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By *rcunilingus300 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newark

Could anyone give me some pointers I try and message people and act according to there profile but dont get many bites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anyone give me some pointers I try and message people and act according to there profile but dont get many bites"

Try changing your bait then!!!!!

T

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Your bio would put me off and the lack of pics does not help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are several things you may want to consider.

So your profile - your profile is probably the first thing anyone you message will read.

Is it enticing, does It say what you want and what you are looking for?

Messages- have you read the profile and do you think you fit what the person is looking for.

Is the message one that the recipient would want to reply to.

Also remember lots of people aren't meeting at the moment even for socials.

Don't over think it or take a no as personal and the biggest and most important part is be yourself and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile needs rewriting. Take a look at other guys and see how there's look. Show a little humour, imagination and what your about.

Getting replies and friendships takes more effort than in real life, your one face in 1000's

Would you approach a girl in a bar talking of pussy licking?

Some tasteful photos of yourself would help too..

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Hi there mate and you are new and it's very difficult to get a chat with a lady or a couple on here mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile needs rewriting. Take a look at other guys and see how there's look. Show a little humour, imagination and what your about.

Getting replies and friendships takes more effort than in real life, your one face in 1000's

Would you approach a girl in a bar talking of pussy licking?

Some tasteful photos of yourself would help too..

"

I was like what you talking about ! But yep there it was in the bio !

Yeah agree with this man that ain’t the right tactic at all you just come across creepy as hell mate !

Lose that definitely as a start

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

No pics is a deffo no for me and the distinct lack of profile all round d a nope

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By *rcunilingus300 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newark

Hi black of pics so what sort of pics and can you give some pointers on my profile please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi black of pics so what sort of pics and can you give some pointers on my profile please "

Whatever's flattering and play to your strengths without being misleading.

Just show others who you are and what you look like... each to their own buddy but I keep anything overtly blatant private. Well i don't want to give the girls nightmares

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By *rcunilingus300 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newark

All this info is great thanks favors greatly received ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All this info is great thanks favors greatly received ??"

Glad to help pal !

Hope it works

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By *rcunilingus300 OP   Man
over a year ago

Newark

Cheers j-read2020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is one whole sentence with many different words in it.. Try to use a full stop or comma.

Username is off putting tbh.

But each to their own.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

You asked for advice 3 days ago, but I don’t see that you’ve actually taken any of that advice. It doesn’t take long to upload a few more pictures and write son new text.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Keep it to the forums Op

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By *onzoDog74Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Manage your expectations and you’ll never be too disappointed in life.

Go in expecting nothing and be comfortable with that, don’t try too hard, don’t get frustrated or wound up. Something will happen when you least expect it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will reply to you, if they are interested in you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Steer away from a normal conversation going reasonably well to I do wanna fuck you . Instant turn off & it's a no. Just personal preference but I'd advise to keep that till you know couple or person better or in the bedroom not when you're laying the ground work !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers j-read2020"

Anytime fella !

hope you had some success since we last talked ?

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