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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Trying to, but it won't be easy and it'll take time | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " From an outside perspective I am about as good as I am ever going to get (probably going down hill I’m afraid, not ageing well) From an inside perspective I am learning to be more resilient and that has generated confidence and contentment. I have many days where I do not like the way I look but I have far fewer days where I do not like who I have become | |||
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. " I read that as "wank hard every day"  
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. I read that as "wank hard every day"
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. I read that as "wank hard every day"
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. I read that as "wank hard every day"
My mind is in the gutter today
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Don't change too much...i think you're pretty cool as you are "Thank you
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. I read that as "wank hard every day"
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My wanking doesn't need help
Don't change too much...i think you're pretty cool as you are
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. I read that as "wank hard every day"
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My wanking doesn't need help
Don't change too much...i think you're pretty cool as you are
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I like me. I want to be me but more so
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"Yes shaved my head of its remaining hair 15or so years ago" | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Trying to, but it won't be easy and it'll take time" You will get there | |||
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"Yep Lu " | |||
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"Yes. I work on it every day." | |||
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"Yes, I have and I work hard every day to be come a better person. " | |||
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"I have in the past. Then life went tits up. Will again soon when I’m ready " Thats good emotional intelligence | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? From an outside perspective I am about as good as I am ever going to get (probably going down hill I’m afraid, not ageing well) From an inside perspective I am learning to be more resilient and that has generated confidence and contentment. I have many days where I do not like the way I look but I have far fewer days where I do not like who I have become " Acceptance is uplifting | |||
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"In the past, yes. These days I'm comfortable in myself - I'm not perfect, nobody is, but I recognise and accept my flaws for what they are, which is small parts of the whole me" | |||
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"Did that already op" You are amazing Stella, the shit that you have overcome is immense and you have my respect and that is not given freely x | |||
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"the likes of the rich and famous totally changed themselves with plastic surgery "That is true | |||
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"Yes in the past a few times. Now I’m happy with who I am " | |||
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"Yep going through it right now x " Good luck and clarity is your friend | |||
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"Looked in the mirror saw how sad and thin I looked so dumped hubby no 1 ,30 years later with hubby no2 and like me and how I look after 25 years of being built back up by present hubby .love him " | |||
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"No I'm happy and confident in my own skin did when younger though x" | |||
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"Not really. Only in as much as telling myself to get my arse in gear sometimes. " Does that work Nora? | |||
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"Yes shaved my head of its remaining hair 15or so years ago" You and me both mate!  | |||
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"Not really. Only in as much as telling myself to get my arse in gear sometimes. Does that work Nora?" Sometimes. Not always x | |||
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"i found it easier to hide all the mirrors.... "Love your costumes | |||
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"Not really. Only in as much as telling myself to get my arse in gear sometimes. Does that work Nora? Sometimes. Not always x" I'm always happy to give a get off your arse spiel if your's doesn't work x | |||
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"you mean, when I haven't shaved for a few days and look like a hobo? Then think, don't like the messy stubble... then out come the blades... " | |||
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"Never. But have thought there is room for improvement "I can imagine you would just get on with it though  | |||
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"Yes trying to change at the moment " Good luck | |||
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"Not really. Only in as much as telling myself to get my arse in gear sometimes. Does that work Nora? Sometimes. Not always x I'm always happy to give a get off your arse spiel if your's doesn't work x "Thanks. I need it sometimes! | |||
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"Never. But have thought there is room for improvement
I can imagine you would just get on with it though "Normally what I do | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Seriously... Yes, I covered up my mirror, it's been covered up for almost 3 years. | |||
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"I think self exploration and reconstruction has been a vital part of my self actualisation. It's made me a whole person. It's fucking hard work but for me it's the only way." You are emotionally intelligent swing and focused on the goal, I know you will not stop till you have worked it out x | |||
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"Funnily enough my friend sent me a pic just the other day of us taking our girls to a Tweenies concert 20yrs ago. I look more or less the same as i do now. Same figure, hair and clothes. I must be dull. Would love to change my hair colour and be more adventurous with clothes and make up but left it all a bit too late now." No such thing as too late. Be who you want x | |||
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"Yes, I did a couple of years ago. Hated what I saw in the mirror so got off my arse and lost two stone. I need to do that again now "Have you got off your arse yet? | |||
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"I think self exploration and reconstruction has been a vital part of my self actualisation. It's made me a whole person. It's fucking hard work but for me it's the only way. You are emotionally intelligent swing and focused on the goal, I know you will not stop till you have worked it out x" Or until I get too fucking tired and need a break
I have of course chosen a pandemic as a time to prod at my deepest demons. Emotionally intelligent, strong... stubborn, stupid
Swings and roundabouts | |||
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"Not really. Only in as much as telling myself to get my arse in gear sometimes. Does that work Nora? Sometimes. Not always x I'm always happy to give a get off your arse spiel if your's doesn't work x
Thanks. I need it sometimes! " | |||
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"Never. But have thought there is room for improvement
