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Mental health awareness Monday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's the start of a new week and remember anyone out there that is suffering, remember there is someone out there to talk don't keep it inside of yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had my meds increased and it's making me shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im rapidly going backwards back into a silent world and into the shadows. Took me 52 years to discover the real me and to deal with my past but all this is knocking me back. I work 8 to 10 hours alone every day in the wilds and Im beginning to slip back into my own company. I discovered dance in many forms and I could own the dance floor, I discovered a flair for designing clothes and an ability to be around people and enjoy it. But with all dance shut down and all I do is work in silence its slipping away. Gf pulled me upto dance the other night and I just couldn t, couldn t sit down fast enough. I know it doesn t sound much but with the silence comes my thinking and with that my issues are starting to kick me n bite me in the ass again. I ve beaten it once but then there was dance..this is gonna be a toughie to beat again.To all those struggling my very best of wishes and big hugs. We can do this..we have to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im rapidly going backwards back into a silent world and into the shadows. Took me 52 years to discover the real me and to deal with my past but all this is knocking me back. I work 8 to 10 hours alone every day in the wilds and Im beginning to slip back into my own company. I discovered dance in many forms and I could own the dance floor, I discovered a flair for designing clothes and an ability to be around people and enjoy it. But with all dance shut down and all I do is work in silence its slipping away. Gf pulled me upto dance the other night and I just couldn t, couldn t sit down fast enough. I know it doesn t sound much but with the silence comes my thinking and with that my issues are starting to kick me n bite me in the ass again. I ve beaten it once but then there was dance..this is gonna be a toughie to beat again.To all those struggling my very best of wishes and big hugs. We can do this..we have to."

Oh no! This made me sad to read as your posts over the last few months have made me smile. Perhaps it’s because we’re coming into the lower season which I feel is always a time to start reflecting? Don’t lose your need to dance you, just discover a new form that represents your current mood. Sending hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im rapidly going backwards back into a silent world and into the shadows. Took me 52 years to discover the real me and to deal with my past but all this is knocking me back. I work 8 to 10 hours alone every day in the wilds and Im beginning to slip back into my own company. I discovered dance in many forms and I could own the dance floor, I discovered a flair for designing clothes and an ability to be around people and enjoy it. But with all dance shut down and all I do is work in silence its slipping away. Gf pulled me upto dance the other night and I just couldn t, couldn t sit down fast enough. I know it doesn t sound much but with the silence comes my thinking and with that my issues are starting to kick me n bite me in the ass again. I ve beaten it once but then there was dance..this is gonna be a toughie to beat again.To all those struggling my very best of wishes and big hugs. We can do this..we have to.

Oh no! This made me sad to read as your posts over the last few months have made me smile. Perhaps it’s because we’re coming into the lower season which I feel is always a time to start reflecting? Don’t lose your need to dance you, just discover a new form that represents your current mood. Sending hugs "

Hey you thank you. I ve beaten it alone before, guess I ll beat it again and if I dont then so be it, that is the road I must travel. We all have our roads to travel, it just seems mine is built for one with an occassional passenger...I just need to adapt...AGAIN.X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a good community on here willing to help and listen to those who are struggling at the moment. If you are a lurker and want to post then do so your voice will be heard .

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes these are challenging times for all of us. Even those who have not really suffered with mental health problems in the past are finding new challenges that are testing them. Being there for each other and being mindful in our interactions and, in here, particularly in the way we post, is important. Many people are looking to communities like these for support and a social outlet where so many other social norms have been restricted due to the pandemic.

I’m not on here much at all as my priorities are different now, but this place has helped me through some of my personal struggles in the past, because of the listening ear and wise words of a few friends and the ability to escape and post my rambling thoughts into the forum ether. For that I am eternally grateful.

Wishing all of you well and much love

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Have suffered really badly over the past month, and at times it's been really dark moments,talking does help but have also realised that this time I need the doctors help also and awaiting a call back tomorrow x storm x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Have suffered really badly over the past month, and at times it's been really dark moments,talking does help but have also realised that this time I need the doctors help also and awaiting a call back tomorrow x storm x "

Best of luck. It's not easy admitting you need help.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Have suffered really badly over the past month, and at times it's been really dark moments,talking does help but have also realised that this time I need the doctors help also and awaiting a call back tomorrow x storm x

Best of luck. It's not easy admitting you need help."

Thank you x Storm x

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