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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ultimately we're all here for the same reason.. why do we all have to argue?

Let's spread some love everyone, and ignore the rest! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because fuck you, that's why OP!

Now if you need me, I'll be spreading my hate to the other forum topics until the site implodes on itself

Mwahahahahahaha

(But seriously, I'm sure you're a gent and a scholar)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged."

Thumb war??

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I get along with people ok x

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

It would be so boring if we all got on and agreed on everything ,it would be like all dressing the same ...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Thumb war?? "

1, 2, 3, 4..? I'm game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Thumb war?? "

Not that much of a challenge!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be so boring if we all got on and agreed on everything ,it would be like all dressing the same ..."

True, I'm just not a fan of the hate that seems to be hanging around here.

Just have fun and leave everyone else to theirs!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me "

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM"
what is the link about , if i can ask

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM what is the link about , if i can ask "

Taylor Swift Haters Gonna Hate. (Sorry, if I dump a YouTube link, it's music )

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM what is the link about , if i can ask

Taylor Swift Haters Gonna Hate. (Sorry, if I dump a YouTube link, it's music )"

Thank you , never heard about that music i need yo listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM"

Well thank you in advance for this being in my head when trying to sleep

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM what is the link about , if i can ask

Taylor Swift Haters Gonna Hate. (Sorry, if I dump a YouTube link, it's music )

Thank you , never heard about that music i need yo listen "

I need to listen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM what is the link about , if i can ask

Taylor Swift Haters Gonna Hate. (Sorry, if I dump a YouTube link, it's music )"

Fantastic song.. very apt.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM

Well thank you in advance for this being in my head when trying to sleep "

Welcome , hope it will help you to fall asleep now

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Thumb war??

1, 2, 3, 4..? I'm game!"

Awesome - strip thumb wars maybe

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM

Well thank you in advance for this being in my head when trying to sleep "

My earworms are legend. Or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been looking for the hate that’s apparently on here but can’t find any

Not agreeing and having different opinions is a good thing

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Thumb war??

Not that much of a challenge! "

Don't worry I'll teach you how to win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we are not here for the same reason and we can't all think the same and would we actually want that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we are not here for the same reason and we can't all think the same and would we actually want that?"

No...it would all be a bit bland if we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't hate anyone and i don't care about the haters i just care about who cares about me

https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM

Well thank you in advance for this being in my head when trying to sleep

My earworms are legend. Or something "

Ahhh... guess I'll just need to shake it off

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden


"Ultimately we're all here for the same reason.. why do we all have to argue?

Let's spread some love everyone, and ignore the rest! Xx "

I’ve often wondered this. It’s just as easy to be nice as it is nasty.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

https://youtu.be/9txfpUhG_bw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree on the we are all here for the same reason Op

And I just ignore the haters,they really aren't worth thinking about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Thumb war??

1, 2, 3, 4..? I'm game!

Awesome - strip thumb wars maybe "

Done

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged."

Ok, I challenge you to a duel, sir. But instead of swords or pistols lets use breadsticks, or baguettes if you are feeling lucky...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

feck no, I'm not here for the same reasons as everyone else.

I'm not gonna get along with someone who treats other people like shit, if I tried to for the sake of "getting" I may spontaneously combust.... and I've only just decorated a couple of rooms so that would be a right waste.

I can disagree with people and do it respectfully, most of those I despise I ignore. But naaawwwww, I ain't painting a picture of sweetness and light when it aint true. Keeping it real bruv

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Ok, I challenge you to a duel, sir. But instead of swords or pistols lets use breadsticks, or baguettes if you are feeling lucky... "

Go on, but with chickens feet on the end so you can at least scratch each other

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"feck no, I'm not here for the same reasons as everyone else.

I'm not gonna get along with someone who treats other people like shit, if I tried to for the sake of "getting" I may spontaneously combust.... and I've only just decorated a couple of rooms so that would be a right waste.

I can disagree with people and do it respectfully, most of those I despise I ignore. But naaawwwww, I ain't painting a picture of sweetness and light when it aint true. Keeping it real bruv "

* getting on

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Ok, I challenge you to a duel, sir. But instead of swords or pistols lets use breadsticks, or baguettes if you are feeling lucky...

