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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Chat with a bi guy or couple to see if you really want to go down that path

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dare say guilt is a major factor in you not taking the leap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat with a bi guy or couple to see if you really want to go down that path "

I've chatted to a few, I get so close then bottle it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dare say guilt is a major factor in you not taking the leap"

Yeah, possibly. That's actually a fair shout to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy! "

Same as with a woman I’d expect!!!

Find some one we’re you both click and then enjoy.

Best of luck.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

Same as with a woman I’d expect!!!

Find some one we’re you both click and then enjoy.

Best of luck.

T"

Ty. I'll keep looking and try to be braver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

Same as with a woman I’d expect!!!

Find some one we’re you both click and then enjoy.

Best of luck.

T

Ty. I'll keep looking and try to be braver"

I don't think it's a matter of bravery, I think it's a matter of conscience

Winning the mental battle is much tougher than winning the physical

I think 'talking' to people creates more issues than it resolves

You're better off getting up one day, finding a guy who is looking to meet there and then and just doing it

If you don't, I can pretty much guarantee you will talk yourself out of it each and every time

Once you have done it though, you need to prepare for the come down that follows

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

Same as with a woman I’d expect!!!

Find some one we’re you both click and then enjoy.

Best of luck.

T

Ty. I'll keep looking and try to be braver

I don't think it's a matter of bravery, I think it's a matter of conscience

Winning the mental battle is much tougher than winning the physical

I think 'talking' to people creates more issues than it resolves

You're better off getting up one day, finding a guy who is looking to meet there and then and just doing it

If you don't, I can pretty much guarantee you will talk yourself out of it each and every time

Once you have done it though, you need to prepare for the come down that follows"

There's a come down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try and find someone understanding and willing to take it easy or it could be a very bad experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

Same as with a woman I’d expect!!!

Find some one we’re you both click and then enjoy.

Best of luck.

T

Ty. I'll keep looking and try to be braver

I don't think it's a matter of bravery, I think it's a matter of conscience

Winning the mental battle is much tougher than winning the physical

I think 'talking' to people creates more issues than it resolves

You're better off getting up one day, finding a guy who is looking to meet there and then and just doing it

If you don't, I can pretty much guarantee you will talk yourself out of it each and every time

Once you have done it though, you need to prepare for the come down that follows

There's a come down? "

Oh yeah, for me, that guilt kicked in pretty quickly

Doesn't mean I don't want more, but just cos you've noshed a guy off and fulfilled an urge, it's not all happy days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"try and find someone understanding and willing to take it easy or it could be a very bad experience"

Thank you. I'll keep looking x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

Same as with a woman I’d expect!!!

Find some one we’re you both click and then enjoy.

Best of luck.

T

Ty. I'll keep looking and try to be braver

I don't think it's a matter of bravery, I think it's a matter of conscience

Winning the mental battle is much tougher than winning the physical

I think 'talking' to people creates more issues than it resolves

You're better off getting up one day, finding a guy who is looking to meet there and then and just doing it

If you don't, I can pretty much guarantee you will talk yourself out of it each and every time

Once you have done it though, you need to prepare for the come down that follows

There's a come down?

Oh yeah, for me, that guilt kicked in pretty quickly

Doesn't mean I don't want more, but just cos you've noshed a guy off and fulfilled an urge, it's not all happy days"

Lol, good point

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By *oom_4_1_MhoreCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I think for me its the same, I get a feeling of disgust afterwards but I think part of this is dealing with and accepting my own sexuality. There something built in to straight or curious guys that its wrong to suck cock...but its not wrong its bloody glorious. But finding a couple or a guy who is willing to take it slow is key. I would identify as bi but I hate kissing guys and could never have a relationship with a guy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think for me its the same, I get a feeling of disgust afterwards but I think part of this is dealing with and accepting my own sexuality. There something built in to straight or curious guys that its wrong to suck cock...but its not wrong its bloody glorious. But finding a couple or a guy who is willing to take it slow is key. I would identify as bi but I hate kissing guys and could never have a relationship with a guy x"

Sounds exactly like me. I like the ide of watching my missus with someone, and me playing with him too

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By *oom_4_1_MhoreCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"I think for me its the same, I get a feeling of disgust afterwards but I think part of this is dealing with and accepting my own sexuality. There something built in to straight or curious guys that its wrong to suck cock...but its not wrong its bloody glorious. But finding a couple or a guy who is willing to take it slow is key. I would identify as bi but I hate kissing guys and could never have a relationship with a guy x

Sounds exactly like me. I like the ide of watching my missus with someone, and me playing with him too"

Its so hot. Zoe gets so wet watching and joining. Just go for it.

Whats the worst that could happen?

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By *art1968Man
over a year ago

stafford

I did it by going to a male sauna, best thing I ever did, confidence is there now to take to the next level

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think for me its the same, I get a feeling of disgust afterwards but I think part of this is dealing with and accepting my own sexuality. There something built in to straight or curious guys that its wrong to suck cock...but its not wrong its bloody glorious. But finding a couple or a guy who is willing to take it slow is key. I would identify as bi but I hate kissing guys and could never have a relationship with a guy x

Sounds exactly like me. I like the ide of watching my missus with someone, and me playing with him too

Its so hot. Zoe gets so wet watching and joining. Just go for it.

Whats the worst that could happen? "

Very true. Now I'm just horny haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did it by going to a male sauna, best thing I ever did, confidence is there now to take to the next level "

Nice mate. Like it

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

As the tiger king stated, your half way there thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As the tiger king stated, your half way there thinking about it. "

Hahaha... Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy! "

Search Fab for the biggest BBC & jump on it from a great height , you’ll either love it or hate it , hope info helpful ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do I need to do to take the plunge into the bi world? I fantasise about bi stuff, just can't take the leap of faith. Love my missus to watch me with a guy!

Search Fab for the biggest BBC & jump on it from a great height , you’ll either love it or hate it , hope info helpful ? "

Hahaha perfect

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