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over a year ago

Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) ."

It's been ages since I've been to Asda.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

It's been ages since I've been to Asda."

I've always thought of you as a Waitrose man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

It's been ages since I've been to Asda.

I've always thought of you as a Waitrose man"

The Shrewsbury Waitrose is closing down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supermarkets aside I do find it fun to try and drop "fab" into conversation. You never know it might get a reaction.

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over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

It's been ages since I've been to Asda.

I've always thought of you as a Waitrose man

The Shrewsbury Waitrose is closing down. "

Move then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

It's been ages since I've been to Asda.

I've always thought of you as a Waitrose man

The Shrewsbury Waitrose is closing down.

Move then"

I like it in Shrewsbury too much. There's so many swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

It's been ages since I've been to Asda.

I've always thought of you as a Waitrose man

The Shrewsbury Waitrose is closing down.

Move then

I like it in Shrewsbury too much. There's so many swingers."

Shrewsbury is a fantastic place Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since starting out into the whole swinging scene over 9 years ago we have often had moments where we have wondered if certain people are also into the lifestyle, it could be a neighbour, a fellow shopper in asda, or even a family member or friend,

it may be that we have thought this because they look familiar, as in like someone on a photo we had seen previously on here, or they may pass us by and give us that look as if they might recognise us. Or maybe it's things they might of dropped into conversation that have made us wonder, or things they do or have done.

Just the things that before starting out on the swinging scene we would of never given a second thought. And if you do suspect if they are also into the lifestyle do you do anything about it? Or do you just carry on regardless?

For instance we are pretty sure the couple next door to us are swingers, and also one of the wife's friends too, now it will probably turn out that we are totally wrong so we would prefer not to make a fool of ourselves haha, so asking them is out of the question, normally we wouldn't bother but with the couple next door they are a tad older than us both but they are definitely our cup of tea so to speak lol, and the wife's friend, well we both think she's hot, but she's not that close a friend (at the moment anyway lol) for the wife to just drop it into conversation, so how would you go about it?

And also what sort of things do you notice which may make you wonder if they could also be into the lifestyle?? Do you pass people whilst shopping and think they look familiar or has a neighbour or family member/friend done or said something that is caricaturist of someone who's into the lifestyle?

One thing that is for sure is that we have definitely found out that more people closer to home are definitely into the lifestyle than we would of ever imagined, a couple of family members and friends (and not all know that we know lol) .

It's been ages since I've been to Asda.

I've always thought of you as a Waitrose man

The Shrewsbury Waitrose is closing down.

Move then

I like it in Shrewsbury too much. There's so many swingers.

Shrewsbury is a fantastic place Jim "

Yes!

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