "meet me first and prove you like cock" makes me laugh, just ask me for a blowjob, makes things easier

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"At least you get that?? i can't even meet with a woman as I've not got a review to be verified, but cant get verified until I Meet someone ?????"

Try popping into the cam rooms to get a veri. X

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By *eil loves sexMan
over a year ago

nr hull

Me I am not straight I am a lesbian love women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least you get that?? i can't even meet with a woman as I've not got a review to be verified, but cant get verified until I Meet someone ?????

Try popping into the cam rooms to get a veri. X"

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By *ikeHeywoodMan
over a year ago

heywood

Your best bet is to go to a club for socials.

Just chat and be nice and generally people will verify you as genuine

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I never realised there was so many bisexual men there were around till I joined here.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Quite a lot of guys will message you despite you being straight, as so many people have straight on their profile when they are far from it, so they are changing their luck and hoping you are one.

Also some guys are of the mind set that they can suck a 1000 cocks and as long as they don't actually fancy men then they are still 100 percent straight.. Why do some people have a problem with that ?"

Oh I don't have a problem with men sucking cock but If they think they are still 100 per cent straight then I think they are majorly in denial.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Your best bet is to go to a club for socials.

Just chat and be nice and generally people will verify you as genuine "

Be like Mike Heywood, he knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight looking for mm men tvts always makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay men when they message you and just expect that they automatically get a meet and then insult you when you say nah I’m straight etc like my profile doesn’t say that already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called filters guys Mayb your all fab straight and like the attention

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"My pics only seem to get a fab from straight guys. What’s that all about???

body envy or body appreciation...

I think some guys want it all ways, love the flattery and attention then whinge because other men fancy them or want to suck them off..

Lots of gay men have straight identity on here because they recognise thats what lots of gay men want..

Remember fantasy plays quite a part in sex..

As others have said, enjoy it or use the filters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people need to make their minds up.

There are groups of people out there, fighting to receive recognition or a label to find themselves.

And yet there are people who are like "There are no labels, it's all free love baby. Do whatever you want".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

What is your interpretation / definition of 'straight'..?"

A man who isn't attracted to other men and doesn't desire to have sex with them.

But I've come across men who have told me that straight men have sex with men and they're straight but want to be fucked by a man and all kinds of things like this. Surely they're deluded and only fooling themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never realised there was so many bisexual men there were around till I joined here."

Same here it's surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I had a Male profile on here just so I could spy on people and see when they were online without me having to be online myself. Anyway, I had loads of offers to suck my (non existent) dick off guys who had straight and looking for women on their profile.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

What is your interpretation / definition of 'straight'..?

A man who isn't attracted to other men and doesn't desire to have sex with them.

No right or wrong with this, it doesn't really matter what others think, you decide for yourself OP.

Are you not the tiniest bit curious?

Don't die wondering!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sure there are gay and bi guys here but there are also men, including within couples, who only fancy women but find out that they can enjoy some sexual activities with men, despite years of knowing that they are straight. There are also men who like some sex with men but won't acknowledge it in their profiles, because they think or know it will deter some women and couples.

That leaves a sizable number of men who are apparently straight but who have grey margins, around their seemingly black and white presentation of their sexuality. I'm guessing that this is what drives most men to contact each other here - they'll largely be the hidden majority of men who partake in sex with men who are not bi or gay in their outer lives.

Anyone who has an issue with a friendly request can block men, preventing contact. And we can all help to create a society where everybody is free to be who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like talking to Julian Clary....you never get a straight answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fume because people don't fit into others ticky box criteria.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

What is your interpretation / definition of 'straight'..?

A man who isn't attracted to other men and doesn't desire to have sex with them.

No right or wrong with this, it doesn't really matter what others think, you decide for yourself OP.

Are you not the tiniest bit curious?

Don't die wondering! "

If two men are fucking each other then surly they're not straight.

And no it doest make me feel curious at all.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"One just told me that he only meets straight men for sex.

This is so daft

What is your interpretation / definition of 'straight'..?

A man who isn't attracted to other men and doesn't desire to have sex with them.

No right or wrong with this, it doesn't really matter what others think, you decide for yourself OP.

Are you not the tiniest bit curious?

Don't die wondering!

If two men are fucking each other then surly they're not straight.

And no it doest make me feel curious at all. "

So long as you use a spirit level and one of you keeps an eye on the bubble you're all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't see many profiles from women on here saying they're straight while looking for women? I suspect it's something to do with some guys not wanting to admit to themselves they're bi curious, bi or gay.

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