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Anyone else 2020 been a great year for them

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Ive managed to rip out my kitchen n lounge n fit new one in with ceiling plastered flooring lighting ect and sort my gardened pario slabbed n sorted

Very productive year !

Although as of nov 2019 my daughter stopped taliking to me and ivd not seen her since due to delays in family court coz of the pandemoc

But all in all a prodyuctive one

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Great year no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had better

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I've had better"

Xx

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By *he BWCMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Shittest year ever so far but hey ho.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Its prob been one of my best really in some ways . Earnt money & revamped my house .

Been a busy year in the industry im in aswel

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Challenging. One of those, prove who you are, sink or swim type episodes.

I'm doing ok and taking on way too much. But I'm tired.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being able to visit family

Not been able to visit friends

Awful year

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Not being able to visit family

Not been able to visit friends

Awful year"

I nearly lost a parent and I wouldn't have been able to go to their funeral.

That sucked.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nope, a bag of crap that if I never read the digits 2020 again, it'd be too soon. Annus horribilis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been good and bad the early bad but now on the up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope been a shit one

Both sons lost jobs

One made homeless now living with me but doesn't want to be there

Relationship breakdown due to above

Possibility of bankruptcy

All in all a pretty shit one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its been challenging but iv had my Ash by side though it all.

Iv had worse years but this one is up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope been a shit one

Both sons lost jobs

One made homeless now living with me but doesn't want to be there

Relationship breakdown due to above

Possibility of bankruptcy

All in all a pretty shit one "

I'm so sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope been a shit one

Both sons lost jobs

One made homeless now living with me but doesn't want to be there

Relationship breakdown due to above

Possibility of bankruptcy

All in all a pretty shit one

I'm so sorry "

Thankyou its been a shit one but I've still got my job and trying to sort things with my son and come to terms with the relationship ending have to keep thinking things can only get better

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Shit in some ways, great in others.

Split from a long term relationship, but focusing on getting for and finding and developing me (and I'm much happy for it)

Can't go out socialising and drinking as much (and I rarely drink alone), so I'm saying money, I'm much healthier and I'm focusing on hobbies and learning new skills in the time instead.

Don't get to see my work mates, but not commuting so not using as much fuel, saving more money and seeing more of my kids.

Kids can't see their grand parents, but they have learned to use Zoom so can chat to them easier and more often.

Have to wear masks in shops, but people give me more space.

It is definitely a shit situation, but I believe you can always find some positives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've moved flats. Very happy

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I've survived a hell of a lot worse than this year, so yes im not complaining

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

So so was on furlough from march till end july then we all got made redundant! Started a new job start of sept! But just take it as it comes ! Made some great buddy's on here to talk to! Although my bestie from here died end july on wards and upwards we cant change things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is plenty of days left till new year ..can always inprove....cant get much more fuked up can it ...stay possitive all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Topsy turvy year for a number of reasons ...but events over the years have conditioned me to take them in my stride ..

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I would say I'm some respects its been a rather good year. We've really made the best of it, the sunshine, the beach and the sea (hence many of our 2020 pictures).

But then I remember Chameleons is still close and that sad fact totally over shadows all of the positive things to come out of this year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been the best for anyone, but I've tried to make the best of it. New house, loads of work and a little budding relationship has just reared its head! Can't complain it's not really been that 'awful'.......

Apart from my 2nd positive test has just landed... Here we go again

Ah well, batten down and eat junk food and drink wine and keep away from the human race for a while!! !

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

It hasn't been the best but we have a lot to be thankful for.

Appreciate the simple things in life and you'll feel happier.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

A mixture of sad and good memories so far, a year of change in more ways than one but mostly good, so I can’t complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After losing evh yesterday, I don't see how this year could get worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to be strong but I’m just so tired

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Had a great year thanks for asking new job new outlook .

