FabSwingers.com forum: Why

By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Why must when guys message me that have to put something derogatory about the fact that I'm black like give me that black ass it will not make me message you back.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some people are awful. I'm sorry

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Because they are arseholes.

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By *he-DuchessWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

They get off on it. Some like to message me and tell me how fat i am. Some people are just awful, that's it.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sadly, this site brings out the worst in some people.

It's much easier to type something that you would never dare say face to face

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"They get off on it. Some like to message me and tell me how fat i am. Some people are just awful, that's it. "
well its bloody awful and they need to have respect because I have had enough off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dayum! Just give me that ass!

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Sadly, this site brings out the worst in some people.

It's much easier to type something that you would never dare say face to face

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if you wouldn't say it in real why say it at all

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Those who try to bring you down are already beneath you.

Take no notice of the lowlifes.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"They get off on it. Some like to message me and tell me how fat i am. Some people are just awful, that's it. well its bloody awful and they need to have respect because I have had enough off "

I think the best bet for ladies, is to be the one to do the messaging, and block men from contacting you first.

You also need a thick skin to deal with Fab.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Sadly, this site brings out the worst in some people.

It's much easier to type something that you would never dare say face to face

if you wouldn't say it in real why say it at all "

No idea... I don't get it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why must when guys message me that have to put something derogatory about the fact that I'm black like give me that black ass it will not make me message you back. "

I would suggest to block him and then don’t be upset. Build a wall using the bricks thrown

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Those who try to bring you down are already beneath you.

Take no notice of the lowlifes."
most definitely it's just the fact that's all the messages I get just highlighting the fact that I'm black and not a person

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Sadly, this site brings out the worst in some people.

It's much easier to type something that you would never dare say face to face

if you wouldn't say it in real why say it at all "

Because they're cowards

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Those who try to bring you down are already beneath you.

Take no notice of the lowlifes. most definitely it's just the fact that's all the messages I get just highlighting the fact that I'm black and not a person "

Well there are just pathetic. Block and move on. Try not to take it to heart.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I think porn and the lot's of music references that are demeaning to women have a lot to answer.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think porn and the lot's of music references that are demeaning to women have a lot to answer."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block."

I used to get messages from black guys who’s first message to me was asking me if I liked BBC?

I thought it was sad that they felt the need to ask that straight away

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block."
exactly I'm a person first and my skin colour second

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block.

I used to get messages from black guys who’s first message to me was asking me if I liked BBC?

I thought it was sad that they felt the need to ask that straight away

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I know right like try making a actual conversation

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block. exactly I'm a person first and my skin colour second "

Your skin colour shouldn't feature as a thing at all imo ... you are a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fetishising skin colour is a perennial flashpoint on the forums.

Some people think it's okay. The silver lining is that it makes it really easy to them out of they put it right in their first message.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block.

I used to get messages from black guys who’s first message to me was asking me if I liked BBC?

I thought it was sad that they felt the need to ask that straight away

I can't stand it either, I think have yourself some respect dude, there's surely more to ya than that?!

I don't think it will be helping the "There's more to me" cause much, and in fact it promotes treating someone as if their skin colour is the most important thing about them.

It's very sad indeed

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block. exactly I'm a person first and my skin colour second

Your skin colour shouldn't feature as a thing at all imo ... you are a person"
well people think that and its really sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block.

I used to get messages from black guys who’s first message to me was asking me if I liked BBC?

I thought it was sad that they felt the need to ask that straight away

I often get sent those messages and my response is always that I am attracted to the person not the skin colour.

Her x

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I get talk of wanting to fuck white pussy from a lot of black and Asian men.

I think they clearly place more importance on skin colour than I do and on that basis alone we wouldn’t be compatible.... and I ain't here to be fetishised unless I choose to be, which I don't.

I think it's lack of social etiquette really and lack of humanity and respect.

Yep, all I am is white pussy.

