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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

So you've been chatting for a while, flirted loads, and had a few phone/video calls to build the sexual tension.

Moment comes to finally meet up for a 'date'...fcuk!What do wear?? Will they like it?

What's your choice of outfit? Do you dress in a manner that crucial areas are easily accessible

For the guys: do you jeans/shirt, tshirt or, or suited, smart shoes/trainers?

For the women: do you jeans/dress top, full dress, heels/flats?

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress lover here. Stockings or bare legs. Nice shoes. Jewellery to match. Something unusual in the outfit to show who I am and serve as a conversation filler at some point hopefully if he is able to notice! a haiclip to adjust and touch your hair... A belt to wiggle back to straight presence when you stand up.. long earrings to playfully stroke. Etc.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

For those very rare occasions i usually play it by ear depending on the venue chosen, the weather and how the conversation has gone prior, sometimes it's agreed between us to make it casual. I'll always wear a decent shirt then it's a question of jeans or something more formal such as speedos. Then either leather jacket or suit jacket. As a rule i try to make an effort and hope that the lady does the same.

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Shirt and speedos ha ha ha that's hilarious. I hope your joking.

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Shirt and speedos ha ha ha that's hilarious. I hope your joking."

Date at the local leisure centre swimming pool changing rooms maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on where I'm going, the weather and how I feel but I love my dresses and heels.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Shirt and speedos ha ha ha that's hilarious. I hope your joking."

Michelin star restaurants, only the best for date nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pretty much only wear dresses regardless of the occasion. I don't actually own a pair of jeans and haven't for about 10 years.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Dress lover here. Stockings or bare legs. Nice shoes. Jewellery to match. Something unusual in the outfit to show who I am and serve as a conversation filler at some point hopefully if he is able to notice! a haiclip to adjust and touch your hair... A belt to wiggle back to straight presence when you stand up.. long earrings to playfully stroke. Etc."

Professional tease!!

D.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Smart casual. Tailored / muscle fit shirt, nice trousers and shoes.

Always dress to impress for the occasion

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Definitely a dress I like to get my legs out most likely flats unless you want to hold on to me as I’m like bambi on ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress is a shirt, jeans, brown shoes and a sports jacket.

When I see a women wearing a dress. I think it’s classy.

But, depends on the date.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I'll dress appropriately to the venue, activity and time of day, same as I would if I was meeting a non-Fab friend or going alone...I'd look a bit strange turning up to Costa at 10am wearing a ball gown. I'd probably do my hair with a little more care though...save the "dragged through a hedge" look for after we've been getting jiggy and I can blame him for looking like a mad witch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

smart nice casual outfit,small amount of make up, perfume.

Depends on where I'm going, I could be in smart jeans/skirt & top or a dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a couple of dresses i feel comfortable and confident in..

Normally i do wear flats but never generally bothered the guy, ultimately i want to be comfortable.

Id never go for a 'meal' or full on proper planned date for the first time anyways.. I'm pretty chilled out and actually the thought of a proper date just scares me..

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I normally drag them into the forest on a first date, note sketchers and mud don't mix

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I normally drag them into the forest on a first date, note sketchers and mud don't mix "

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I normally drag them into the forest on a first date, note sketchers and mud don't mix "

dogging date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once let the lady choose....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say, looking great in your new profile picture OP.

If i was in a bar and saw you for sure id check you out more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person. You have to get a feel for them. And depends were you go too, a nice restaurant is definately a a trousers and shirt deal with shoes. Going to a pub or nightclub (remember them?)

Tshirt and jeans

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have worn a suit and tie once and surprised her on a first date! Also been instructed not to wear denim or a plain shirt! But normally for first date,clean shoes, nice jeans, slim fit white shirt and a jacket. Big leather belt in case she’s naughty

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Kermit the frog t-shirt, brown cords with Green Wellys with yellow frogs eyes obviously to complete the look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mickey the mouse onesie and gremlins face mask.

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"I have worn a suit and tie once and surprised her on a first date! Also been instructed not to wear denim or a plain shirt! But normally for first date,clean shoes, nice jeans, slim fit white shirt and a jacket. Big leather belt in case she’s naughty "

Interesting. I'm told i dress too formally, so have toned it down over the year

Well done you for wearing your suit though I'm a fan for the higher calibre two-prongue belt

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Just to say, looking great in your new profile picture OP.

If i was in a bar and saw you for sure id check you out more than once "

As long as I'm not mistaken for the Barman (on my night off anyway )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do dresses anyway. Depends if it’s a social or follow up to a social.

If it’s a social I wear something cute I feel good in. If it’s a follow up I tend to dress more sexy, heels, stockings, basque

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Depends on what Date night entails but typically dresses and heels for her and trousers/jeans and a shirt for me.

We have been known in the past to colour coordinate, which is very effective when double doming

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