I can imagine you would just get on with it though
Normally what I do " | |||
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"Funnily enough my friend sent me a pic just the other day of us taking our girls to a Tweenies concert 20yrs ago. I look more or less the same as i do now. Same figure, hair and clothes. I must be dull. Would love to change my hair colour and be more adventurous with clothes and make up but left it all a bit too late now." You're a timeless classic my dear | |||
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"Yes a few times lately,such as shouldi have my hair cut very short again " I hack off my hair every five years or so | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Seriously... Yes, I covered up my mirror, it's been covered up for almost 3 years." I wish you luck with your journey | |||
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"Yes a few times lately,such as shouldi have my hair cut very short again I hack off my hair every five years or so "Snap lol | |||
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"Funnily enough my friend sent me a pic just the other day of us taking our girls to a Tweenies concert 20yrs ago. I look more or less the same as i do now. Same figure, hair and clothes. I must be dull. Would love to change my hair colour and be more adventurous with clothes and make up but left it all a bit too late now." Are you happy with your reflection right now? | |||
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"I think self exploration and reconstruction has been a vital part of my self actualisation. It's made me a whole person. It's fucking hard work but for me it's the only way. You are emotionally intelligent swing and focused on the goal, I know you will not stop till you have worked it out x Or until I get too fucking tired and need a break
I have of course chosen a pandemic as a time to prod at my deepest demons. Emotionally intelligent, strong... stubborn, stupid
Swings and roundabouts" | |||
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"My mental illness has always been from looking in the mirror and hating everything about myself. But for a while now I’ve realised that I am who I am so I suppose I’ve just changed my mindset and thought more positively. Oh and I bought a penis extender pump "Acceptance is wonderful, good luck with your pump | |||
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"I did. As a teenager I was a sarcastic and verbally vicious little shit. I was right and everyone else was wrong. I changed my whole philosophy. Now I let people be, so long as they are doing no harm to others what business is it of mine. Want to eat 20 Big Macs, put glitter in your beard, dress up in a pink tutu and dance around to ABBA? All power to you. Enjoy yourself. Life's for living." | |||
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"Why do you think I go to the gym? It's a never ending cycle " | |||
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"Funnily enough my friend sent me a pic just the other day of us taking our girls to a Tweenies concert 20yrs ago. I look more or less the same as i do now. Same figure, hair and clothes. I must be dull. Would love to change my hair colour and be more adventurous with clothes and make up but left it all a bit too late now. You're a timeless classic my dear "Just like the Mona Lisa | |||
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"Yes a few times lately,such as shouldi have my hair cut very short again " Use the hair app to try out different styles it helps
Im going for lowlights on thursday which is a step towards grey acceptance for me | |||
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"Why do you think I go to the gym? It's a never ending cycle "Who do you do it for? | |||
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"Yep, no longer am I a doormat, took me till I reached 40 to change that" Well done | |||
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"Yep, I didn't like being skinny with wiry arms so I tried going to the gym and lifting weights. Now even though I'm slightly bigger, I'm still finding flaws in my physique. I don't think I'll ever be completely happy "Never say never | |||
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"Yes I did a few years ago. Underwent surgery that made a big difference to my life. Need to get back into the right headspace again x " Good luck Angie x | |||
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"Yes, not 100% happy with my weight or teeth but happy enough in where I am in life, is anyone 100% happy with themselves ??" Would acceptance lead to happiness for you? | |||
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" Yes I stopped wearing speedos with a massive man Bush." Pics or it never happened | |||
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"Yes, not 100% happy with my weight or teeth but happy enough in where I am in life, is anyone 100% happy with themselves ?? Would acceptance lead to happiness for you?" I'm not certain I'm sure what complete happiness is, which is quite sad. | |||
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" Yes I stopped wearing speedos with a massive man Bush. Pics or it never happened " | |||
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"My mental illness has always been from looking in the mirror and hating everything about myself. But for a while now I’ve realised that I am who I am so I suppose I’ve just changed my mindset and thought more positively. Oh and I bought a penis extender pump
Acceptance is wonderful, good luck with your pump "It broke,ah well! | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Yes, I just replaced my floppy wig, with a starched one. | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Yes, I got a divorce. | |||
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"With my body and with my head yeah still working on both " | |||
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"Yes, not 100% happy with my weight or teeth but happy enough in where I am in life, is anyone 100% happy with themselves ?? Would acceptance lead to happiness for you? I'm not certain I'm sure what complete happiness is, which is quite sad." Maybe one day you might find out | |||
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"Today I would probably smash the mirror !!!" | |||
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" Yes I stopped wearing speedos with a massive man Bush. Pics or it never happened
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"My mental illness has always been from looking in the mirror and hating everything about myself. But for a while now I’ve realised that I am who I am so I suppose I’ve just changed my mindset and thought more positively. Oh and I bought a penis extender pump
Acceptance is wonderful, good luck with your pump
It broke,ah well! "Oops | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Yes, I just replaced my floppy wig, with a starched one." Same colour? | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Yes, I got a divorce. " | |||
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"Why do you think I go to the gym? It's a never ending cycle
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" Yes I stopped wearing speedos with a massive man Bush. Pics or it never happened
"Google Tony Abbott budgie smugglers Then set something on fire. | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Not so much a look in the mirror, more a wake up call when I was told I had T2 diabetes. !2 years later it's in remission, I've lost 9 stones and I'm healthier now than I was in my 30's Diabetes set me free. | |||
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Well........I was born with a penis, so you tell me | |||
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"How to answer this politely?
