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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We think most of us can only plan something with others next year now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say "

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say "

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party...."

Ooooh theres a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say "

Lord no thank you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up? "

Posh is selling tickets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Lord no thank you "

Don’t wanna ruin my birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up? "

I am so up for this

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

Posh is selling tickets "

I have to pay to attend my wife's birthday party?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Tough one isn't it.

It's good to have something to look forward to, yet at the same time it can lead to more stress and frustration when those plans don't come to fruition for whatever reason, especially those out of our own control.

Only plan I'm making is to not bother making plans and roll with the flow of work n sleep

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Lord no thank you "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'll start planning once there's a vaccine timetable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

I am so up for this

Her x"

Wanna go together?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

Posh is selling tickets "

I'm enterprising....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Tough one isn't it.

It's good to have something to look forward to, yet at the same time it can lead to more stress and frustration when those plans don't come to fruition for whatever reason, especially those out of our own control.

Only plan I'm making is to not bother making plans and roll with the flow of work n sleep"

And my birthday orgy in February. Possibly not next year but we shall see

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

Posh is selling tickets

I'm enterprising...."

All proceeds go to Covid-19 rehabilitation and mental health charities for those who've had to isolate, yes?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

Posh is selling tickets

I'm enterprising....

All proceeds go to Covid-19 rehabilitation and mental health charities for those who've had to isolate, yes?"

Um. Er. Um.

I would...... but

How about 50-50?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

Posh is selling tickets

I'm enterprising....

All proceeds go to Covid-19 rehabilitation and mental health charities for those who've had to isolate, yes?"

You know I'm not being serious right x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We think most of us can only plan something with others next year now."

I think you're right. March at the earliest maybe even later. Its taken a while to accept and adjust hasn't it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Now this sounds like a plan, where do I sign up?

Posh is selling tickets

I'm enterprising....

All proceeds go to Covid-19 rehabilitation and mental health charities for those who've had to isolate, yes?

Um. Er. Um.

I would...... but

How about 50-50? "

Be a good girl, Posh, we'll sort out your Fab wardrobe fund another way. There's so much need and a very limited pool of resources for helping people.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party...."

My birthday?!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anyone can really say when things can be planned for to be honest. Nobody knows what will happen.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party....

My birthday?!

Jo.Xx "

Joint birthday!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party....

My birthday?!

Jo.Xx

Joint birthday!"

10000%

It's my 40th again!!

Jo.Xx

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party....

My birthday?!

Jo.Xx

Joint birthday!

10000%

It's my 40th again!!

Jo.Xx "

And mine!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don’t think anyone can really say when things can be planned for to be honest. Nobody knows what will happen. "

Agreed.

In the meantime, I'm doing everything I possibly can to help myself. Reduce the final burden, hopefully speed up treatment/ vaccines.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party....

My birthday?!

Jo.Xx

Joint birthday!

10000%

It's my 40th again!!

Jo.Xx "

I'm giving in to it....42! Xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Mass Lounge Orgy in February I say

Otherwise known as Posh's birthday party....

My birthday?!

Jo.Xx

Joint birthday!

10000%

It's my 40th again!!

Jo.Xx

And mine! "

February birthdays are awesome!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Meanwhile back to the op...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't planning anything yet but yes I would say looking at next year is possible.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I know some are planning things for before then but I think, as difficult as it is, waiting until March (at the earliest is sensible). I'm disappointed socials won't be going ahead for some time but such is life. I'll just have to social at socials with a vengeance once I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to the imaginary world.

I think that if your planning an orgy you're going to need somewhere bigger than a lounge lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think that planning on a big scale needs to wait. Next year, even the year after. Whenever. We need to wait until the world is settled better. That might mean vaccine, that might mean randomly covid has poofed into thin air (I'm having the dream and won't listen to any of the pesky logic on that one).

But I think also private plans can be made for sooner. If you find someone you trust and who trusts you there is no reason that a bubble buddy has to be someone you've met prior to all this.

As long as people are sensible and careful, and don't take risks with the health of those around them, relationships can still begin even through this time. They'll just start slower than they used to.

Humans need humans. I think there will likely be strong relationships that come out of this situation, where people have spent a lot of time connecting in ways other than sexually before getting down and dirty. I also think there will be a lot of relationships end and a lot of them that are reassessed, but as a single person obviously I'm looking at it from my angle more.

Just a thought. Sorry for the length.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think that planning on a big scale needs to wait. Next year, even the year after. Whenever. We need to wait until the world is settled better. That might mean vaccine, that might mean randomly covid has poofed into thin air (I'm having the dream and won't listen to any of the pesky logic on that one).

But I think also private plans can be made for sooner. If you find someone you trust and who trusts you there is no reason that a bubble buddy has to be someone you've met prior to all this.

As long as people are sensible and careful, and don't take risks with the health of those around them, relationships can still begin even through this time. They'll just start slower than they used to.

Humans need humans. I think there will likely be strong relationships that come out of this situation, where people have spent a lot of time connecting in ways other than sexually before getting down and dirty. I also think there will be a lot of relationships end and a lot of them that are reassessed, but as a single person obviously I'm looking at it from my angle more.

Just a thought. Sorry for the length."

We've definitely got to find a way to assess the risk to ourselves and those around us, as compared to our other needs. It's certainly something I'm confronting hard with my community work at the moment.

I don't know what the answer is. I wish I did. Personally I'm bloody resilient so a year or more of celibacy won't do me any harm (I won't like it, but...). Everyone has different needs, of course. Which isn't to say that people should do whatever they like - they need to weigh up the potential harm of their coping mechanisms, and, if it's too much, then seek out professional assistance for their mental health.

I guess - ha - I'm extremely fortunate in that, psychologically, this isn't my first, second, or twelfth fucking rodeo.

Pandemic - anxiety - flashbacks - depression - helplessness. *swing rolls sleeves up* OK fucker. Bring it.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"We think most of us can only plan something with others next year now."

What's going to change next year ?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I think that planning on a big scale needs to wait. Next year, even the year after. Whenever. We need to wait until the world is settled better. That might mean vaccine, that might mean randomly covid has poofed into thin air (I'm having the dream and won't listen to any of the pesky logic on that one).

But I think also private plans can be made for sooner. If you find someone you trust and who trusts you there is no reason that a bubble buddy has to be someone you've met prior to all this.

As long as people are sensible and careful, and don't take risks with the health of those around them, relationships can still begin even through this time. They'll just start slower than they used to.

Humans need humans. I think there will likely be strong relationships that come out of this situation, where people have spent a lot of time connecting in ways other than sexually before getting down and dirty. I also think there will be a lot of relationships end and a lot of them that are reassessed, but as a single person obviously I'm looking at it from my angle more.

Just a thought. Sorry for the length.

We've definitely got to find a way to assess the risk to ourselves and those around us, as compared to our other needs. It's certainly something I'm confronting hard with my community work at the moment.

I don't know what the answer is. I wish I did. Personally I'm bloody resilient so a year or more of celibacy won't do me any harm (I won't like it, but...). Everyone has different needs, of course. Which isn't to say that people should do whatever they like - they need to weigh up the potential harm of their coping mechanisms, and, if it's too much, then seek out professional assistance for their mental health.

I guess - ha - I'm extremely fortunate in that, psychologically, this isn't my first, second, or twelfth fucking rodeo.

Pandemic - anxiety - flashbacks - depression - helplessness. *swing rolls sleeves up* OK fucker. Bring it."

I know that feeling. Sending hugs. Although you're amazing, so they're really just for support

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Support definitely helps. We all lean on each other. And strength is in community, not on your own.

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over a year ago

newcastle

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