Go on, but with chickens feet on the end so you can at least scratch each other "

A freshly baked baguette is quite scratchy enough!

With maybe some scones, lobbed over arm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been looking for the hate that’s apparently on here but can’t find any

Not agreeing and having different opinions is a good thing "

This, it's how we grow and expand our comfort zones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, fight, fight, fight!!!!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Ok, I challenge you to a duel, sir. But instead of swords or pistols lets use breadsticks, or baguettes if you are feeling lucky...

Go on, but with chickens feet on the end so you can at least scratch each other

A freshly baked baguette is quite scratchy enough!

With maybe some scones, lobbed over arm "

As long as I ain't baked em, them fuckers would leave you needing medical assistance and a bag of frozen peas wherever they struck

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m a misanthropic arsehole and I div’ney give a shite!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"feck no, I'm not here for the same reasons as everyone else.

I'm not gonna get along with someone who treats other people like shit, if I tried to for the sake of "getting" I may spontaneously combust.... and I've only just decorated a couple of rooms so that would be a right waste.

I can disagree with people and do it respectfully, most of those I despise I ignore. But naaawwwww, I ain't painting a picture of sweetness and light when it aint true. Keeping it real bruv "

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake "

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the most part, I think that we do all get along on here. From what I've observed in my lifetime, the vast majority of people have much more good in them than bad and just want to live a peaceful life?

Also, even though someone is usually nice on here, it doesn’t mean they don’t think bad thoughts sometimes. They have just learned, or prefer to not show them, or to rise above them and not pick fights or be argumentative.

If you watch any documentary on chimpanzees, who are our closest chromosomal cousins, you’ll see how atrocious THEIR behavior is, and you may think to yourself, wow, instead of hoping for "nice" and us all getting along, maybe I should just be thankful I don’t get faeces tossed in my face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake "

Cake is anal, right?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in "

Can i join

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in "

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner "

So if I steal and enjoy the cake I then also get tied up? I'm struggling to see the downside here

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner "

I'm gonna cry becausecyou left me out

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Just kidding

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

I'm gonna cry becausecyou left me out "

Want to come join me in the spanking corner? Sneak me some cake??

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

I'm gonna cry becausecyou left me out "

I'll share my cake with you, and we can both spank Cede

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 28/09/20 23:24:12]"

What did I miss ?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

So if I steal and enjoy the cake I then also get tied up? I'm struggling to see the downside here "

Ermmmm. Did i mention the sybian that's now been installed. That plus spanking, Oooft! You'll be legless

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me."

I'd knock yer bleeding block off if you went all fakey weird

You GM are the person who inspired me (along with a few other articulate mofos) how to not outright call someone a cunt, but to show them why they are

Well, maybe not quite like that but I'll let you take the credit.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

So if I steal and enjoy the cake I then also get tied up? I'm struggling to see the downside here

Ermmmm. Did i mention the sybian that's now been installed. That plus spanking, Oooft! You'll be legless "

I'm good with that

Who needs to walk when you can crawl anyway

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

I'm gonna cry becausecyou left me out

Want to come join me in the spanking corner? Sneak me some cake?? "

I checked your profile and defenitly yes i want not sure if you have checked mine or if i'm appealing to you , defenitly i go any time with you in to the spanking corner

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"We're not all here for the same reason OP, but i agree we should all just shake hands, squeeze butts, flirt and be merry in this virtual orgy.

Inevitably, circles form, and emotions rise, tension builds and suddenly people get stroppy.

I'm just here to eat cake

Cake and orgy in one post?? I'm in

You're just wanting a lick of the cream from my cake

You dare come steal my cake, I'll be restraining you with my belts again and put you in the spanking corner

I'm gonna cry becausecyou left me out

I'll share my cake with you, and we can both spank Cede "

I think is too late now probably me and Cede we could spank you

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Cause I don’t want to live in an echo chamber, that would be incredible dull, I like to be challenged.

Thumb war??

Not that much of a challenge! "

I never win thumb wars as I have small hands

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings


"Ultimately we're all here for the same reason.. why do we all have to argue?

Let's spread some love everyone, and ignore the rest! Xx "

Count me in

Oh and I like small thum's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me."

