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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a straight guy I only have verifications from women but I do know some guys on here personally and they have said to me and asked me if i can verify them as real and them me completely no sexual and just sort of saying the person is a genuine person nice guy what ever. BUT if you see a veri from a man on a straight guys profile would you see that as oh he clearly meets men and women and isnt actually straight?

Sorry if I waffles on please discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always word it as you met him at a social, or he was part of a group meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could always word it as you met him at a social, or he was part of a group meet. "
an ok idea what if you hide he write ups though would people just assume?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes many would assume you have played with other men

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I wouldn't assume you meet men for sex if you have hidden verris from men.

I would likely assume they are from social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find it pointless really. I don't think anyone would pretend to be a guy on here and I wouldn't take anyone else's word in terms of his personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could always word it as you met him at a social, or he was part of a group meet. an ok idea what if you hide he write ups though would people just assume?"

Seems little point in you verifying someone for them to then hide it. Tbh, we would question it... Hey, your straight, but you have a veri from a guy?? Yeah it was a social, look..

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Thats a difficult one, when I first joined I have a veri from a female, but I'm straight but people assumed because I won't show it that I had a bi encounter, so I'd say yes if they won't show it they will assume

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Last time i was here - my first veris were from a group social so came from men, women and couples.

From 0 - 17 veris overnight. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last time i was here - my first veris were from a group social so came from men, women and couples.

From 0 - 17 veris overnight. Lol"
yer but your a legend wing man lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Last time i was here - my first veris were from a group social so came from men, women and couples.

From 0 - 17 veris overnight. Lol yer but your a legend wing man lol"

I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last time i was here - my first veris were from a group social so came from men, women and couples.

From 0 - 17 veris overnight. Lol yer but your a legend wing man lol

I know. "
I'm just a wookie

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Last time i was here - my first veris were from a group social so came from men, women and couples.

From 0 - 17 veris overnight. Lol yer but your a legend wing man lol

I know. I'm just a wookie "

But this wookie is my wingman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last time i was here - my first veris were from a group social so came from men, women and couples.

From 0 - 17 veris overnight. Lol yer but your a legend wing man lol

I know. I'm just a wookie

But this wookie is my wingman. "
very true

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

You can simply show them on your profile to show it was a social meet, why hide it then fret over it, no need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people so hung up on verifications they can have a negative effect as well as a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the verification states that you know the person socially then it quite self explanatory and I wouldn't read anything more in to it.

OP do you feel that by having or giving a verification to a male that you may be thought of as having played with that person, and therefore judged?

You may have had a MMF play night for example and the other male supported you in the meet but didn't play with you. This is also very acceptable.

Maybe I have too much of an open mind in some situations but I truly don't see any issues in relation to your OP.

Hope this helps

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can simply show them on your profile to show it was a social meet, why hide it then fret over it, no need "

But what happens if they block him or leave fab ?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I find verifications for single men a bit pointless. Who would pretend to be a single man on here? How priveledged do people think they are? On the Fab pecking order, they are only one up from bots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find verifications for single men a bit pointless. Who would pretend to be a single man on here? How priveledged do people think they are? On the Fab pecking order, they are only one up from bots. "
so high on your list I see lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You can simply show them on your profile to show it was a social meet, why hide it then fret over it, no need

But what happens if they block him or leave fab ? "

Then he can add to his profile with “I have verifications from guys that were purely social meets”, no need for any drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes many would assume you have played with other men"

99.8976%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can simply show them on your profile to show it was a social meet, why hide it then fret over it, no need

But what happens if they block him or leave fab ?

Then he can add to his profile with “I have verifications from guys that were purely social meets”, no need for any drama "

And how many would belive that on a male profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes many would assume you have played with other men

99.8976% "

Is that all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes many would assume you have played with other men

99.8976%

Is that all lol "

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"You can simply show them on your profile to show it was a social meet, why hide it then fret over it, no need

But what happens if they block him or leave fab ?

Then he can add to his profile with “I have verifications from guys that were purely social meets”, no need for any drama

And how many would belive that on a male profile? "

Why wouldn’t they believe it? People to socialise on here (well they did )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are put off by the way I run my profile, that is their choice

I won't be losing any sleep over it

Some might say my profile is overly cautious and lazy

I would argue that they are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be on the safe side. You could say, "I met this gentleman at a social. But I definitely didn't suck his cock..."

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I always read verifications, so if it showed you'd met a guy and it didn't explain it was a social, I'd assume you'd played with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can only give a verification to someone if you have actually met them in person or seen them on cam. If I saw that on your profile I would assume you had met a male friend but not necessarily that you have had sex with them. Fab isn't all about sex and the big socials are mixed so men give other men veris.

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