FabSwingers.com forum: I am curious to know

By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Would you marry for friendship or hold out for love...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. Never again

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Never settle. Ever. You won’t be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Been married, no plans to do it again and I don't think anyone should unless completely in love with each other

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By *unning planMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Love

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

No happy out the way I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not planning on it but I would need one hell of a lot of both to say yes again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither and both.

I married my best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been married, but would it not make sense to marry someone that you were in love with and also your best friend?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I've never been married, but would it not make sense to marry someone that you were in love with and also your best friend? "

This ^

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'd hope my best friend would love me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still waiting...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We were friends before we got together, so I think we have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love is a lot of things, and I'm not convinced waiting for some movie-like "one" is healthy. If you like someone's company, enjoy fucking them etc then that's probably enough - don't settle, but don't hold out either. Over time, it becomes more about what you (and they) put in anyway (and, of course, dumb luck - some things just don't work out, even when all the people involved are awesome).

My wife is my best friend. I love her, and she loves me - but I value that friendship so much more.

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By *isslushWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Would you marry for friendship or hold out for love..."
hold out for love

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"I've never been married, but would it not make sense to marry someone that you were in love with and also your best friend? "

Some people have marriage pacts with their best friends, both single when we are 50/60/70 let's get married agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never marry again but I married for love and friendship and now still have the wonderful friendship and love but not “in love”.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Neither! I can have ‘friends’ without having to marry and love is very fickle... it lasts as an as it lasts ...

It’s never been on my agenda. I have very few ‘in love’ friends, most of them stick together out of habit

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Neither and both.

I married my best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been married, but would it not make sense to marry someone that you were in love with and also your best friend?

Some people have marriage pacts with their best friends, both single when we are 50/60/70 let's get married agreement"

Ah, okay. I wouldn't personally have an arrangement like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in love with someone and we share our lives yet he never wants to get married again.

That took me some time to accept but now I have come to terms with it and I just get on with enjoying our life together.

Her x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Interesting thread and opinion.

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Interesting thread and opinion. "

Lots of interesting replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am in love with someone and we share our lives yet he never wants to get married again.

That took me some time to accept but now I have come to terms with it and I just get on with enjoying our life together.

Her x"

But he does make you coffee while you're on the bath on Fab

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It would take someone that makes me feel an obscene amount of both of those things to get me to walk down that aisle

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I am in love with someone and we share our lives yet he never wants to get married again.

That took me some time to accept but now I have come to terms with it and I just get on with enjoying our life together.

Her x

But he does make you coffee while you're on the bath on Fab

Mr KC definitely does and did this afternoon

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

I was married to the love of my life and he died after battling and beating cancer. Chemo damaged his heart.

I’d love someone to share my life with again, however there is little hope of that so for now I’m having a hell of a lot of fun

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have married for love twice.

Was definitely second time lucky. Friendship is not a reason to marry.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I married my best friend.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, not doing that again.

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