Are you being serious or ironic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people like to belittle others unfortunately it’s like any group but it also offers diversity and keeps it interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the suggestion that everyone in here is embroiled in bitter arguments is greatly exaggerated.

Though lets be honest if you go anywhere in life expecting everyone to agree with you and follow the same ideals youre in for a shock.

The worst that happens in here, is being on the receiving end of a terse comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultimately we're all here for the same reason.. why do we all have to argue?

Let's spread some love everyone, and ignore the rest! Xx "

I wouldn’t say we’re arguing it’s healthy debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wear rose coloured spectacles expect them to get broken occasionally.

You have to be yourself to connect with people with a similar mindset.

I'm a realist and want to meet people who are true to themselves.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?"

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you wear rose coloured spectacles expect them to get broken occasionally.

You have to be yourself to connect with people with a similar mindset.

I'm a realist and want to meet people who are true to themselves.

"

Very true.

Being yourself sometimes means butting up against people who are very different, if they choose to be themselves. Sometimes that works, sometimes it doesn't.

I can and do compromise but I choose how to do so carefully.

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"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?"

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some of us just won't get along. It's also a question of how we deal with it.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I don’t get along but I’ve got a long...............

Sorry couldn’t resist, usual talking bollocks is resumed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs funny lately, innit....

(Please don't ever change you beautiful creatures....)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote."

I don't need to go back to those threads to know that I stand by everything I said based on what was *known* at the time I wrote them - as for your "interpretation" of what was said I can't do anything about that other than assure you it's your interpretation and nothing more - I certainly didn't state any of what you are suggesting.

Yes, time has proved you correct and I hold my hand up to that, just as I hold my hand up to challenging things that were being said when it was not quite so black and white.

If you find that and what I have said above laughable, then that is of course your prerogative, but again I stand by all I said both at the time and above.

I also don't think there's any point in raking the coals further, it's plainly obvious we disagree and I'm perfectly happy to agree to disagree and leave it at that, so shan't be responding further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re not all here for the same reasons OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re not all here for the same reasons OP "

For instance, she's only here to invade people's personal swamps... or have her swamp invaded. It's hard to keep track really.

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over a year ago


"We’re not all here for the same reasons OP

For instance, she's only here to invade people's personal swamps... or have her swamp invaded. It's hard to keep track really."

Exactly

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"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote.

I don't need to go back to those threads to know that I stand by everything I said based on what was *known* at the time I wrote them - as for your "interpretation" of what was said I can't do anything about that other than assure you it's your interpretation and nothing more - I certainly didn't state any of what you are suggesting.

Yes, time has proved you correct and I hold my hand up to that, just as I hold my hand up to challenging things that were being said when it was not quite so black and white.

If you find that and what I have said above laughable, then that is of course your prerogative, but again I stand by all I said both at the time and above.

I also don't think there's any point in raking the coals further, it's plainly obvious we disagree and I'm perfectly happy to agree to disagree and leave it at that, so shan't be responding further."

Let me play your game then.

You are wrong. I won't provide an argument as to why you are wrong as I feel that I am so superior to you that I don't feel the need to provide a counter argument. Me saying you are wrong is proof enough.

I will now refuse to engage you on the subject since this would actually require me to come up with facts and logic to substiate my stance.

I shall now go back to virtue signalling.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"We’re not all here for the same reasons OP

For instance, she's only here to invade people's personal swamps... or have her swamp invaded. It's hard to keep track really."

I don't have a swamp. I can do a stream if that counts?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

I shall now go back to virtue signalling."

Virtue signalling is much better than the logical alternative, isn't it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We’re not all here for the same reasons OP

For instance, she's only here to invade people's personal swamps... or have her swamp invaded. It's hard to keep track really.

I don't have a swamp. I can do a stream if that counts? "

Kinky

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

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"Ultimately we're all here for the same reason.. why do we all have to argue?

Let's spread some love everyone, and ignore the rest! Xx "

Good for you Op it’s not always seen as cool to be nice and sometimes taken as a weakness when the opposite is actually true

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ultimately we're all here for the same reason.. why do we all have to argue?

