FabSwingers.com forum: Getting ghosted

By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

How would you deal with getting ghosted

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Chalk it up to experience and move on.

No point dwelling on it. Shit happens, unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on with it they are not interested no point in flogging a dead horse put your effort into finding someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Define ghosting. On here when you have chatted to someone a couple of times and they disappear. Or someone that you know and have met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot you can do is there. Annoying as it is you’ve just got to suck it up and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you deal with getting ghosted "

Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)

And then tell them to fuck right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens no wouldn't worry about it move on and have fun with someone else, never take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shrug, think "fuck'em" and move on

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)

And then tell them to fuck right off"
haha I like that

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Im out all dressed up casual so finish the night off and enjoy myself.

Though I might meet someone else while having a nice time.

As i see it.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Not a lot you can do is there. Annoying as it is you’ve just got to suck it up and move on."
thanks for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if I actually had a ghosting experience recently but here goes:

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I'm not sure if I actually had a ghosting experience recently but here goes:

A guy who'd contacted me a few months ago got back in touch and invited me to his place for fun. I went over and we got naked. He became aroused quickly and attempted to arouse me too but I wasn't feeling it and so asked him to stop. I dressed and made for the door when he tried to block my path, calling me "selfish". I felt empty afterwards and disliked myself for what had taken place. He blocked me and I've no desire to see him again. "
yeah that's how I feel at the moment and I know i shouldn't feel like that but I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure if I actually had a ghosting experience recently but here goes:

A guy who'd contacted me a few months ago got back in touch and invited me to his place for fun. I went over and we got naked. He became aroused quickly and attempted to arouse me too but I wasn't feeling it and so asked him to stop. I dressed and made for the door when he tried to block my path, calling me "selfish". I felt empty afterwards and disliked myself for what had taken place. He blocked me and I've no desire to see him again. yeah that's how I feel at the moment and I know i shouldn't feel like that but I do "
well it’s called consent and you had your reasons don’t feel bad, you would feel a whole lot worst if you had done anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge and retribution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're dead to you. They don't want contact so why would you....?

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"They're dead to you. They don't want contact so why would you....?

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I know but it's just how they want about it

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It depends on how its done.

If its something that's been months in the planning and then when a date is offered or set and they just dissappear then I'm out, they had their chance and blew it and unless their reason is totally genuine and justified then they won't be getting a second chance.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Chalk it up to experience and block. There are plenty of people who will be happy to take his place in your messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Block all access - end of!

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. "
yes indeed we are worth so much more but it does hurt because we actually got on really well and the sex was amazing and out of now where he is gone

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Block all access - end of! "
oh I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. yes indeed we are worth so much more but it does hurt because we actually got on really well and the sex was amazing and out of now where he is gone "

I get that. I was "friends" with the guy that's just done it to me for over a year, fucked off out the blue.

Huge hugs lovely

as I've been told by someone who isn't a dickhead

"Good, genuine people do exist, don't give up looking" xx

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I tend to assume it’s inevitable given the ratios on here - oh and not being able to take a face pic where I don’t look like a goon probably doesn’t help!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"How would you deal with getting ghosted "

Sometimes OP. People aren’t what they seem and tell you things that aren’t true. If it’s on here, block and move on. In the outside world just don’t engage with them. They truly aren’t worth your time or worry

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. yes indeed we are worth so much more but it does hurt because we actually got on really well and the sex was amazing and out of now where he is gone

I get that. I was "friends" with the guy that's just done it to me for over a year, fucked off out the blue.

Huge hugs lovely

as I've been told by someone who isn't a dickhead

"Good, genuine people do exist, don't give up looking" xx"
I hope so because I'm starting to think I'm not the worth it

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Unfortunately a fact of life.

Hard.

That's why folks here are saying move on.

It sucks.

Their loss by looking at your pictures.

Be good.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I tend to assume it’s inevitable given the ratios on here - oh and not being able to take a face pic where I don’t look like a goon probably doesn’t help!

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haha oh okay

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

. There is always a brighter tomorrow (we can hope!

) To engage with them or try will flatter their ego, it is essentially what they want. I don’t think you signed up for that, did you?

Be well

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

. There is always a brighter tomorrow (we can hope!

) To engage with them or try will flatter their ego, it is essentially what they want. I don’t think you signed up for that, did you?

Be well "
I really didn't I just wanna be respected etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you deal with getting ghosted "

Call Ghostbusters.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Have a wank and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to get over someone get under the next

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

I've experienced it with so many people over the years, and a few women on Fab too... usually see it as they luv the attention and so move on when they find a new friend to massage their ego.

Nonetheless, it's a part of modern society now. So get used it, get used to being let down

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)

And then tell them to fuck right off"

Was gonna say this, but you put it so much better

When they message expecting to pick up where you left off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll drive yourself mad trying to work out what goes on in other people's heads OP. The problem isn't you, it's them, remember that and go live your best life xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on. There's 100x as many guys on here as ladies. Some are fakes some find other options, some have partners who aren't aware, so sadly it'll happen again too.

Why waste any time replying to someone who isn't going to be there. If you haven't the time to reply to all the genuine guys why would you even consider responding to a ghoster?

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By *he BWCMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Can I ask what is ghosting???

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I keep them at arms length. Sometimes real life shit happens and things change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)

And then tell them to fuck right off"

This!

Same guy has done it to me 3 times now (more the fool me!). Just gotta move on. Fuckers.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Ghost them back lol

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Block them, dont worry about it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you deal with getting ghosted "

Charlie used to ghost me every time he thought he had another female after him. It was quite hurtful. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do it back to someone else ..what comes around goes around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got ghosted after knowing someone 4 months. That was rough. Left me wondering what was so wrong with me. Then I realised that there was nothing wrong with me he wasn’t man enough. I eventually managed to contact him - as I was worried something had happened to him and wished I hadn’t bothered as he was vile.

Live and learn some people have no scruples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His loss

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How would you deal with getting ghosted "

As a single guy who has used regular dating sites and obviously fab something that I've rather gotten used to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

As a single guy who has used regular dating sites and obviously fab something that I've rather gotten used to x"

This.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Move on and forget. I’ve had it twice from guys I really liked, one still not a clue why, other found himself a girlfriend but took a month of ignoring me to tell me.

I’ve put it down as experience and to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a little pout and move on.

It’s happens, not worth the energy getting upset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might not notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)

And then tell them to fuck right off"

It’s hilarious when they do.

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By *ransistersTV/TS
over a year ago

Dover

Curse them.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

"How would you deal with getting ghosted

Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)

And then tell them to fuck right off"
I wouldnt waste my time telling them to f off I just wouldnt answer them x

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Unfortunately it happens and unfortunately you just you just have to get on with it

But still not nice

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