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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near

Lately there seems to be a race on to moan the most or send an even worse response let's just all try to be nicer and more positive.

Thoughts ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Nice cock.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Good idea. See a few people lose their poise today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s been quite a few of these be kind, be nice threads lately too.

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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near

Let's hope they work. Some days you just see way too many negative status rants and messages

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Nice cock. "

This.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Good idea. See a few people lose their poise today "

It happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always be kind, you don’t know what others may be going through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always assume good intent folks, best way to be

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near


"Always assume good intent folks, best way to be "

When in doubt air on the side of positivity

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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it "

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Even when I try to be nice be my face goes like this

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other "

And the mods are there to reprimand for posts that aren't worded politely...but it's very subjective and all too often I see people saying they upset by an opinion that I would say has been worded politely. I have been called nasty (and worse) before for things that I have posted, but I've never received so much as a warning for anything I've posted, so I'd surmise that they were nice posts but someone interpreted them differently to how they were intended. I cannot control how other people interpret my posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other "

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's not always possible to"be nice" when confronted with blatant racism and homphobia...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, just because you may have a different opinion or don’t agree with someone, doesn’t give you the right to be nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not always possible to"be nice" when confronted with blatant racism and homphobia... "

Suffered racism myself, didn’t act like a prick though

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here "

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It's not always possible to"be nice" when confronted with blatant racism and homphobia...

Suffered racism myself, didn’t act like a prick though "

It's not a black and white issue (ha!)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nice is wishy washy.

What about principled, compassionate, (sometimes diplomatic), considerate, empathetic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it. People were suspicious. I'll carry on if it's all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do when working on your ‘niceness’ is to work on your emotional intelligence- recommend it to everyone

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"Good idea. See a few people lose their poise today

It happens."

Nevermind mind poise, GREAT posterior!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Good idea. See a few people lose their poise today

It happens.

Nevermind mind poise, GREAT posterior! "

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

Cup of tea, anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cup of tea, anyone? "

Can I have a coffee please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here "

I haven't seen any personal comments today. What's gone on?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating"

That's basically what I was trying to say...but I was putting it "nicely"

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating"

Always have a bucket handy reading the forum !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"Cup of tea, anyone?

Can I have a coffee please? "

Kettle’s on.

Come and get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

I haven't seen any personal comments today. What's gone on?"

I meant in general. I’ve hardly been on today.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here "

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just milk ...... keep the teabag in . I’ll bring cake .... who doesn’t love tea and cake ..... Any ladies I’ll pick you up and drop you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements . "

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest and say I often see people post similar threads, and I must be missing all the horrendous behaviour? Its just the forums, and no different to any other day unless you personally get involved?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity"

I am holier though. I have three holes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I for one always do a good deed and be nice to at least someone every day ..... not to make myself feel good ...... genuinely just the way I am . And it makes me feel good btw

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


"Just milk ...... keep the teabag in . I’ll bring cake .... who doesn’t love tea and cake ..... Any ladies I’ll pick you up and drop you back "

I think I’m gonna need a bigger teapot...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes "

What a virtue you've signalled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes "

and so very beautiful too if I may say

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx"

God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .

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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating"

It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx

God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting . "

Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx

God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .

Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! "

Everyone has a right to their opinion and often it can lead to interesting deviations from our ways of thinking...what wracks me off is the nastiness that often accompanies it. My perfect tribe would be a bunch of people with different outlooks that would get together with drinks n munchies and debate everything n anything but with an open mind and understanding..then end the meet with perfect naughtyness lolol but alas

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

What a virtue you've signalled!"

My holy vagina

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

What a virtue you've signalled!

My holy vagina "

I'm now imagining the minister walking down the aisle at church to the amen refrain and I'm going to an even deeper circle of hell

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

and so very beautiful too if I may say "

Me or my holes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

What a virtue you've signalled!

My holy vagina "

I would happily bow to your holyness...and anything else required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what a butt crack you have my dear o-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

and so very beautiful too if I may say

Me or my holes? "

The entire package....totally stunningly gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lacy Red ..... save any confusion

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx

God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .

Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! "

That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

What a virtue you've signalled!

My holy vagina

I'm now imagining the minister walking down the aisle at church to the amen refrain and I'm going to an even deeper circle of hell "

I've actually had my holes blessed with holy water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx

God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .

Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!

That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information. "

I’ll never eat marmite though . Even if my life depended on it!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on

...such a pity

I am holier though. I have three holes

and so very beautiful too if I may say

Me or my holes?

The entire package....totally stunningly gorgeous xx "

You're very sweet, thank you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Lacy Red ..... save any confusion "

Haha that could have gotten awkward!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!

That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information. "

When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir?

- John Maynard Keynes

Who doesn't love a bit of Keynes around here? Dat economics...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it

I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other

Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here

Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .

Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx

God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .

Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!

That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.

I’ll never eat marmite though . Even if my life depended on it! "

Everyone has their line Nora

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!

That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.

When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir?

- John Maynard Keynes

Who doesn't love a bit of Keynes around here? Dat economics... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lacy Red ..... save any confusion

Haha that could have gotten awkward! "

Hahahaha

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.

Just my thoughts on it "

.... But let's, breeeeeeathe.....

Can we get back to the fab snog party now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg. I so agree. Covid has changed people. Some have turned as if the world is about to end. Its serious yes but lets fight the virious and not ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Omg. I so agree. Covid has changed people. Some have turned as if the world is about to end. Its serious yes but lets fight the virious and not ourselves"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!

That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.

When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir?

- John Maynard Keynes

Who doesn't love a bit of Keynes around here? Dat economics... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped being nice during my teenage years. I doubt I’ll be starting again now.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating"

It does at times yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only nice if someone else is nice

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm always nice x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m always nice until you f**k with me then you are dead to me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm always nice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer honest over nice

If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out.

Always try to look out for people as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating

It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great "

If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always nice x"

Yes you are , very nice !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t trust anyone who says they’re always nice.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm always nice x

Yes you are , very nice !! "

Awww thanks

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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating

It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great

If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. "

You can choose to be nice or mean these are choices that we all can make so when voicing a different opinion you could choose to do that without adding a sprinkle of a dig at the next person would be one example while it might be simple or basic it can help make things a bit more civil

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By *oe_pr OP   Man
over a year ago

near


"I prefer honest over nice

If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out.

Always try to look out for people as well.

"

Let's have both honest and nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer honest over nice

If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out.

Always try to look out for people as well.

Let's have both honest and nice.

"

Of course I am nice, but I don't blow smoke up other people arses for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately there seems to be a race on to moan the most or send an even worse response let's just all try to be nicer and more positive.

Thoughts ? "

probably a lot if sexually frustrated people out there, I know I get a little pissy when I'm horny and all I got to look forward to is a wank ..... again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer honest over nice

If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out.

Always try to look out for people as well.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating

It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great

If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating

It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great

If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me.

You can choose to be nice or mean these are choices that we all can make so when voicing a different opinion you could choose to do that without adding a sprinkle of a dig at the next person would be one example while it might be simple or basic it can help make things a bit more civil"

There's something to be said for it. Because it should be expected, but it's so often no longer the norm. We see different priorities in communication for whatever reason. And so yes, it does feel like there's the need to return to basics.

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