Let's spread some love everyone, and ignore the rest! Xx

Good for you Op it’s not always seen as cool to be nice and sometimes taken as a weakness when the opposite is actually true "

I think compassion and empathy are seen as weakness until people realise that principles underpin them.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"We’re not all here for the same reasons OP

For instance, she's only here to invade people's personal swamps... or have her swamp invaded. It's hard to keep track really.

I don't have a swamp. I can do a stream if that counts?

Kinky"

I've been called worse....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote."

Isn't that just the nature of the fab forums though fella? On the more serious topics some folk will want to tell you what they think rather than what they know, and they often insist their view carries more weight than yours while they rarely seem to care about what you think or how you feel, just as long as what they're saying is making them feel good or appear good? Challenge is mostly futile because, well if the above is true then it's unlikely to yield mutual personal growth or agreement on any level. Bottom line for me is that what angry or upset strangers with a point to prove online think of you or I really isn't that important in day to day life and if you give them enough rope, then, you know..... Imho it's best to just let it drift on by and focus on what really matters if you can....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Personal growth on the Fab forum?

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over a year ago

For me it's the sad side of human nature when we can't all recognise, respect and love each other as human beings at least on a basic level. Like, even if I disagree with someone, I don't want to upset them, even if they've upset me. Each person has family and friends etc and how we treat them carries through to those people and in turn those ppl's ppl.l and ripples out...

Debate hard and healthily, but please also try to spread some love too, especially in challenging times, innit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal growth on the Fab forum?

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I wouldn't come here if it didn't grow me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personal growth on the Fab forum?

I wouldn't come here if it didn't grow me.... "

But maybe my starting point is low....?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"For me it's the sad side of human nature when we can't all recognise, respect and love each other as human beings at least on a basic level. Like, even if I disagree with someone, I don't want to upset them, even if they've upset me. Each person has family and friends etc and how we treat them carries through to those people and in turn those ppl's ppl.l and ripples out...

Debate hard and healthily, but please also try to spread some love too, especially in challenging times, innit... "

Wise words Nip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because we are not here for the same reason and we can't all think the same and would we actually want that?"
well said no we are not all here for the same reason otherwise fab would do your profile for you we love the diversity on here everyone gets to make their own choices

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"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote.

Isn't that just the nature of the fab forums though fella? On the more serious topics some folk will want to tell you what they think rather than what they know, and they often insist their view carries more weight than yours while they rarely seem to care about what you think or how you feel, just as long as what they're saying is making them feel good or appear good? Challenge is mostly futile because, well if the above is true then it's unlikely to yield mutual personal growth or agreement on any level. Bottom line for me is that what angry or upset strangers with a point to prove online think of you or I really isn't that important in day to day life and if you give them enough rope, then, you know..... Imho it's best to just let it drift on by and focus on what really matters if you can.... "

Hey I'm all for a good debate. In fact I want people to push back. I've learned a lot on these forums. If I am wrong and can prove it, I won't just accept that, I'll thank you for it.

But to have someone come on here, belittle you in a patronising manner and then run away when challenged isn't exactly heroic. To then have that person posting about how they own the moral high ground just makes me laugh. But I guess when you have a big enough fan club facts aren't relevant, just ask Donald Trump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it's the sad side of human nature when we can't all recognise, respect and love each other as human beings at least on a basic level. Like, even if I disagree with someone, I don't want to upset them, even if they've upset me. Each person has family and friends etc and how we treat them carries through to those people and in turn those ppl's ppl.l and ripples out...

Debate hard and healthily, but please also try to spread some love too, especially in challenging times, innit... "

In my opinion the sure sign of a poor argument is the need to stoop to personal attacks rather than present a counter argument.

You will notice that Donald Trump does this often. If he gets asked a question he can't answer or finds awkward he attacks the person asking the question rather than addressing the question itself.

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"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote.

Isn't that just the nature of the fab forums though fella? On the more serious topics some folk will want to tell you what they think rather than what they know, and they often insist their view carries more weight than yours while they rarely seem to care about what you think or how you feel, just as long as what they're saying is making them feel good or appear good? Challenge is mostly futile because, well if the above is true then it's unlikely to yield mutual personal growth or agreement on any level. Bottom line for me is that what angry or upset strangers with a point to prove online think of you or I really isn't that important in day to day life and if you give them enough rope, then, you know..... Imho it's best to just let it drift on by and focus on what really matters if you can....

