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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys, set yourself as looking for single men for a bit. Without it on, my feed goes back over a week - with it, that drops to under 24 hours.

Fabs would be better if the local feed wasn't filtered, but instead reflected what was going on in the local area - and had updates from everyone, even people you aren't looking for. There wouldn't be this wild disconnect between how people seeking men and people seeking women see the local community, and maybe people would start to self-regulate and realise how they need to stand out.

This won't fix everything but I think it would be a really good change (and I say that with full knowledge that it will be filled with dick pics, but most women don't want that either )

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It might be an interesting experiment to reflect upon. I suppose I don't think about it much, because I capture most groups in my feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh im not bothered by fabs/likes/views

But yeh good tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... we lived in a world where you could actually meet random people and play with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab would be better if you could smell the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember when human interaction was a thing anyone remember that old thing we did when we actually met others covid is destroying the swinging scene what's next virtual meet ups? Members start selling moulds of there own genitals? Hazmat suits for sex I hate how we are running scared over this what ever happened to the blitz spirit eh keep calm and carry on its what us Brits do best in trying times

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If my phone went yes..yes..yes ..oh god yesss when I get a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember when human interaction was a thing anyone remember that old thing we did when we actually met others covid is destroying the swinging scene what's next virtual meet ups? Members start selling moulds of there own genitals? Hazmat suits for sex I hate how we are running scared over this what ever happened to the blitz spirit eh keep calm and carry on its what us Brits do best in trying times "

I've heard my granny say they used to talk to people like face to face. In person.

I said lolz shocked face dancing frog emoji

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember when human interaction was a thing anyone remember that old thing we did when we actually met others covid is destroying the swinging scene what's next virtual meet ups? Members start selling moulds of there own genitals? Hazmat suits for sex I hate how we are running scared over this what ever happened to the blitz spirit eh keep calm and carry on its what us Brits do best in trying times "

Blitz spirit, but for your penis

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I remember when human interaction was a thing anyone remember that old thing we did when we actually met others covid is destroying the swinging scene what's next virtual meet ups? Members start selling moulds of there own genitals? Hazmat suits for sex I hate how we are running scared over this what ever happened to the blitz spirit eh keep calm and carry on its what us Brits do best in trying times "

I'm all about the Blitz spirit. Head down, do what we need to do to beat the common enemy. Sacrifices must be made. Grit teeth, get on with it.

Which seems to be the opposite of "it's just a virus get over it".

I'll use my Blitz spirit. Or, as they say in Australia, put in a bit of hard yakka.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I do this occasionally, purely cos I'm nosy about who is in my local area, If anyone I know crops up I know who to block

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child "

If you had my inbox this morning you would not be saying that!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child

If you had my inbox this morning you would not be saying that!"

Yes I would be saying that

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child

If you had my inbox this morning you would not be saying that!

Yes I would be saying that "

oooh.... new life decision Mr?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child "

I get into certain phases in pandemic celibacy where this would appeal to me a lot

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child

If you had my inbox this morning you would not be saying that!

Yes I would be saying that

oooh.... new life decision Mr? "

I decide life

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"It would be better if the photos were like the pop up books you read as a child

If you had my inbox this morning you would not be saying that!"

Sorry

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Fab would be better if you could smell the pictures. "

So you can preview the lads' bum holes before hand?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab would be better if you could smell the pictures.

So you can preview the lads' bum holes before hand? "

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Fab would be better if you could smell the pictures.

So you can preview the lads' bum holes before hand?

"

If you know, you know

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates "

Neither do I!!!

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!! "

Just direct to your inbox, got it

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!!

Just direct to your inbox, got it "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!! "

This is what I mean! Maybe if men had to stare at the scrolling cockophony they wouldn't contribute to it!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!!

This is what I mean! Maybe if men had to stare at the scrolling cockophony they wouldn't contribute to it! "

Also the bumholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember when human interaction was a thing anyone remember that old thing we did when we actually met others covid is destroying the swinging scene what's next virtual meet ups? Members start selling moulds of there own genitals? Hazmat suits for sex I hate how we are running scared over this what ever happened to the blitz spirit eh keep calm and carry on its what us Brits do best in trying times

I've heard my granny say they used to talk to people like face to face. In person.

I said lolz shocked face dancing frog emoji"

Yup ti's true back in the day you could even sneeze and no one would even bother looking up times were different then I mean as crazy as it sounds back then you could even go into a shop without a mask it was magic

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!!

This is what I mean! Maybe if men had to stare at the scrolling cockophony they wouldn't contribute to it!

Also the bumholes "

Sorry about that

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!!

This is what I mean! Maybe if men had to stare at the scrolling cockophony they wouldn't contribute to it!

Also the bumholes

Sorry about that "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never look at my local feed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No thanks, I don't want cocks in my local updates

Neither do I!!!

This is what I mean! Maybe if men had to stare at the scrolling cockophony they wouldn't contribute to it!

Also the bumholes "

Yes, I did notice this.

It seems a little weird that people "looking for men" get all men, not just men that are looking for them. I also get women in my feed that are straight-up lesbians, not interested in men at all. Why?

The local feed is in a bit of a twilight zone - doesn't really reflect what's going on locally, doesn't really just show you people that are potential matches

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