Block. exactly I'm a person first and my skin colour second

Your skin colour shouldn't feature as a thing at all imo ... you are a person"
well people think that and its really sad

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By *etanoiaWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"They get off on it. Some like to message me and tell me how fat i am. Some people are just awful, that's it. "

I get this as well x

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Fetishising skin colour is a perennial flashpoint on the forums.

Some people think it's okay. The silver lining is that it makes it really easy to them out of they put it right in their first message."
well they should try harder because they won't get far

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By *he-DuchessWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm with you. Some people are just garbage.

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By *irth VaderMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Report them.

Get them banned and make Fab a more tolerant place to frequent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree so much!

I hate those messages.

“You’re a lovely chocolate woman”

“I’ve never fucked black pussy”

“I’ve never had a black chick do you want to be my first”

“Love your big black tits”

It’s so cringeworthy and horrible to read.

I doubt these guys say to white women “Love your big white tits” so I do wonder why they do with black women!

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I'm with you. Some people are just garbage. "
absolutely are

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I agree so much!

I hate those messages.

“You’re a lovely chocolate woman”

“I’ve never fucked black pussy”

“I’ve never had a black chick do you want to be my first”

“Love your big black tits”

It’s so cringeworthy and horrible to read.

I doubt these guys say to white women “Love your big white tits” so I do wonder why they do with black women! "

And yet talking about BBC is seen in a positive light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Report them.

Get them banned and make Fab a more tolerant place to frequent. "

Fabs doesn't ban people for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree so much!

I hate those messages.

“You’re a lovely chocolate woman”

“I’ve never fucked black pussy”

“I’ve never had a black chick do you want to be my first”

“Love your big black tits”

It’s so cringeworthy and horrible to read.

I doubt these guys say to white women “Love your big white tits” so I do wonder why they do with black women!

And yet talking about BBC is seen in a positive light"

It’s seen in a positive light by some.

Seeing the beauty of Black women or Asian women is fine, but when you message them and have to put their race before anything it becomes cringeworthy.

Many men are happy to refer to themselves as BBC, which means they’re happy with the label. That’s their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are alot of assholes on here.

I don't know what these fools hope to get out of bringing your race into it.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I agree so much!

I hate those messages.

“You’re a lovely chocolate woman”

“I’ve never fucked black pussy”

“I’ve never had a black chick do you want to be my first”

“Love your big black titan

It’s so cringeworthy and horrible to read.

I doubt these guys say to white women “Love your big white tits” so I do wonder why they do with black women! "
oh my godess I can't tell you have much I hate them messages and when I asked them why did you say that and they say oh didn't mean it that way like what other did you mean it

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"They get off on it. Some like to message me and tell me how fat i am. Some people are just awful, that's it.

I get this as well x"

I don't understand it you clearly both have amazing bodies.

To the OP It saddens me that some people cannot see past skin colour and get to know the beauty inside.

I wouldn't ever dream of being derogatory to anyone regardless of skin, race, size or sexuality and if I did so inadvertently I would be horrified

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"They get off on it. Some like to message me and tell me how fat i am. Some people are just awful, that's it.

I get this as well x

I don't understand it you clearly both have amazing bodies.

To the OP It saddens me that some people cannot see past skin colour and get to know the beauty inside.

I wouldn't ever dream of being derogatory to anyone regardless of skin, race, size or sexuality and if I did so inadvertently I would be horrified "
thank you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think a lot of people who are very attracted to you mistake telling you what goes through their mind for an appropriate compliment. They don't get that people don't like to be talked to in such base way.

Somebody described Hannah as a slut recently and I was criticised for not taking it as a compliment.

If you want a proper compliment step this way because you look lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been chatting to Odie, I can confirm that she is indeed lovely. And gorgeous too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love porn but I do think some people get their stupider ideas from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont give it a second thought.

they doing you a favour letting you remove them from the process.

block, forget, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why must when guys message me that have to put something derogatory about the fact that I'm black like give me that black ass it will not make me message you back. "

People are shit. Lots of guys think about the content of melanin in your skin, or your ethnicity, to be nothing more than a porn category. Ignore them, and focus on the ones that actually show some brains.

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