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Masturbation, Is it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so we all know the answer to this, hell no, right?

I guess my question is, how often is acceptable?

Personally I do it three times a day, and I mean every day. Its exhausting... Not just because it can be made to last hours or seconds, depending on the mood, but more that between wanking, I am always thinking about it, or at least at what will make me do it.

I guess it's a state of perpetual horn lol....

Am I normal???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose as long as it’s not interfering with your life, your not upsetting anyone else or causing yourself any physical, emotional or mental harm then crack on and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s wrong I’m fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you really are always thinking about how horny you are, then no, I don't think that's very normal at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess that's the issue, it is 100% messing with my life... My whole waking hours are spent horny, turned on, it is sooooo frustrating!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

If loving me is wrong, I don't want to be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In certain places - yes.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I guess that's the issue, it is 100% messing with my life... My whole waking hours are spent horny, turned on, it is sooooo frustrating! "

Perhaps get a hobby to keep your mind engaged? I find that any unplanned masturbation sessions I have are as a result of boredom more than anything else. Especially when working from home and it's a bit slow

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"In certain places - yes. "

Sainsbury’s = wrong

Bedroom = right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hands haven't gone hairy yet!

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"In certain places - yes.

Sainsbury’s = wrong

Bedroom = right"

Depends whose bedroom it is

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I went to the doctor for an appointment a while back, and after about five minutes he said, ‘I’m sorry to have to tell you this, but you’re going to have to stop masturbating.’

I said ‘Oh my god, why?!’ and he said ‘Well, for one thing I’m trying to examine you.’

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"In certain places - yes.

Sainsbury’s = wrong

Bedroom = right

Depends whose bedroom it is "

Ah yes, one doesn’t want to end up on a register

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally get your point, I'm working from home which doesn't help, but even when out and about, I find myself driving to quiet spots just so I can sort myself out, I either need therapy or a friend with benefits who can keep up lol....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I guess that's the issue, it is 100% messing with my life... My whole waking hours are spent horny, turned on, it is sooooo frustrating! "

Maybe have a little read up about Hypersexuality.

Might be enlightening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a great stress relief for me. Got to look after the mental health. Well it’s a good excuse if anything

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's all I got at the moment and I'm getting myself off at least 3 times a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I 100% will read up on that and thanks for the advice, I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I find masterbating like sex. The more I have the more I want. If I don’t for a few days then I lose interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am quite often work on site alone, and on the days I am on my own I always have a quick wank.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"So I find masterbating like sex. The more I have the more I want. If I don’t for a few days then I lose interest "

I'd have to feel really ill to lose interest in either

It's draining

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

You gotta pump those numbers up

Those are rookie numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you really are always thinking about how horny you are, then no, I don't think that's very normal at all"

I agree, sex should be a part of your life but not your whole life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a lot hornier than me OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess that's the issue, it is 100% messing with my life... My whole waking hours are spent horny, turned on, it is sooooo frustrating! "

If this is true, then it sounds like a form of sex addiction?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've often thought that, but without the sex hey..... Just my bloody luck that!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"I guess that's the issue, it is 100% messing with my life... My whole waking hours are spent horny, turned on, it is sooooo frustrating!

If this is true, then it sounds like a form of sex addiction?"

I'm always horny, wouldn't say it affects my life though. Frustrating with not getting any sex though.

I'd say if it's majorly impacting your ability to function and get your shit done,you should definitely talk to a doctor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until your dry

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By *ad-HunterMan
over a year ago

near Watford / hemel / St Albans

At least once a day upto 3 times so id say yes its essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its terribly wrong and you'll go blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually once a day for me, sometimes every other day and sometimes multiple times a day. My horniness is always there but I like to let it throb for a bit before I give in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not wrong at all like most people I’ve been wfh since March. My wank sessions have peaked and troughs. At the height I was doing 7 or 8 a day and then going for a week with none. That’s settled now and I’m averaging 2 a day would be good to have a wank buddy though! Used to have one, no touching just a good old porn sesh and wank!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK so we all know the answer to this, hell no, right?

I guess my question is, how often is acceptable?

Personally I do it three times a day, and I mean every day. Its exhausting... Not just because it can be made to last hours or seconds, depending on the mood, but more that between wanking, I am always thinking about it, or at least at what will make me do it.

I guess it's a state of perpetual horn lol....

Am I normal??? "

It wrong if you do it in an old sock and leave it in your bottom drawer afterwards

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By *ocialgirlWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It's perfectly healthy and exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very wrong. You’ll go to hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s very wrong. You’ll go blind and your knob will drop off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah we should be fucking every day not wanking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kellogg's cornflakes was invented to stop people doing this..( then ironically put a large cock on the front of the box..)

Eat your cornflakes or it's off to Specsavers for you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anything is wrong to the extent it harms your health and detracts from your function.

So... It depends

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I found myself having a wank while watching the IT crowd the other evening. Is this wrong ( Jen is hot )

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

If there was no wanking I would have no sex.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like it once a day. Maybe a session or two without climax. Makes the evening finale much more enjoyable.

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By *955vintageMan
over a year ago

itchen stoke

Not on a bus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my son got sent home from school for wanking in the classroom..i said "son, thats the 3rd school this year!!!!"

"maybe teaching isnt for you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3x a day is impressive! Don't you get sore?

I am a once a day man myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F**k me.... I have some catching up to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soon changed into a how often thread haha

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