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Major surgery and sex after

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By *irewolff OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

So I had major surgery this week: right hip replacement. Unfort my cancer came back but this time in my bones. The top of my femur was so bad with cancer, they had no choice but to do a full hip replacement. Shock to say the least. I was cancer free for only 3 years.

I feel for MrD as lord knows when I will be able to get back into the full swing of things. I keep dreaming about having sex with him! I know we can start doing other stuff soon but he is very cautious about my side and I am not all that mobile. Think he might have to position himself to suit me for a bj. Dying to give him one!

I will be on hormone therapy soon for the cancer. Early menopause for me!!! So lord knows how my libido will go. Hopefully not down the drain

Life sucks alot sometimes

MsD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ob sending hugs and wishes for a speedy recovery OP... You sound like you are very resilient and positive

Perhaps a sex swing chair might be fun and helpful when you are ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby going through chemo now. Three feet of gut and a 2lb tumour remover last year. It's already spread to his liver. No pain as such but he lost 4 stone in as many months and he wasn't overweight to start with. Biggest problem for him is the fatigue.

Hope you feel better soon and the pain is at least bearable

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Big hugs . Xx get well soon

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A situation no one wants to find themselves in, I can only echo what others have said and that tour recover is as pain free as it can be.

Have you thought about or considered other activities that could replace or enhance the traditional physical activities? The biggest sex organ is the brain after all.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Sending healing hugs

You are obviously a fighter with good support. Don't rush it and let yourself heal properly.

It really is a shitty disease

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's a Bastard Cancer!

Sending you lots of love.

Keep fighting!

Jo.Xx

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Wishing you a speedy recovery

Cancers a bitch! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I had major surgery this week: right hip replacement. Unfort my cancer came back but this time in my bones. The top of my femur was so bad with cancer, they had no choice but to do a full hip replacement. Shock to say the least. I was cancer free for only 3 years.

I feel for MrD as lord knows when I will be able to get back into the full swing of things. I keep dreaming about having sex with him! I know we can start doing other stuff soon but he is very cautious about my side and I am not all that mobile. Think he might have to position himself to suit me for a bj. Dying to give him one!

I will be on hormone therapy soon for the cancer. Early menopause for me!!! So lord knows how my libido will go. Hopefully not down the drain

Life sucks alot sometimes

MsD"

I’m so sorry sweetheart, that’s really rough.

Sending you hugs

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK


"So I had major surgery this week: right hip replacement. Unfort my cancer came back but this time in my bones. The top of my femur was so bad with cancer, they had no choice but to do a full hip replacement. Shock to say the least. I was cancer free for only 3 years.

I feel for MrD as lord knows when I will be able to get back into the full swing of things. I keep dreaming about having sex with him! I know we can start doing other stuff soon but he is very cautious about my side and I am not all that mobile. Think he might have to position himself to suit me for a bj. Dying to give him one!

I will be on hormone therapy soon for the cancer. Early menopause for me!!! So lord knows how my libido will go. Hopefully not down the drain

Life sucks alot sometimes

MsD"

Oh sending you hugs and well wishes xx

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Oh gosh sending lurve to you and others on this thread who are also effected.

Listen to your body and take it slowly. If you have a good partner they will also take things at your pace and be understanding.

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