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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

getting a few days away from normality, need to get my head straight no dark thoughts just lots of emotions running around up there anyone suggest anywhere nice or do you have a go to place when you need to sit and think

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By *itKerryMaleMan
over a year ago

kerry

Black out d*unk usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what kind of person you are I suppose. If you like people, go and sit outside Starbucks and watch the world go by. If you are a loner misanthrope type like myself, buy a fishing rod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"getting a few days away from normality, need to get my head straight no dark thoughts just lots of emotions running around up there anyone suggest anywhere nice or do you have a go to place when you need to sit and think"

Firstly I hope you're ok, if you need to chat to someone impartial you can always DM me.

For me my happy place is outdoors, when I am going through a stressful situation I go for a long run through the local countryside.

I enjoy the challenges of the hills, weather conditions, the countryside views, sounds and smells. All of which refocuses my mind on something other than my problems. It gives me the breathing space to not feel overwhelmed and the mind to start confronting things in manageable pieces. Plus the feel good endorphins post run are so needed.

Best wishes to you.

Her x

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I would say the beach for me OP.

Was looking forward to a break away soon but unfortunately we are locked down now.

Hope you find somewhere for a recharge. Maybe a nice hotel with a spa or a secluded log cabin away from every one depends what you are looking for.

Hope you are ok

Enjoy

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here to chat if you want, i agree go gym or a run clears my head or a day out walking or by the sea,we all cope diff3, but here if you wanna chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say the beach for me OP.

Was looking forward to a break away soon but unfortunately we are locked down now.

Hope you find somewhere for a recharge. Maybe a nice hotel with a spa or a secluded log cabin away from every one depends what you are looking for.

Hope you are ok

Enjoy

Jo x "

I ws thinking beach myself always found it mesmerising and was thinking Wales but new restrictions kicked in but thanks for advice

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I would say the beach for me OP.

Was looking forward to a break away soon but unfortunately we are locked down now.

Hope you find somewhere for a recharge. Maybe a nice hotel with a spa or a secluded log cabin away from every one depends what you are looking for.

Hope you are ok

Enjoy

Jo x

I ws thinking beach myself always found it mesmerising and was thinking Wales but new restrictions kicked in but thanks for advice"

Yeah I got proper landlocked with the new borders, mate

The coast is good, the woods, a park... anything that's a change for your eyes, you can find a bit of peace. In my experience, at least.

I hope you find somewhere, man.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Black out d*unk usually works

"

Or makes you worse

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I get out in the hills and forests on my bike OP. It’s exhilarating and really allows you to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Countryside/beach for a couple of days. On my own! I need to do it every now and then. It’s my therapy

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I always find a walk on the beach clears mind. Or in a forest away from everyone, preferably with a stream - the round of water soothes my soul

Hope you feel better soon and always free for a message

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I would say the beach for me OP.

Was looking forward to a break away soon but unfortunately we are locked down now.

Hope you find somewhere for a recharge. Maybe a nice hotel with a spa or a secluded log cabin away from every one depends what you are looking for.

Hope you are ok

Enjoy

Jo x

I ws thinking beach myself always found it mesmerising and was thinking Wales but new restrictions kicked in but thanks for advice"

Keep in mind my geography is rubbish, North Devon has some fab beaches. I think unfortunately need to avoid all Wales pretty much now.

Hope you find your happy place

Jo x

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

There's a spa hotel in Market Bosworth that I keep meaning to try.

Lady time I looked it was ridiculously cheap for a night there, but probably worth checking they're fully open before going.

But good luck, OP

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

The beach for me. Just sitting there looking at the sea,listening to it. Always calms me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like to climb hills. Love being by myself, up high looking down on the world.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

As I live in a city I always wish to escape to the coast, forest or rolling hills.

Why not head to the south coast, Dorest or the new forest both are low risk areas and some great places to get lost in and gather your thoughts

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over a year ago

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Hope you're ok OP.

I need the sea to recharge and reflect. By it, on it or in it.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I switch off phone and all screens. Shut back door and sit outside watching the garden birds feeding. Sometimes neighbours cat visits for a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that your heads spinning. Loosing your self in Sutton park is a good start.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wales"

With all local lockdown?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nature calls.. shutting off from social media, resorting to your cave and allowing time and silence to process everything. Wherever you go.. I hope you find that. Even if it's just around the corner.

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

The mountains or the desert, or the mountains in the desert, a little solitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies guys will give all suggestions a thought and thanks to those who dm'd me I am OK just lost my way a little

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