FabSwingers.com forum: Can you be nice to other people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without wanting to fuck them?

Please provide evidence to support your answer

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like talking to people. Sharing ideas, thoughts, humour...all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When men are just nice to women, there’s usually an agenda behind it.

If people were genuinely nice, they’d be nice to everyone regardless of gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When men are just nice to women, there’s usually an agenda behind it.

If people were genuinely nice, they’d be nice to everyone regardless of gender."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly just like interesting conversation.

Especially when you can be honest and open which is a rarity!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. I'm only nice if I want something.

I'm horrible to retail and waiting staff because it's their job to serve me and I don't really want to fuck any of them, it's cold in the freezer aisle and smells of chips behind the bins at McDonald's.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Harry met Sally scenario.

Yes, if I gauge that the other person doesn't like me in that eay, no matter what I think.

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

Yes after a lifetime in the friend zone you get used to being friends with whomever.

Madhatter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, only be nice when you want something from them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always nice, until someone gives me a reason to not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God the world would be a sad place if you could only be nice to those you want to fuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hopes nephew but if I was a girl I’d be her nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I'm a complete cow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. I'm only nice if I want something.

Same bruh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God the world would be a sad place if you could only be nice to those you want to fuck...

Welcome to Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God the world would be a sad place if you could only be nice to those you want to fuck...

Welcome to Fab.

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God the world would be a sad place if you could only be nice to those you want to fuck...

Welcome to Fab.

I’ve just realised who you are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God the world would be a sad place if you could only be nice to those you want to fuck...

Yup

Sadly, that’s apparently the only reason why some people are nice

I think if you’re a 10/10 being nice to the 2/10s then you’re just being nice and don’t want to fuck them, according to some people’s logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without wanting to fuck them?

Please provide evidence to support your answer "

I sell agricultural necessities to farmers, got to be nice to them, but not to the point I've ever wanted to fuck a farmer

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes of course I can.

Evidence.

Passing polite words with the till assistant, the one with lank greasy hair and nose singeing B.O.

Helping my elderly neighbour bring in her shopping and almost trapping her spaniel ear tits in the door.

Helping the little boy over the road with his homework.

Standing back to allow the gentleman on his disability scooter to pass by me in the entry and smiling sweetly as his saddle bag buttocks undulated their way across both my knees.

I carried on with my day without wanting to fuck any of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nice to everyone, what's wrong with that? Doesn't mean I want anything. But if anyone's offering to come make me a bacon roll

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I was nice to PoF like, all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer dogs to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God the world would be a sad place if you could only be nice to those you want to fuck...

Welcome to Fab.

I’ve just realised who you are!

Albert

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was nice to PoF like, all the time.

You may have been the only one

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just want to fuck everyone!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just want to fuck everyone!

Jo.Xx "

I thought I was special

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't set out to be nice - just set out to be me, if people find me nice, kind, thoughtful, respectful, considerate etc then I've got "me" right

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I always try to be nice. But people mistake my gruff glaswegian accent and sarcastic comments as not being nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always try to be nice. But people mistake my gruff glaswegian accent and sarcastic comments as not being nice"

I love a Glaswegian accent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em..."

*fist pumps the air*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em...

*fist pumps the air*"

Funny... I've been practicing the same action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em..."

You mean I’m not the only boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em...

You mean I’m not the only boy

I'm sorry Sam, I didn't want you to find out like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em...

You mean I’m not the only boy

I'm sorry Sam, I didn't want you to find out like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Anyone I've ever replied to in the forums, I wanna fuck em...

You mean I’m not the only boy

I'm sorry Sam, I didn't want you to find out like this

K."

Yeah, her too

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By *rickie-dickieMan
over a year ago

South Durham

Some times one can be too nice.

I had a really, bonny, attractive woman contact me wanting me to be abusive to her.

I'm not really that kind of bloke and seemed to bore her quickly. I find it easier to be polite, with either gender. Even if they're being arsey with me.

I don't see the point in being rude or shitty with people unless it's as a last resort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try my best to be nice. Thats because Im a nice person. I only want friendship.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Always treat others how you would like to be tret is my policy

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"I was nice to PoF like, all the time.

You may have been the only one "

He did say that in bed once, yeah.

...wait what was the question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was nice to PoF like, all the time.

You may have been the only one

He did say that in bed once, yeah.

...wait what was the question?"

