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"Why is there so many ignorant people on a social site is beyond me?! Anyone feel the same?" What would you say is ignorant? | |||
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"Why is there so many ignorant people on a social site is beyond me?! Anyone feel the same?" Did someone drop their cheerios on the floor this morning? Or has the dog wee'd on the floor and you stepped in it with just socks on??  | |||
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"Used to be an unwritten rule if you read a message then delete was took as not interested but most read n ignore without deleting the messages so guys get wrong impression " No reply whether opened or not is probably a no... Delete your sent box and forget about stuff instead of torturing yaself over what it means if it's read, not read, deleted blah blah blah... | |||
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"Why is it not?" If you mean not replying, because it's accepted as a Fab norm. It's in the FAQ you should have read when you joined. | |||
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"Why is it not?" If that was for me, it isn't ignorant because some women get so many, they couldn't reply to all. Plus most don't read a profile, so why should people reply to those. | |||
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"Why is it not?" I've just deleted 2 messages without replying, not ignorant at all, neither were within my stated criteria so why would i bother engaging? | |||
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"I find it really ignorant when I have my profile on show, with the entire profile text saying that my inbox is only open because of the forums and that I won't reply to any other messages because I won't be interested in them, yet I still get messages that have nothing to do with the forums. Likewise, I find it even more ignorant when people can't read the FAQ and find out that no reply = not interested." Yes. Not reading profiles, or scattergun messages, is pretty ignorant too. (Before anyone comes at me about filters, my filters are currently set to "no". And it doesn't excuse rudeness by those messaging) | |||
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"Used to be an unwritten rule if you read a message then delete was took as not interested but most read n ignore without deleting the messages so guys get wrong impression " I do believe even the most ignorants they will know straight forwards a msg not replied or not delected but ignored would mean NO simple as that , there's not such thing here as ignorant , what yes exist is some people can't just accept the fact of receiving a NO | |||
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"I find it really ignorant when I have my profile on show, with the entire profile text saying that my inbox is only open because of the forums and that I won't reply to any other messages because I won't be interested in them, yet I still get messages that have nothing to do with the forums. Likewise, I find it even more ignorant when people can't read the FAQ and find out that no reply = not interested. Yes. Not reading profiles, or scattergun messages, is pretty ignorant too. (Before anyone comes at me about filters, my filters are currently set to "no". And it doesn't excuse rudeness by those messaging)" My current profile - when it's on show - is seven words long. Still get messages saying how great my profile and pictures are though  | |||
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"Used to be an unwritten rule if you read a message then delete was took as not interested but most read n ignore without deleting the messages so guys get wrong impression " The wrong impression?!
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If you walk up to me in a bar, talk to me and I ignore you and walk away, you know I’m not interested
If you walk up to me in a bar, talk to me and I ignore you, YOU STILL KNOW IM NOT INTERESTED
Jesus
This winds me up more than it should. I’ve been accused of ‘leading men on’ because I read their message and didn’t delete it straight away
Like ????? How am I leading you on
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"Why is it not? I've just deleted 2 messages without replying, not ignorant at all, neither were within my stated criteria so why would i bother engaging?" THIS!!! I get bombarded by people outside of what I’m looking for. Fortunately the majority try the one message then leave me alone when I just delete it. There are a few however who won’t f*ck off and I end up having to block them. | |||
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"Used to be an unwritten rule if you read a message then delete was took as not interested but most read n ignore without deleting the messages so guys get wrong impression The wrong impression?!
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If you walk up to me in a bar, talk to me and I ignore you and walk away, you know I’m not interested
If you walk up to me in a bar, talk to me and I ignore you, YOU STILL KNOW IM NOT INTERESTED
Jesus
This winds me up more than it should. I’ve been accused of ‘leading men on’ because I read their message and didn’t delete it straight away
Like ????? How am I leading you on
If someone is interested, they will reply to you"Yes is yes. Anything else, assume no unless/ until told yes. | |||
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"Why is there so many ignorant people on a social site is beyond me?! Anyone feel the same?" Like others, we are genuinely curious. What do you class as ignorant?? | |||
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"I find it really ignorant when I have my profile on show, with the entire profile text saying that my inbox is only open because of the forums and that I won't reply to any other messages because I won't be interested in them, yet I still get messages that have nothing to do with the forums. Likewise, I find it even more ignorant when people can't read the FAQ and find out that no reply = not interested. Yes. Not reading profiles, or scattergun messages, is pretty ignorant too. (Before anyone comes at me about filters, my filters are currently set to "no". And it doesn't excuse rudeness by those messaging) My current profile - when it's on show - is seven words long. Still get messages saying how great my profile and pictures are though "Mine is longer but I wrote it for other people's benefit and if you can't do yourself the favour then go away. | |||
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"Why is it not? I've just deleted 2 messages without replying, not ignorant at all, neither were within my stated criteria so why would i bother engaging? THIS!!! I get bombarded by people outside of what I’m looking for. Fortunately the majority try the one message then leave me alone when I just delete it. There are a few however who won’t f*ck off and I end up having to block them. " Yep,it's quite annoying! If i do get a decent message though even if i'm not interested i will reply but even then can get a nasty reply! Was told i was ugly recently because i sent a polite thanks but no thanks message! You can't win!  | |||
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"This is a social site? I keep getting told its a sex site "I keep getting told it’s a swinging site | |||
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"Ok so the intention of the post was initially people not reading profiles and just messaging people regardless of what they are looking for etc but in a way i do find it a bit ignorant when you get a no response as its not hard to say no thankyou is it....but some of you get 100s of messages a day so its understandable! " When you get junk mail in the post, do you write a letter back to them as a thanks? | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like "100% this i agree with | |||
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"Ok so the intention of the post was initially people not reading profiles and just messaging people regardless of what they are looking for etc but in a way i do find it a bit ignorant when you get a no response as its not hard to say no thankyou is it....but some of you get 100s of messages a day so its understandable! When you get junk mail in the post, do you write a letter back to them as a thanks?" Bit daft arent you | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like
100% this i agree with"But you don’t agree with it, if you expect people to reply to everyone? | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like "Well said  | |||
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"Ok so the intention of the post was initially people not reading profiles and just messaging people regardless of what they are looking for etc but in a way i do find it a bit ignorant when you get a no response as its not hard to say no thankyou is it....but some of you get 100s of messages a day so its understandable! When you get junk mail in the post, do you write a letter back to them as a thanks?" Did you miss the first bit explaining why i posted? | |||
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"Ok so the intention of the post was initially people not reading profiles and just messaging people regardless of what they are looking for etc but in a way i do find it a bit ignorant when you get a no response as its not hard to say no thankyou is it....but some of you get 100s of messages a day so its understandable! When you get junk mail in the post, do you write a letter back to them as a thanks? Bit daft arent you" Nope. So, do you? Because I sure as hell don’t, and don’t see why anyone would. | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like
100% this i agree with
But you don’t agree with it, if you expect people to reply to everyone?"I didnt once say i expected it, can you stop trying to argue now? | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like
100% this i agree with
But you don’t agree with it, if you expect people to reply to everyone?
I didnt once say i expected it, can you stop trying to argue now?"I’m not trying to argue, it’s a debate. I’m a lover not a fighter | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like
100% this i agree with
But you don’t agree with it, if you expect people to reply to everyone?
I didnt once say i expected it, can you stop trying to argue now?
I’m not trying to argue, it’s a debate. I’m a lover not a fighter "Welll im a loving your big boobies | |||
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"I think some people's expectations are insane on here! I think we should learn to enjoy fab, go with flow all hippy like
Well said "Thank you! | |||
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