FabSwingers.com forum: Does someone being too local put you off seeing them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I’m asking like when things get back to normal properly and you can meet is it something that puts you off? Personally not for me it makes meeting up (for whatever) easier

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes. I do not meet people local to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has in the past yes.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It puts me off. Small town.

There have been exceptions though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I do not meet people local to me.

Super convenient

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It puts me off. Small town.

There have been exceptions though."

Exceptions being when they’re too gorgeous to let by right? I don’t blame you

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Old saying "Dont S--- on your own doorstep" we never meet locally ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No doesn't put me off in fact its better for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a couple look at my profile who were 'less than a mile', figured they were in the pub around the corner which is very quiet and my local so thought it best to block them.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It puts me off. Small town.

There have been exceptions though.

Exceptions being when they’re too gorgeous to let by right? I don’t blame you "

Actually it wasn't. It started when he lived in the next town. And continued for a bit after he moved here.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Will not meet local small town.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yup. Mr.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Only interested in someone local, the closer the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By *ouplefor funCouple
over a year ago

near kilmarnock

What does every one consider local . We spoke to a couple they said no one closer than 100 miles

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We would probably not meet them.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

No, it’s fine for us.

The South West is not overflowing with Fab locals, however!

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Puts us off a bit

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Not really as I doubt they’d recognise me in Male mode

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I live in Derby, it would be nice to meet someone from otherwhere than the South Coast

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"No doesn't put me off in fact its better for me"

*sells up and moves to Kent

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I think Dave next door prefers golf.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I would be lucky if I can find anyone local

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Doesn't worry us at all - in fact we've had meets with a few local couples and singles.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Wouldn't bother me

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Years ago, when I was single

I used to meet someone 10 mins away, could walk to him.

We realised 1st social that we had met before, going to the same bars /pubs when younger

Never caused any problems meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Been a few on here I've been tempted to contact but they're in the next village, where I used to live.

I'd prefer a few miles, or at least not somewhere I live or have lived.

Not really sure why I give a fuck though

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

I prefer people local to me. I don't meet outside of a 30 mile diving distance now because it makes everything so much easier

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Yes we do not meet local guys; there are a few who just ruin it for all

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

"I live in Derby, it would be nice to meet someone from otherwhere than the South Coast

Love the masks #dcfc

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By *addoggyMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Years ago, when I was single

I used to meet someone 10 mins away, could walk to him.

We realised 1st social that we had met before, going to the same bars /pubs when younger

Never caused any problems meeting. "
ewww someone local to me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I've met someone who lives 10 mins away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no.

if its good for both then why not.

i think id play it as not overwhelm them with contact etc, just wait for them to call you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd look for local ideally, not next door but one mind you but close enough to be spontaneous and not have to plan getting together all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. Definitely. Don't shit where you eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it does put many off, perhaps too close to home?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I prefer local ish. Less driving time = more play time

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By *axwellCouple
over a year ago

south lakes

It's a small town and people will hold it against us doing the jobs we both do . It's not worth the risk..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I prefer local because if I have to drive too long I won’t feel horny no more if the distance is too long, I won’t even want to have sex no more and I will give a lacklustre performance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooo thank you!

Small town where pretty much every other swinger have banged each other.

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By *Mids guyMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

Wish the woman next door was on hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone pretty local would be good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most of the locals have 6 fingers here

I prefer a bit further out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be put off if they lived in my building, but anywhere else wouldn't be a problem

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I might be put off if they lived in my building, but anywhere else wouldn't be a problem

I'll cancel buying the new place then....

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By *ireman28Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire Nottinghamshire

Yes. Anyone in a radius of 5 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might be put off if they lived in my building, but anywhere else wouldn't be a problem

I'll cancel buying the new place then...."

Haha you can just shack up with me for a month or 2 sure while you house hunt

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By *ockandrollaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Only interested in someone local, the closer the better.

Stunning profile wish I was close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Definitely. Don't shit where you eat. "

Good job we live about 3 hours from each other then haha

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes. I don't want local meets

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yes. Definitely. Don't shit where you eat.

Good job we live about 3 hours from each other then haha

He travels three hours for a shit!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re lucky enough to have a crash pad about 30 miles from where I live and work so base searches and meets around there. I have chatted to people more local but would need to establish we definitely don’t know them before sharing face pics or meeting.

J x

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Local wouldn’t bother me in the slightest. I’ve nothing to hide

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Doesn’t bother me. My secret is their secret. I won’t be telling anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if I lived in a city, but there's likeabout 4 people in a square mile around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet anyone local and don't meet locally either.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Yep. Don't s**t on your own doorstep and all that... too much opportunity for drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm torn.. Would be amazing to have someone on my doorstep and available at the drop of my pants

But equally I'm intensely private and would find it awkward if i didn't want to see them any more... Plus I'm alarmed by stories of people coming by when d*unk etc for a booty call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone’s said to me I’m too local before, even after a while chatting. Guess some people are a bit worried about their own privacy and discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, everyone knows everyone in this town

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Depends how local, neighbors probably not, same town yeah

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Not really, I can understand why some wouldn't want to meet someone just down the road so to speak though

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I might be put off if they lived in my building, but anywhere else wouldn't be a problem

I'll cancel buying the new place then....