Well........I was born with a penis, so you tell me " | |||
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"I regularly change my hair colour which I think is possibly because it's often the only thing I 'control' " | |||
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"Why do you think I go to the gym? It's a never ending cycle
Who do you do it for?
For me "The best way | |||
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" Yes I stopped wearing speedos with a massive man Bush. Pics or it never happened
Google Tony Abbott budgie smugglers
Then set something on fire." | |||
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"I regularly change my hair colour which I think is possibly because it's often the only thing I 'control' " | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Not so much a look in the mirror, more a wake up call when I was told I had T2 diabetes. !2 years later it's in remission, I've lost 9 stones and I'm healthier now than I was in my 30's Diabetes set me free." Wow well done | |||
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"I do a lot, then I start out with good intentions but life still gets in the way. Despite being a determined person for some reason I always seem to find my myself thinking the same thing. " Thats hard  | |||
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"How to answer this politely?
Well........I was born with a penis, so you tell me "I don't need politeness
An amazing journey im sure | |||
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"I don't think you change but accept who you are and what you are like. When I was younger I used try to 'fit in' but nowadays I accept my 'personality' and what I am like. Much more content now." An interesting take on it and acceptance is fulfilling | |||
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"Not really nowadays. I just tried to maintain what I have " | |||
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"I do a lot, then I start out with good intentions but life still gets in the way. Despite being a determined person for some reason I always seem to find my myself thinking the same thing. Thats hard "I know, but what you gonna do, tomorrow is another day | |||
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"I lost 4 stone a few years ago. Had always thought I was just bigger and always would be but I got it off and it mostly stayed off. Am proud of that "You should be thats amazing | |||
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"yes everyone can if they want to " Not necessarily, want is only the start of change, time, courage and support I think are imperative to achievement | |||
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"To be honest, no. At least not deeply. I've often been low (once rock bottom) about situations and whats going on around me. Wanted to change these things but never in my life have I felt deeply disappointed or upset with who I am. Sure sometimes there's things I like to improve, my fitness for example. But not in a way where I'm deeply affected. Mr" | |||
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"I've never thought I don't like myself. But I do often reflect on how I could be a better person or cope with life's challenges in a different way. It's about self improvement, rather than assuming a deficit model. We're all good enough right now, but that doesn't mean we can't be even better!" | |||
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"I do a lot, then I start out with good intentions but life still gets in the way. Despite being a determined person for some reason I always seem to find my myself thinking the same thing. Thats hard
I know, but what you gonna do, tomorrow is another day "I hope one tomorrow you will notice a difference | |||
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"Yeah, I looked at the woman hobbling round on crutches, got myself some sexy wheels instead and discovered the opportunities out there for exercise and adventure by wheelchair. My chair has revolutionised my life (well, the disabled era of it). I'd become a virtual recluse before it. " Im glad you found a way forward | |||
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"I won't look in the mirror. I don't like what i see or who I am. " Maybe one day you will, maybe not tomorrow, maybe not next year but one day... | |||
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"On the eve of me breaking up my dead 12 yr relationship,I went into the bathroom and chopped all my long wavy hair off,it was my new beginning,my new start...and it grew back beautifully." | |||
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"Yeah, I looked at the woman hobbling round on crutches, got myself some sexy wheels instead and discovered the opportunities out there for exercise and adventure by wheelchair. My chair has revolutionised my life (well, the disabled era of it). I'd become a virtual recluse before it. Im glad you found a way forward "Surprised you didn't fall into the stereotype of "you found a wheely good way forward" | |||
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"No, I don’t mean that in an ‘ I’m so far up my own backside’ sort of way, I’m just comfortable and contented with who I am and where I sit in the world. I count myself lucky on that respect, many people struggle with this in life. " It's a good place to be. I think I'm increasingly happy with who I am, but... I'm tweaking. (Still doing some big stuff, I'm mid massive overhaul, but most changes after that will be incremental) | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Absolutely. Everytime I acknowledge something I recognise as not being the person I want to be. If we see something we don’t like we can change it, challenge it. It’s growth. Not necessarily becoming a better person but maybe more rounded, or different. Changing however is not all that easy! | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Absolutely. Everytime I acknowledge something I recognise as not being the person I want to be. If we see something we don’t like we can change it, challenge it. It’s growth. Not necessarily becoming a better person but maybe more rounded, or different. Changing however is not all that easy! "Always growth. If I ever find myself completely satisfied with who I am and how I am in the world, shoot me, I'm good for nothing anymore. | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Absolutely. Everytime I acknowledge something I recognise as not being the person I want to be. If we see something we don’t like we can change it, challenge it. It’s growth. Not necessarily becoming a better person but maybe more rounded, or different. Changing however is not all that easy!
