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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

a swingers club or an organised social event. Judging by some of the threads I feel like the only one.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I social event only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going."

Far as I know there are none where I live

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We all start somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a swingers club or an organised social event. Judging by some of the threads I feel like the only one. "

Yes, definitely, you're the only one

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live "

So you may have to travel a bit. Stay over at a cheap hotel.

Do some research.

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I havent either my friend but I wouldn’t feel comfortable at the minute either , time wasn’t built in a day, get chatting to people and find out what / clubs are happening in the future where you will have built up a circle of friends / connections whom you will likely meet at the club / event

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all start somewhere"

Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been to social events but not clubs. I have no desire to go to a club at all though. Social events were fun.

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By *uzy1969Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've been to a couple of hot tub parties but never been to a club

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope, never been....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t so you’re not alone OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I've never been either

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I haven’t. It did interest me but I’m not sure I fancy it anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t been invited a few time’s

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We all start somewhere

Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials. "

When the pandemic is over clubs will hopefully resume. You can go on your own.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live "
There are a few that are local to Swansea.

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

No, not yet

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

You're not alone I've not been either, not sure if it's out of my comfort zone or if my ugly mug would even be allowed in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all start somewhere

Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials.

When the pandemic is over clubs will hopefully resume. You can go on your own."

At this rate a lot will be gone we just lost one up here in scotland

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all start somewhere

Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials.

When the pandemic is over clubs will hopefully resume. You can go on your own."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live There are a few that are local to Swansea."

Clubs or socials

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're not alone I've not been either, not sure if it's out of my comfort zone or if my ugly mug would even be allowed in "

It feels out of my comfort zone as well. Once a lady asked me to meet her in a club and I just thought nah that's not the way I want to meet someone.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live There are a few that are local to Swansea.

Clubs or socials "
Socials ..There is only the 1 club in wales and that’s in Newport..Once everything gets back to normal just keep checking in the welsh forum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our adventures never took off due to the Covid. Its certainly been frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live There are a few that are local to Swansea.

Clubs or socials Socials ..There is only the 1 club in wales and that’s in Newport..Once everything gets back to normal just keep checking in the welsh forum.."

Oh, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(puts my hand up)

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By *ssexlad0Man
over a year ago

Essex

I’d love to go. Just not got anyone to go with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent. I'm not sure I could handle the attention!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I've not been to any either OP. Unfortunately clubs are few and far between up here. This year I was planning venturing down south but obviously not happening! Next year it is!!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

We managed a few before lockdown. We were hoping to visit a few clubs this year but it wasn't to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a swingers club or an organised social event. Judging by some of the threads I feel like the only one. "

I haven’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We havnt yet. Looking to when its totally safe though!!!

Sandc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me - either club or social event. Would be interested in a social event when things start up again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to a club which had to shut (pre covid) and I’ve organised a couple of socials in the past.

The socials I went to that I didn’t organise were boring as hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are great fun.

I've done 6 over the years.

Always no pressure and very relaxed.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve never been to either

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I've never been to one

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Never been to a club but went to some social s good fun great friends

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


"(puts my hand up)"

Hand up what though?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I've never been to one "

Liar

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By *TnTxCouple
over a year ago

North West

We haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been! But would love to give it a go once and if it ever restarts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live "

Why do you need to go to one where you live. People from as far as America come to the MLS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interestingly I went to a ‘local’ social with a friend but it was quite intimidating. Not their fault, the tiny venue was full, but it was obviously quite clicky. We sat outside (in a different part of the venue) but despite having tried to walk into the ‘social’, and then checking for free seats a couple of times, we weren’t approached so had 1 drink and left.

It was a shame, as I get that this is the best way to make friends.

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By *ance1502Man
over a year ago

London


"a swingers club or an organised social event. Judging by some of the threads I feel like the only one. "

I've never been to a swingers club or party either and I feel a bit left out. You can tell it's a community. Looking forward to going to one but would like to go in a couple instead of alone

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I've never been to one

Liar "

Little ol me?

To be honest clubs aren't for everyone. So OP you might not be missing much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved the club I used to go to.

It was such a pity it had to close,

It was my heaven on earth place and I miss it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Not a Club or Social kind of gal. Was just here for one to one fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my scene,one one one is.the only way I roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been to both........ but not my scene really, always felt uncomfortable...... prefer 1on1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I social event only."

What s it like to be in a social events.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've never been to either. Not our thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was due to MLS in May

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been to either. Maybe one day if this chaos ever ends

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We haven't, have no aching desire to either

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. Not done either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure you're not, OP.

Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.

Far as I know there are none where I live

Why do you need to go to one where you live. People from as far as America come to the MLS"

I don't need to go to one where I live but it would of been nice to know. Maybe I will visit one on my travels someday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t!

But I can’t wait to!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been to both........ but not my scene really, always felt uncomfortable...... prefer 1on1"

This is the thing I know that I would feel uncomfortable going to one as a single man. I'm uncomfortable when I meet stranger to one lol so I guess a club would be a different level.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I’ve never been to either "

Nor me. I daren’t go on my own

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

Me too.... I'm new to all this

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By *onyboyABCMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Been once club 29 thought it was rubbish 4 people there put me off really, anyone one been there and there thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been to either

Nor me. I daren’t go on my own "

Happy to accompany

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a swingers club or an organised social event. Judging by some of the threads I feel like the only one. "

I haven't, talked about it with the missus tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a Club or Social kind of gal. Was just here for one to one fun."

Same for me.

I definitely wouldn't go to a club after seeing that cringey channel 4 doc.

It's my idea of hell

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've not would love to though is on my list but need someone to go with who I really trust x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m yet to go to my closet club. I definitely want to at some point but it’s a little daunting doing by myself haha

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Never been. Coming on fab is like being in a social club...good enough for me at the mo.

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