Haha you can just shack up with me for a month or 2 sure while you house hunt

Sounds like an excellent plan.... oh the things we would get up to!

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By *uriousBiSiMan
over a year ago

aldershot

"What does every one consider local . We spoke to a couple they said no one closer than 100 miles "

Not sure I’d be prepared to travel 100miles

40 miles yeah 100 nah

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By *uriousBiSiMan
over a year ago

aldershot

If you have an FB then close is good

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. My postcode isn’t where I live. I don’t want to meet people where I live due to the job I do. This is for their confidentiality as well as mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup. My postcode isn’t where I live. I don’t want to meet people where I live due to the job I do. This is for their confidentiality as well as mine. "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,I prefer to meet local guys

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"And I’m asking like when things get back to normal properly and you can meet is it something that puts you off? Personally not for me it makes meeting up (for whatever) easier "

Doesn’t put me off at all

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

" Not if I lived in a city, but there's likeabout 4 people in a square mile around here

Haha this is a good point. I live in a city and my area is mostly flats. My full postcode alone easily has over a hundred residents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use it as an excuse, then they can moan about all the best people being miles away.

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By *ohnny3333Man
over a year ago

fleetwood

I dont mind local meets think its good to be open

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I have a rule no meets for, anyone within a 3 mile radius of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how local, the next town I can cope with. On my doorstep so to speak? I've done that, bad idea and lesson learnt.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Nope wouldn’t bother us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People use it as an excuse, then they can moan about all the best people being miles away."

I use it as an excuse. Men seem less offended if I say sorry too far away, rather than saying I don't want to fuck them.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I will deafly tell you if it happens

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely! ...if they live in the same town it’s actually more exciting, but Jason snores in sleeps in the same bed and sex is the last thing on my mind

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We have had meets with our next door neighbour in the past with no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt put me off, used to meet someone around 7 mins away. Was handy.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Yes we live in a market town and everybody knows everybody.

We normally stick to the clubs so the chances of meeting someone local are slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if they're really close. A guy once messaged me from less than 0.1 miles away and it freaked me out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block those within 1 mile just for my own privacy, but apart from that, no, I like locals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block those within 1 mile just for my own privacy, but apart from that, no, I like locals "

Can you set it up to do that?? Or do you just do it if they message you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block those within 1 mile just for my own privacy, but apart from that, no, I like locals

Can you set it up to do that?? Or do you just do it if they message you?"

I search "who is near" every week or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block those within 1 mile just for my own privacy, but apart from that, no, I like locals

Can you set it up to do that?? Or do you just do it if they message you?

I search "who is near" every week or so"

Ahhh gotcha, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Have done it in the past and it was good because he played the game

I hate prying and messages such as "I saw you today" creep me out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block those within 1 mile just for my own privacy, but apart from that, no, I like locals

Can you set it up to do that?? Or do you just do it if they message you?

I search "who is near" every week or so"

Phew it’s not just me who does that

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By *earsOfLysCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

It doesn’t necessarily put me off. But it’s one of the reasons why we don’t post face pics incase we get noticed. As most of you I’m sure would agree, discretion is important.

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By *hitehunter4bbcMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Local the better ,walk home after a few drinks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I’m asking like when things get back to normal properly and you can meet is it something that puts you off? Personally not for me it makes meeting up (for whatever) easier "

Yeah! Nothing worse than an awkward encounter in the bread aisle in Tesco afterwards.

A healthy distance is a good thing in my eyes.

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I mean close enough that you can bump into them in the local shop then that would put me off.

But other than that then it's actually just a lot more convenient to meet in the same city.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Don’t bother us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on your situation, single - cant see why not, surely a bonus... with someone - might be awkward bumping into them with the other half... especially if the other half doesn't know!

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

As long as you meet decent people who want discretion it’s all good and the convenience is lovely !

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By *andymanpaulMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Always a bit wary when I see local profiles. Wouldn't necessarily put me off, but a bit more on edge.

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Yes. Small town and everyone knows everyone. We say on our profile we will not meet local but they still message so we now just block anyone local we see online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have spoken to 2 guys and 2 couple who live in a small village. The older of the guys we would meet but for we are discrete and don't want to be bumping in to meets at the shops x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, don't shit where you eat

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Generally yes, however I have met a guy who also lives in my very small close knit village whose mum talks to me often.

Perhaps I shouldn’t have gone on my doorstep

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Especially in this weather, think of all the heat you’re letting out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only interested in someone local, the closer the better.

