FabSwingers.com forum: How do you meet yours?

By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

So, how do you?

Is it at the Club, hotel, public/car meet, or their place or at yours?

Myself,

no club meet yet, 1 at their place

1 in car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub or coffee somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pub or coffee somewhere "

Pretty much this, yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The zoo

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Club or cafe/ pub

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

For a first meet - coffee would be my choice.

That was my rule the other year when dating on POF.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

My house

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Pub or coffee somewhere "

Yeah, public meant to say social as well.

Car meet was just a chit chat to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a drink of tea in a cafe is always nice, specially speaking for hours on end. Love having a relaxed social with plenty of laughs before anything.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Pub or coffee somewhere "

This

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Club, but they’re closed

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I had a great meet in Asda once, I told him to walk up to me as I was facing away from the door and squeeze my ass. It was fun and definitely broke the ice

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

For socials I've been to cafes, bars, a walk in a local park, etc.

For more it's usually been their place or a hotel. Had one guy come to mine but I kinda regretted it as he started hassling to come over any time I had my place free when sometimes I just wanted to chill on my own. I wouldn't rule it out again though for the right person.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Usually a cafe or pub, but sometimes different places depending on what we're doing..middle of nowhere once as we were going for a walk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I had a social meet was over two years ago now. Went to the Whitelock's Ale House in Leeds which is a lovely historical place and right up my street. Then went back to my hotel where we talked and drank Pepsi until I could hardly keep my eyes open any more

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Always clubs for us

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Convenient and comfortable ... wherever that may be ...

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"For socials I've been to cafes, bars, a walk in a local park, etc.

Yeah I often think a meet socially and getting to know is best for sure, and there's always a concern with someone turning up at own place.

If chatted, feel comfy and attracted, then a meet up at home is good.

Something I won't force to, motel is as safe

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Last time I had a social meet was over two years ago now. Went to the Whitelock's Ale House in Leeds which is a lovely historical place and right up my street. Then went back to my hotel where we talked and drank Pepsi until I could hardly keep my eyes open any more "

Aww that's so cool.

Car meet I had was about an hour of just chatting.

Even though had some flirty messages, when we met it was toned down and both just chilled.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Socials are normally a Costa

IKEA for meatballs and shopping was fun

I'd say my most favourite is arranging social meets to come to a fab party social

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Coffee always works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub or cafe

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Coffee shop for socials and Hotels for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most often clubs for us

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Usually in the hotel car park

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Coffee is always a good start.

Jo.Xx

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By *am4youMan
over a year ago

gillingham

I have had meets in pubs, restaurant, cafe, clubs, Park, hotel and house. The house is usually after a social meet.

I love the social meet as it break the ice and no one is under pressure on uncomfortable

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

"Socials are normally a Costa

IKEA for meatballs and shopping was fun

I'd say my most favourite is arranging social meets to come to a fab party social "

Oh wow, IKEA meet is a new one haha.

Yet to do a fab social, bloody lockdown

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Definitely a coffee and seeing how things are a piece of cake too. All on me of course

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By *tokeman4str8fun OP Man
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prison or Broadmoor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub, coffee, parks, dog waking. Even done bowling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pub, coffee, parks, dog waking. Even done bowling "

Dog waking is just cruel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pub, coffee, parks, dog waking. Even done bowling

Dog waking is just cruel. "

BOO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

costa, cafe or pub, where veer they feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Car park of his hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre Covid I favoured a social chat over a coffee. I have found supermarket cafés to be quite good in this respect!!.... compared to Costa type venues there is less chance of being overheard because there is more background noise....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Despite going to clubs i have never planned to meet anyone there. I prefer to meet for a social over a drink in a nice bar.x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I had a great meet in Asda once, I told him to walk up to me as I was facing away from the door and squeeze my ass. It was fun and definitely broke the ice

Any chance you’re doing an Asda UK tour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually in the hotel car park

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually in the hotel car park

Really?

He comes down to collect me and carry my bag and escort me to our room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pub, coffee, parks, dog waking. Even done bowling

Dog waking is just cruel.

BOO! "

Trust you

my phone hates me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually in the hotel car park

Really?

He comes down to collect me and carry my bag and escort me to our room

Nice touch

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Clubs..... Find it much easier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Hotel lobby is my favourite

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

A pub, hotel bar or coffee somewhere, have walked the dogs too.

Social is a must.

Jo x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I prefer to start with a social in either a coffee house or pub, after that it can be a play date at their place, hotel, or my USP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a great meet in Asda once, I told him to walk up to me as I was facing away from the door and squeeze my ass. It was fun and definitely broke the ice

What if he'd been short sighted and squeezed someone else's arse

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

A hotel bar or a quirky quiet boozer.

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