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had much worse years.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Not been that bad. Saved a packet studied hard and made some new friends. Managed to get away on holiday as well and had a great time. Regret not working on my body or fitness enough though.

Pandemic aside it’s been all good.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I've survived a hell of a lot worse than this year, so yes im not complaining "

Last year 160 nights in Nigeria, much of it in lockdown, almost kid napped twice, malaria, this year is a walk in the park to 2019

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

This has been a sad and stressful year in my eyes and now my mum is in hospital and i am not allowed to see her. Hopefully next year will be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had worse. Actually for me, last year might have been worse than this one.

Discovered a really marvellous interest that has pretty much saved me over lockdown that I probably wouldn't have discovered if it wasn't for lockdown.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

It's been a decent year for me. Got a promotion at work before lockdown, then worked from home so saved even more money and got into a good workout routine at home.

Although I've felt lonely, it just means I've put the extra effort into keeping in touch with friends which I've previously struggled with.

I feel sorry for those that have lost or can't see loved ones though and I hope your situation will improve going forward

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

If I’m honest I think iv grew more as person than I have any other year it’s made me realise what and who is important to me

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I lost the most precious person in my life a few months ago under lockdown conditions so been pretty bloody painful. But I kinda feel her loss gives me a different perspective so I’m hopeful. Weird year

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I'd say your in the minority on this one OP. Really happy someone has found some happiness in this year of crazy

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I've had a productive year, diy ect. It's been great being with my fella and making memories. But the rest has been crap, covid related, everything cancelled, work downturn, loss of money and lack of adding notches to the bed posts.

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By *u11112Man
over a year ago

Loughton

No unemployed and broke, therefore ,couch sleeping at my uncles now.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Aside from not seeing friends and family as much as I'd like and partners working ridiculous shift patterns as a result of Covid, I've had a brilliant year. I met a man and we're very happily in love - I'm poly and it's so perfect and just clicks for me. I've saved a lot of money by not commuting so the mortgage is ever decreasing far more rapidly than I thought. My kitchen is looking beautiful, I'm now contemplating a colour change scheme though. I've been able to develop stronger, albeit different, relationships with people I care about because we've spoken on a level we might not have done without lockdown. And I think as a person, on the whole, I've become far more mellow and happier with who I am. I like me, I'm still a work in progress but I'm comfortable with who I am in a way I wasn't before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set myself some personal development goals during lockdown, passed to career exams and just secured a new role with a great company.

Not too bad but equally, I know of some friends who have had their lives decimated by this pandemic.

Hopefully we come through this soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has been pretty good

Life is going good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For humanity this yeah has been dogshit...but for me personally 2018 was so much worse than 2020.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

pretty fucking wank but I needed one of the big things to happen, so I could change the path I was on. Who knows how many years I'd have wasted otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really dire year

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By *he Yorkshire StripperMan
over a year ago

Laceby

Earlier this year I lost my job, forcing me to move home, split from my girlfriend. I thought I was at rock bottom.

I’ve since got a new job, which has turned out to be better, a new home, which is more homely than my previous one and joined FAB and met with a gorgeous woman, who I’m enjoying spending time with.

There’s definitely a lot of positives to take from this year...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Really dire year "

You have had a bit of a shit one but you've survived it and I believe in you - you'll have a better 2021. x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its been shit for me but ive had worst years

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I want a re-roll on this decade. Not at all how I wanted the roaring 20s: part deux to start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, best year ever. I decided to give up work and I've known more peace and tranquillity than I ever had before. If I hadn't have been forced to stop working and travelling, I would have carried on until the day I drop dead. Plus, I get to spend all the time now with my cats. I'm not sure if that's a good thing or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s been good that people have been made to see how many, many people live their lives regardless of any virus.

Lots of people live alone with no friends or family to support them so no, I have no sympathy for those who’ve had to do it for a few months.

On a personal note, I’ve been lucky enough to still have a job and I feel for those who haven’t and are struggling.

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