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Offered money do you see it as an insult or not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not that I ever would but how many of you get random messages offering you cash, mostly shadow pics which I don’t reply to n if they took the time to read my status it states that, but just had 3 messages all one after each other offering me cash.

I’m not sure if it’s a compliment or an insult either way it’s not happening n a bit annoyed that I think they must think I’m desperate or something, just was curious on other people’s opinions

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No idea. I just block

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Most probably dreamers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No idea. I just block

"

They are definitely blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens all the time. Report and block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happens all the time. Report and block. "

Oh I just blocked them not reported

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I just report

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Not that I ever would but how many of you get random messages offering you cash, mostly shadow pics which I don’t reply to n if they took the time to read my status it states that, but just had 3 messages all one after each other offering me cash.

I’m not sure if it’s a compliment or an insult either way it’s not happening n a bit annoyed that I think they must think I’m desperate or something, just was curious on other people’s opinions "

Whatever they offered I'll top it by a tenner

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Personally I think anyone that offers a stranger money for sex has little or no regard for that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being asked for money. Yeah, total insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think anyone that offers a stranger money for sex has little or no regard for that person."

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them "

I've done this.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me.

I was offered 1400 quid by a guy I would have otherwise slept with. I reported him and blocked him.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Someone once messaged me saying they’d pay £200 and travel from London to lick my nipples.

I laughed as I counted the cash...... joking obviously.

That did make me laugh, but yeah any offered if cash for sex annoys the hell out of me, swift block

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Being Scottish ( I like money) I might be tempted, but on the other hand I'd think 'why'??

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't get insulted by it. As quickly as I read it, I forget it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think of them as disrespectful fantasists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this..... "

you promised never to reveal our conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this all of the time

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this.....

you promised never to reveal our conversation "

Oops.....

At least I didn't tell them how far I got you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another bloke message me and offered cash to suck my cock. More cash again for me to fuck him. Before I even got chance to do anything the message disappeared so guessing he was wiped from site

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I see it as sad and pathetic but I supposed there are some on here male and female who would take them up on the offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this.....

you promised never to reveal our conversation

Oops.....

At least I didn't tell them how far I got you..... "

i took the offer off the table.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this.....

you promised never to reveal our conversation

Oops.....

At least I didn't tell them how far I got you.....

i took the offer off the table. "

Because I offered to go under it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

"

Yes it does make sense, however for me personally I would also want to pay even if it’s just a round of drinks n then there’s no presumption or expectations n an equal playing field

If that also makes sense

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

"

Paying for it is a transaction agreed before the act..well for me it is.

If I am out on a social I like to buy a drink. I have no problem splitting the bill...hotel costs. I would be uncomfortable if someone else paid for everything. That really isn't my style at all.

If someone travels a fair distance I have no probs paying for a hotel. Well, provided it's close to payday!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

"

Paying for dinner or drinks on a date does not entitle someone to sex. That's the difference.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this.....

you promised never to reveal our conversation

Oops.....

At least I didn't tell them how far I got you.....

i took the offer off the table.

Because I offered to go under it "

Please be aware, no money has been offered or requested. This is a joke....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

Paying for dinner or drinks on a date does not entitle someone to sex. That's the difference."

Yes this too

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest


"I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

Paying for dinner or drinks on a date does not entitle someone to sex. That's the difference."

Totally agree.

Just wondered how others see it.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this.....

you promised never to reveal our conversation

Oops.....

At least I didn't tell them how far I got you.....

i took the offer off the table.

Because I offered to go under it

Please be aware, no money has been offered or requested. This is a joke...."

We hear you..we know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has probably been debated many times... But at what point does being a gentleman turn into paying for sex?

You arrange a social/meeting and to me the gentleman thing to do is offer to pay for the drinks or the meal. But if all went well and more happened would that be considered payment of a different form?

Where's the line between paying for sex and being a gentleman?

Hope that makes sense

"

No it makes little sense . I met my best friend for breakfast on Monday and paid for it... does that mean she needs to shag me now

If a guy buys me drinks on a social, I’ll insist buying the next round or the next meet. Whether I am planning on getting them into bed or not he certainly hasn’t paid for it!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"say 50.

then when they come back say anyone who would pay 50 will gladly pay 100.

keep upping it all day with each reply.

have some fun with them

I've done this.....

you promised never to reveal our conversation

Oops.....

At least I didn't tell them how far I got you.....

i took the offer off the table.

Because I offered to go under it

Please be aware, no money has been offered or requested. This is a joke....

We hear you..we know "

Because of my sweet and innocent nature, right?

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By *ert n BerylCouple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Beryl has been offered money on many occasions. We just laugh then report and block

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

Not sure if I see it as an insult as such myself because sex work is work but it sure seems bizarre. If a person is not mentioning that they do sex work (probably has to be done in oblique ways due to the recent oppression of sex workers by SESTA-FOSTA) but surely there are still ways to indicate and it would be clear from a person's profile that they are interested in being remunerated.

Messages like that are either someone trying to impose on your time because they were too lazy to read your profile or otherwise a fantasist who is titillated by the idea - these are the only explanations that I can think of.

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