What

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

"I always try to be nice. But people mistake my gruff glaswegian accent and sarcastic comments as not being nice

I love a Glaswegian accent

Really now. Quite often asked to say curly wurly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Of course you can. In relation to fab why should this environment be any different to how you treat people in everyday life, it shouldn’t be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am super nice to everyone .. It leads me into all sorts of awkward sticky situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course you can. In relation to fab why should this environment be any different to how you treat people in everyday life, it shouldn’t be.

Summed up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the thousands of people I've met and worked with over many years,I've only slept with 2.

Mind you I never asked the others.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every."

Tried sending you an invitation but I'm out of your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm just lovely to everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Out of the thousands of people I've met and worked with over many years,I've only slept with 2.

Mind you I never asked the others.

Out of the thousands of people I've met and worked with over many years,I've only slept with 2.

I did ask all the others.

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

Spent my adult life travelling the world with work

I tend to find being nice keeps you alive

Even in England

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Plenty on this thread I wouldn’t fuck or let them fuck me, I’d still be nice when I turned them down.

(I have the feeling it would be reciprocated by others on the thread as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm just lovely to everyone "

Oh and I don't really want to fuck anyone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every.

Tried sending you an invitation but I'm out of your age range

Even I don't know what that is. Hang on I'll look at my profile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every.

Tried sending you an invitation but I'm out of your age range

You lied !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always try to be nice. But people mistake my gruff glaswegian accent and sarcastic comments as not being nice

I love a Glaswegian accent

Really now. Quite often asked to say curly wurly "

Yup, love it

My ex FB was from Glasgow, I had a video of me sucking his cock and in the video he moans and says ‘oh fuck, good girl’ and just hearing that would make me wet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every."

I was gonna reply but now it looks like I’m only doing it cause you had a tantrum

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I just want to fuck everyone!

Jo.Xx

I thought I was special

Oh, but you are my Queen!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just want to fuck everyone!

Jo.Xx

I thought I was special

Oh, but you are my Queen!

Jo.Xx "

xxxx

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

"I always try to be nice. But people mistake my gruff glaswegian accent and sarcastic comments as not being nice

I love a Glaswegian accent

Really now. Quite often asked to say curly wurly

Yup, love it

My ex FB was from Glasgow, I had a video of me sucking his cock and in the video he moans and says ‘oh fuck, good girl’ and just hearing that would make me wet

Used to have an ex that would melt at the knees when I called her a durty little slut

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. Being pleasant, nice, friendly to people is a natural part of how I am. So I'm nice to everyone (unless I'm cranky, then I'll apologise) and always try and bring a little joy.

I think most people are like that really, and that's great.

There aren't very many people I want to fuck though, so yeah, i can be nice to people without wanting to fuck them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes. Being pleasant, nice, friendly to people is a natural part of how I am. So I'm nice to everyone (unless I'm cranky, then I'll apologise) and always try and bring a little joy.

I think most people are like that really, and that's great.

There aren't very many people I want to fuck though, so yeah, i can be nice to people without wanting to fuck them"

You're lovely even though you won't fuck me. Yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. Being pleasant, nice, friendly to people is a natural part of how I am. So I'm nice to everyone (unless I'm cranky, then I'll apologise) and always try and bring a little joy.

I think most people are like that really, and that's great.

There aren't very many people I want to fuck though, so yeah, i can be nice to people without wanting to fuck them

You're lovely even though you won't fuck me. Yet

That seems threatening

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Yes. Being pleasant, nice, friendly to people is a natural part of how I am. So I'm nice to everyone (unless I'm cranky, then I'll apologise) and always try and bring a little joy.

I think most people are like that really, and that's great.

There aren't very many people I want to fuck though, so yeah, i can be nice to people without wanting to fuck them

You're lovely even though you won't fuck me. Yet

That seems threatening "

She's welcome to take it (cough) how she likes

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Yes. Being pleasant, nice, friendly to people is a natural part of how I am. So I'm nice to everyone (unless I'm cranky, then I'll apologise) and always try and bring a little joy.

I think most people are like that really, and that's great.

There aren't very many people I want to fuck though, so yeah, i can be nice to people without wanting to fuck them

You're lovely even though you won't fuck me. Yet

That seems threatening "

Kinda does

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Yes. Being pleasant, nice, friendly to people is a natural part of how I am. So I'm nice to everyone (unless I'm cranky, then I'll apologise) and always try and bring a little joy.

I think most people are like that really, and that's great.