"
pick me

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Local is ideal but pref at least 2 miles away. Any closer than that is a no for me

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Local is ideal but pref at least 2 miles away. Any closer than that is a no for me "

Interesting - in Fab terms, we’d class up to about 15 miles as local...two miles is practically neighbours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you live in a big town/city. Then even someone a few miles away can be far enough away.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I prefer localish people although I am very selective. I chat to people on here that actually stay in my area or who drink in the same pub. So I don’t meet them .. otherwise it doesn’t bother me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local is ideal but pref at least 2 miles away. Any closer than that is a no for me

Interesting - in Fab terms, we’d class up to about 15 miles as local...two miles is practically neighbours!"

Lol.. 50 milrs is kinda comfortable for me... But i tend to go South not north!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I sometimes wish I could find someone local saves so much time

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By *rcunilingus300Man
over a year ago

Newark

I'm not fussed if there local all the more convenient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I’d say no to local fabbers but we have met with couple and single F and we all still friends and get on well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me no

But it has happened a few times where they was interested but that stopped them

Fair play really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Generally yes, however I have met a guy who also lives in my very small close knit village whose mum talks to me often.

Perhaps I shouldn’t have gone on my doorstep

Ha ha

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer closer. Fun for a last minute sort of thing, but then I drive so it won’t be an issue.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Local suits me fine, I'm also lucky to have a couple of hotels within walking distance.

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By *ophie199Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

No much prefer local don’t do long distance, quite enjoy the thrill you might spot a fellow swinger in the local pub or supermarket, always discreet tho obvs!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes. We wouldn't meet anyone from our same town or within a few miles of us. Too close for comfort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I like people 30-60 mins away xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off. If they out me, they out themselves too and vice versa.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

For it to happen we would need to trust them 100%, so I guess it won't happen

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

When does it become local?

Within the same post code?

Or within a certain distance?

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I should be so lucky. it’s just a sausage fest around me

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"And I’m asking like when things get back to normal properly and you can meet is it something that puts you off? Personally not for me it makes meeting up (for whatever) easier "

No, that’s exactly what I’m looking for in a fwb. The wife has a regular guy she sees who’s reasonably local too. Makes things easier all round.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I'm undecided. Too many crazed stalkers here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far is a ball ache, too local can be awks but within a few miles is perfect.

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

As I'm looking for a FWB, someone local for me would be ideal...

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

"I should be so lucky. it’s just a sausage fest around me

Haha its no different where ever you are men always out number women

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

No it doesn't

Jo x

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping

Just had a female viewer who showed as "within touching distance ",never had that before ,I have a few friends within a few miles of me ,its fantastic and super convenient if I get a sudden urge ,used to travel 50 miles or more for meets ,now keep within 30 mile radius ,luvly jubbly

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"And I’m asking like when things get back to normal properly and you can meet is it something that puts you off? Personally not for me it makes meeting up (for whatever) easier "

Yes I don't want to meet people close to me who I could see in aldi or Marks and Spencers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the idea of nipping nextdoor when horny

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

"Love the idea of nipping nextdoor when horny"

I wouldnt mind living next door to you pair

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Yes, small town and we are both known for our businesses, with the risk of revenge porn, it’s just not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't meet local ..ever ...

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

I got talking to a local couple before we exchanged some naughty chat some body pics.

Then came the face pics..... turned out to be my neighbours who lived opposite haha

Unfortunately the fab chat died out and when I bumped into them in the street our light neighbour convos turned into awkward hellos hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet in my home town... I’d rather keep my kink life separate from my everyday life plus I’ve got kids they don’t need to know mum & dad are perverts lol

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

"Just had a female viewer who showed as "within touching distance ",never had that before ,I have a few friends within a few miles of me ,its fantastic and super convenient if I get a sudden urge ,used to travel 50 miles or more for meets ,now keep within 30 mile radius ,luvly jubbly

Ooooh, I've never seen that, I wonder how close that really is.

With kids we have previously avoided anything local. Kids now older and with covid restrictions, I wish our special friends lived closer

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I guess depends on the person/people. They have to be trustworthy, like minded swingers and in the lifestyle for quite sometime. So yes, it would put me off if they don’t have those qualities and they live in the same town. I wouldn’t prefer to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them to be from out of town. I don’t do local often.

Only done it once or twice, great for spontaneity but i live in a small place where everyone knows each other and I don’t like the idea of running into them in my normal day to day life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a different site, I saw the guy who lived in the flat above me. Told him that if he was ever in need of company, all he had to do was knock on my door. Unfortunately, I had to move soon after that.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’m all for local, spontaneous people. If everybody’s happy and adult about it, we’d be doing nothing wrong.

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By *ohnywrongunMan
over a year ago

Epping

Ooooh, I've never seen that, I wonder how close that really is.

With kids we have previously avoided anything local. Kids now older and with covid restrictions, I wish our special friends lived closer

Well I've had it say "within a mile" before a few times ,but that was the first time saying "touching distance" .I actually got up and looked out the front window with butterflies in my stomach,

Yes,now kids arent an issue, I'd reccomend making local friendships,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally no but it has let me down on few meets I get chatting the chemistry flows right then our locations get mentioned and boom too close for them happens just gotta crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me at all

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