Always growth. If I ever find myself completely satisfied with who I am and how I am in the world, shoot me, I'm good for nothing anymore." okie dokie will do..just somewhere out the way!!
Seriously I agree. There’s always something new a different perspective. It’s the most amazing thing about meeting new people and sharing experiences. | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Absolutely. Everytime I acknowledge something I recognise as not being the person I want to be. If we see something we don’t like we can change it, challenge it. It’s growth. Not necessarily becoming a better person but maybe more rounded, or different. Changing however is not all that easy!
Always growth. If I ever find myself completely satisfied with who I am and how I am in the world, shoot me, I'm good for nothing anymore.
okie dokie will do..just somewhere out the way!!
Seriously I agree. There’s always something new a different perspective. It’s the most amazing thing about meeting new people and sharing experiences."I should probably use less expressions that came down from my very rural grandparents God the mess. Good for a feral pig, less good for me. (yeah I just gave myself a new Fab nickname, I'm good with that) | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " Twice a day, it doesn’t last long. | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? " It will have been a haircut or shave | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Absolutely. Everytime I acknowledge something I recognise as not being the person I want to be. If we see something we don’t like we can change it, challenge it. It’s growth. Not necessarily becoming a better person but maybe more rounded, or different. Changing however is not all that easy!
Always growth. If I ever find myself completely satisfied with who I am and how I am in the world, shoot me, I'm good for nothing anymore.
okie dokie will do..just somewhere out the way!!
Seriously I agree. There’s always something new a different perspective. It’s the most amazing thing about meeting new people and sharing experiences.
I should probably use less expressions that came down from my very rural grandparents God the mess. Good for a feral pig, less good for me. (yeah I just gave myself a new Fab nickname, I'm good with that)"I get it! Same here sometimes gets lost in translation or people seem to think I’m odd | |||
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"Have you ever looked in the mirror and thought I really don't like who I am right now... Then done something about it? Absolutely. Everytime I acknowledge something I recognise as not being the person I want to be. If we see something we don’t like we can change it, challenge it. It’s growth. Not necessarily becoming a better person but maybe more rounded, or different. Changing however is not all that easy!
Always growth. If I ever find myself completely satisfied with who I am and how I am in the world, shoot me, I'm good for nothing anymore.
okie dokie will do..just somewhere out the way!!
Seriously I agree. There’s always something new a different perspective. It’s the most amazing thing about meeting new people and sharing experiences.
I should probably use less expressions that came down from my very rural grandparents God the mess. Good for a feral pig, less good for me. (yeah I just gave myself a new Fab nickname, I'm good with that)
I get it! Same here sometimes gets lost in translation or people seem to think I’m odd "I'm odd | |||
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"There are times I like my reflection and times I don't. Times I'm proud of who of my strength, and other times I'm annoyed at my weakness. Times I look in the mirror and think "you deserve so much more than this" and other times I look and think "others don't deserve YOU" Ultimately I ain't stupid, and I know the bits of me that cause the most issues (my capacity to love, hate and feel so very deeply with my big black heart. The life I've lived so far that's shown me beauty and horror - real horror) are the same bits I can't change, that also give me compassion yet lead me to a place where I'm more than likely better off alone. A blessing and a curse all at the same time. So now.... I accept. Physically I'm changing all the while, and always will "
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