There aren't very many people I want to fuck though, so yeah, i can be nice to people without wanting to fuck them

You're lovely even though you won't fuck me. Yet

That seems threatening

She's welcome to take it (cough) how she likes"

Oooofffftttt thanks....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every.

Tried sending you an invitation but I'm out of your age range

You lied !

Ok I confess im prepared to lie to shag everyone I know. Pffft I mean does that make me a bad person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and generally am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am nice to lots of people that I will never want to fuck... So yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am nice to lots of people that I will never want to fuck... So yeah

^^This^^ But it has been misconstrued in the past.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I m always nice to people . Because it’s a sex site there’s no reason to treat people with disrespect

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Of course you can. In relation to fab why should this environment be any different to how you treat people in everyday life, it shouldn’t be.

Yep! Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always nice to everybody, whether I want to fuck them or not. It's my middle name.

I'm not nice to fucking idiots though, they don't deserve it.

An example of my "niceness"... I answered a message today from some random guy asking unmentionable things of me.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Im nice and friendly unless you upset me and that takes some doing.

Yet blunt and to the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to jizz on your head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

I've spoken to a few folk who I don't want to shag

No point in being mean

It serves for nothing x

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I always get accused by work colleagues or friends of flirtig when I'm chatting to guys just because I'm actually listening and conversing with them. I find it really odd that if I talj to a guy the same way I would a female it's seen as I must have alterior motives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always nice to everyone, and believe me I don’t want to fuck most of them x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Is ignoring my post nice ? No!

Would you all fuck me ? YES !

Hypocrites........ each and every.

I was gonna reply but now it looks like I’m only doing it cause you had a tantrum "

Nice would do it anyway!!

I put two exclamations for tantrum effect !!!

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm nice to nearly everyone it's very difficult to prove unless you hold a conversation with me. All my veris are social meets were no fucking was done lol

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I mainly drift between nice and depressed by humanity, i hope mostly people see me as nice. If i only talked to people because i expected to get a fuck, i wouldn't ever talk to anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mainly drift between nice and depressed by humanity, i hope mostly people see me as nice. If i only talked to people because i expected to get a fuck, i wouldn't ever talk to anybody."

You are a lovely person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mainly drift between nice and depressed by humanity, i hope mostly people see me as nice. If i only talked to people because i expected to get a fuck, i wouldn't ever talk to anybody.

You are a lovely person.

Yup. Polly is one of the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol"

What

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands

I am always nice, however this is the place where both exist and tend to amount to the same thing....is that not why we are here?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Easily. It's nice to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think i am

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m always polite to everyone

(Fancy a fuck?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without wanting to fuck them?

Please provide evidence to support your answer "

I was nice to the copper who pulled me at 98mph on the M62, i didn't want to fuck him and was doing my best to stop him fucking me.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Yes I talk to people all the time without any altaria motives.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Being nice is fricking easy.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Being nice is fricking easy.

Sometimes just sometimes it's no so easy

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Being nice is fricking easy.

Sometimes just sometimes it's no so easy

Ai if they’re fricking arrogant twats then they can fuck off! Other than that tho I’m lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to anyway

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Being nice is fricking easy.

Sometimes just sometimes it's no so easy

Ai if they’re fricking arrogant twats then they can fuck off! Other than that tho I’m lovely

Nah you’re an arse.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Being nice is fricking easy.

Sometimes just sometimes it's no so easy

Ai if they’re fricking arrogant twats then they can fuck off! Other than that tho I’m lovely

Nah you’re an arse.

No it’s just that you’re a grumpy twat!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want to anyway "

You want to what?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Being nice is fricking easy.

Sometimes just sometimes it's no so easy

Ai if they’re fricking arrogant twats then they can fuck off! Other than that tho I’m lovely

Nah you’re an arse.

No it’s just that you’re a grumpy twat!

True dat cutey pie

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

I'm always nice to people

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Being nice is fricking easy.

Sometimes just sometimes it's no so easy

Ai if they’re fricking arrogant twats then they can fuck off! Other than that tho I’m lovely

Nah you’re an arse.

No it’s just that you’re a grumpy twat!

True dat cutey pie

Stop pinching my lines you nob!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant prove it, but I am always nice and dont want to fuck anyone

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Your never to important to be nice to others

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Sure - Fucking is quite low on the list of things that being nice gets you. I’ll often leave thank you notes to the house maids in hotels, wouldn’t fuck them though.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Absolutely.

I like people in general but there's a relatively small number of those I would want to have sex with.

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