Hey I'm all for a good debate. In fact I want people to push back. I've learned a lot on these forums. If I am wrong and can prove it, I won't just accept that, I'll thank you for it.

But to have someone come on here, belittle you in a patronising manner and then run away when challenged isn't exactly heroic. To then have that person posting about how they own the moral high ground just makes me laugh. But I guess when you have a big enough fan club facts aren't relevant, just ask Donald Trump

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I hear you fella

Keep up the good work!

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"Think of Fab as a microcosm of life OP - you don't get on with everyone there, so why would it be any different here?

Life isn't always rainbows and cute puppies and nor is here - people will disagree, people will have different opinions, people will like each other and people will loathe each other, people will put on a facade of sweetness and light and people will show their true colours etc etc ad infinitum - and you can't expect that much of a mix to get on all of the time.

So long as people remain respectful and stay within site rules then that is the best you can hope for.

One things for sure though as my dearest Princess Peach said, I'm not about to put on any kind of false pretence around people I don't like, nor am I going to *not* express an opinion (that isn't derogatory) because it might upset someone - that kind of fakery is just not me.

Are you being serious or ironic?

Perfectly serious, not sure where there's any irony in what I said?

You don't remember saying Covid-19 wasn't serious because Worldometer has adverts on their site? Don't remember when time proved me to be justified in what I was saying, that you were not prepared to admit you had been wrong. Instead made me out to be an evil person for pointing out that I had been correct. As if I was then dancing on people's graves.

When I was right, I was wrong. And when I was right I was wrong for pointing out that I had been right.

So everything you wrote above is laughable. Perhaps you need to go back to those threads and see what you wrote.

Isn't that just the nature of the fab forums though fella? On the more serious topics some folk will want to tell you what they think rather than what they know, and they often insist their view carries more weight than yours while they rarely seem to care about what you think or how you feel, just as long as what they're saying is making them feel good or appear good? Challenge is mostly futile because, well if the above is true then it's unlikely to yield mutual personal growth or agreement on any level. Bottom line for me is that what angry or upset strangers with a point to prove online think of you or I really isn't that important in day to day life and if you give them enough rope, then, you know..... Imho it's best to just let it drift on by and focus on what really matters if you can....

Hey I'm all for a good debate. In fact I want people to push back. I've learned a lot on these forums. If I am wrong and can prove it, I won't just accept that, I'll thank you for it.

But to have someone come on here, belittle you in a patronising manner and then run away when challenged isn't exactly heroic. To then have that person posting about how they own the moral high ground just makes me laugh. But I guess when you have a big enough fan club facts aren't relevant, just ask Donald Trump

I hear you fella

Keep up the good work!"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"For me it's the sad side of human nature when we can't all recognise, respect and love each other as human beings at least on a basic level. Like, even if I disagree with someone, I don't want to upset them, even if they've upset me. Each person has family and friends etc and how we treat them carries through to those people and in turn those ppl's ppl.l and ripples out...

Debate hard and healthily, but please also try to spread some love too, especially in challenging times, innit...

In my opinion the sure sign of a poor argument is the need to stoop to personal attacks rather than present a counter argument.

You will notice that Donald Trump does this often. If he gets asked a question he can't answer or finds awkward he attacks the person asking the question rather than addressing the question itself."

The sign of someone honest and intelligent is someone who considers the evidence and at least contemplates a modification to their position. It's been fascinating to watch over the course of the pandemic those who can and those who can't.

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over a year ago

Humans carnt get along its in oure nature ask any sociolagis eg ee dont like strangers .we dont trust folks from the next village . We build empires then bring them down with civil war and start again. Its in oure nature like the story of the fox and the scorpion crossing the river

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Humans carnt get along its in oure nature ask any sociolagis eg ee dont like strangers .we dont trust folks from the next village . We build empires then bring them down with civil war and start again. Its in oure nature like the story of the fox and the scorpion crossing the river"

Identity, belonging, defined through exclusion. It does seem to be hard wired into us

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What happened?

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