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"Good idea. See a few people lose their poise today ![]() It happens. | |||
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"Always assume good intent folks, best way to be " When in doubt air on the side of positivity | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() And the mods are there to reprimand for posts that aren't worded politely...but it's very subjective and all too often I see people saying they upset by an opinion that I would say has been worded politely. I have been called nasty (and worse) before for things that I have posted, but I've never received so much as a warning for anything I've posted, so I'd surmise that they were nice posts but someone interpreted them differently to how they were intended. I cannot control how other people interpret my posts | |||
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"It's not always possible to"be nice" when confronted with blatant racism and homphobia... " Suffered racism myself, didn’t act like a prick though | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's not always possible to"be nice" when confronted with blatant racism and homphobia... Suffered racism myself, didn’t act like a prick though " It's not a black and white issue (ha!) | |||
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"Good idea. See a few people lose their poise today ![]() Nevermind mind poise, GREAT posterior! ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() I haven't seen any personal comments today. What's gone on? | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating" That's basically what I was trying to say...but I was putting it "nicely" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating" Always have a bucket handy reading the forum ! | |||
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"Cup of tea, anyone? Can I have a coffee please? ![]() Kettle’s on. Come and get it ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() I meant in general. I’ve hardly been on today. | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity" I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() | |||
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"Just milk ...... keep the teabag in . I’ll bring cake .... who doesn’t love tea and cake ..... Any ladies I’ll pick you up and drop you back ![]() I think I’m gonna need a bigger teapot... | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() What a virtue you've signalled! | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting ![]() | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating" It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Everyone has a right to their opinion and often it can lead to interesting deviations from our ways of thinking...what wracks me off is the nastiness that often accompanies it. My perfect tribe would be a bunch of people with different outlooks that would get together with drinks n munchies and debate everything n anything but with an open mind and understanding..then end the meet with perfect naughtyness lolol but alas ![]() | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() My holy vagina ![]() | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() I'm now imagining the minister walking down the aisle at church to the amen refrain and I'm going to an even deeper circle of hell ![]() | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Me or my holes? ![]() | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() I would happily bow to your holyness...and anything else required ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() The entire package....totally stunningly gorgeous xx ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information. | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() ![]() I've actually had my holes blessed with holy water ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I’ll never eat marmite though . Even if my life depended on it! ![]() | |||
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on ...such a pity I am holier though. I have three holes ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You're very sweet, thank you ![]() | |||
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"Lacy Red ..... save any confusion ![]() ![]() Haha that could have gotten awkward! | |||
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"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! ![]() When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir? - John Maynard Keynes Who doesn't love a bit of Keynes around here? Dat economics... | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Everyone has their line Nora ![]() | |||
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"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Lacy Red ..... save any confusion ![]() ![]() Hahahaha ![]() | |||
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive. Just my thoughts on it ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Omg. I so agree. Covid has changed people. Some have turned as if the world is about to end. Its serious yes but lets fight the virious and not ourselves" ![]() | |||
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"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating" It does at times yes | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great " If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. | |||
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"I'm always nice x Yes you are , very nice !! ![]() Awww thanks ![]() | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. " You can choose to be nice or mean these are choices that we all can make so when voicing a different opinion you could choose to do that without adding a sprinkle of a dig at the next person would be one example while it might be simple or basic it can help make things a bit more civil | |||
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"I prefer honest over nice If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out. Always try to look out for people as well. " Let's have both honest and nice. ![]() | |||
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"I prefer honest over nice If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out. Always try to look out for people as well. Let's have both honest and nice. ![]() Of course I am nice, but I don't blow smoke up other people arses for the sake of it. | |||
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"Lately there seems to be a race on to moan the most or send an even worse response let's just all try to be nicer and more positive. Thoughts ? " probably a lot if sexually frustrated people out there, I know I get a little pissy when I'm horny and all I got to look forward to is a wank ..... again | |||
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"I prefer honest over nice If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out. Always try to look out for people as well. " ![]() | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. " ![]() | |||
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. You can choose to be nice or mean these are choices that we all can make so when voicing a different opinion you could choose to do that without adding a sprinkle of a dig at the next person would be one example while it might be simple or basic it can help make things a bit more civil" There's something to be said for it. Because it should be expected, but it's so often no longer the norm. We see different priorities in communication for whatever reason. And so yes, it does feel like there's the need to return to basics. | |||
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