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By *ilverminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

A friend and I were talking about this. Would you pay someone to come cuddle you? When you’ve had a really bad day? When you’re feeling alone? Someone to just squeeze tight and tell you it’s going to be ok?

Personally have reached points where I would have done anything to receive that. I’d have paid.

Thoughts?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, I don't think I would. I couldn't get past the fact that they hadn't chosen to cuddle me, it was just a job to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do I feel like I've read about this being a thing? Japan maybe?...

Not sure I'd pay but I'd think about doing it to top up my wages on the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I love a good cuddle but it needs to be with someone who cares for me Or at least likes me for it to be worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I don't think I would. I couldn't get past the fact that they hadn't chosen to cuddle me, it was just a job to them.

"

This for me ^^

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No, I don't think I would. I couldn't get past the fact that they hadn't chosen to cuddle me, it was just a job to them.

"

Same for me. Its empty without the genuine affection. I'm lucly tjat in normal times I can get my cuddle fill from friends.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

What makes a cuddle a cuddle is the connection you have with the other person. If you don't know them, it's a meaningless, empty act.

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By *ilverminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

There’s a guy in NY who does it


"Why do I feel like I've read about this being a thing? Japan maybe?...

Not sure I'd pay but I'd think about doing it to top up my wages on the weekend "

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By *ilverminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Is it any different from getting a cuddle from someone you’ve been chatting to on fab?

I’ve had cuddles from guys I’ve met on the first meet.


"No, I don't think I would. I couldn't get past the fact that they hadn't chosen to cuddle me, it was just a job to them.

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By *arko BMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"A friend and I were talking about this. Would you pay someone to come cuddle you? When you’ve had a really bad day? When you’re feeling alone? Someone to just squeeze tight and tell you it’s going to be ok?

Personally have reached points where I would have done anything to receive that. I’d have paid.

Thoughts? "

I would, very good idea tbh

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I wouldn't pay for a cuddle but yes if I see someone in distress and they need a cuddle I'm there for them, stranger or not.

Any groping though and I take no responsibility for my actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d do it for free any takers possibly run my fingers through your hair stroking it don’t ask for much me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a cuddle isn't affectionate, it's not worth having. A paid cuddle could never be affectionate. In my opinion anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a cuddle isn't affectionate, it's not worth having. A paid cuddle could never be affectionate. In my opinion anyway."

That's because you have to buy the gold member package which includes arm stroking and asking about your day

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I wouldn't pay for a cuddle but yes if I see someone in distress and they need a cuddle I'm there for them, stranger or not.

Any groping though and I take no responsibility for my actions

"

Are you a groper then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a cuddle isn't affectionate, it's not worth having. A paid cuddle could never be affectionate. In my opinion anyway.

That's because you have to buy the gold member package which includes arm stroking and asking about your day "

It still wouldn't feel good, as I would know they were only doing it for the money.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No I definitely couldn’t you just know when someone can’t be arsed cuddling you that would just leave me feeling empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a cuddle isn't affectionate, it's not worth having. A paid cuddle could never be affectionate. In my opinion anyway.

That's because you have to buy the gold member package which includes arm stroking and asking about your day

It still wouldn't feel good, as I would know they were only doing it for the money. "

What if they wanted to get a closer look at your tan lines?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"There’s a guy in NY who does it

Why do I feel like I've read about this being a thing? Japan maybe?...

Not sure I'd pay but I'd think about doing it to top up my wages on the weekend

"

Yep, Japan has a real problem at present. So they have professional cuddlers, and even "hire a friend" for a night out or chat (purely platonic).

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"I wouldn't pay for a cuddle but yes if I see someone in distress and they need a cuddle I'm there for them, stranger or not.

Any groping though and I take no responsibility for my actions

Are you a groper then?

"

Definitely not. Im a professional comforter

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By *ilverminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I think this depends on the person. My friend is very much an empath, the type you would sit with and tell your life story to on a first meet.


"If a cuddle isn't affectionate, it's not worth having. A paid cuddle could never be affectionate. In my opinion anyway."

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Nope not at all, it would have no meaning or warmth and would have a time limit. Sharing physical closeness only adds to your life or eases the pain if it's given freely.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are people who supply themselves as friends and I'm assuming that cuddles come as part of the service, if wanted.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

As much as I love to cuddle and be cuddled, it has to be genuine for it to mean anything.

So I couldn't pay someone for a cuddle.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It doesn’t really work if you don’t have no connection or some kind of relationship with the person. but when it does and it’s extremely deep cuddle is the best thing in the world

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"There are people who supply themselves as friends and I'm assuming that cuddles come as part of the service, if wanted. "

It's a messed up world when someone can put a price tag on "friendship"

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By *ilverminx OP   Woman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Not everyone has friends they can open up to or live close enough for a cuddle. Not every friend likes to be touched or touch others.Personally think we would have a lot less mental health issues if we taught people how to make and be better friends. Most people are selfish and self-centred. Those that aren’t, tend to be abused and end up jaded. But a bit of a deep tangent for a sex site.


"There are people who supply themselves

as friends and I'm assuming that cuddles come as part of the service, if wanted. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking about cuddles , I need some , been Through a lot lately

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I believe cuddles to be a good therapy. And yes we should have professional cuddlers. I'd do it.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could be a professional cuddler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw this on Keeping Up with the Kardashians the other day as Kourtney was investigating odd jobs for her blog thingy and it looked awkward as helllllll. Made me cringe just watching it!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Not everyone has friends they can open up to or live close enough for a cuddle. Not every friend likes to be touched or touch others.Personally think we would have a lot less mental health issues if we taught people how to make and be better friends. Most people are selfish and self-centred. Those that aren’t, tend to be abused and end up jaded. But a bit of a deep tangent for a sex site.

There are people who supply themselves

as friends and I'm assuming that cuddles come as part of the service, if wanted. "

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"I believe cuddles to be a good therapy. And yes we should have professional cuddlers. I'd do it.

Jo.Xx "

I reckon you give an awesome cuddle Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

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