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Why do some women ask for only hotel meet in their profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *eachAndyMan
over a year ago

Studland


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They're married

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By *eachAndyMan
over a year ago

Studland


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They're married"

Or fancy a hotel idk

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


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It's their preference, they may feel safer using hotels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They may not be able to accommodate, they maybe not want to bring people into there family home, they wouldn't feel safe going to a strangers home and the list goes on.

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By *eachAndyMan
over a year ago

Studland


"Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home?"

Yep, that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's their preferred and it will vary. Some will be happy to have the security support that a hotel can provide, including CCTV, personnel, absence of nosy neighbours, intrusive ex's.

It also stops men knowing where you live, should any of them stalk or cause other problems.

Many have family at home, including kids and so the last thing wanted would be an NSA guy around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home?"

If I got to know them a bit first then yes.

Lol but what I meant to ask last night was why do some ladies insist on meeting at home and not hotels.

I noticed it in a couple of profiles. In my d*unkeness I messed this thread up last night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they only want to meet in hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they don’t have to wash the sheets. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel safer in a hotel.

Also, the husband, the girlfriend and 10 kids I have at home kind of ruin the atmosphere for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if your meet is a weirdo or psycho or becomes a stalker... Or decides to call by after getting d*unk on a night out.. Or mentions you to their mate.. Who needs that in their life

Plus, imagine all the tidying up, changing the sheets, making them breakfast.. Meeting the neighbours knowing gaze as they remind you how thin the walls are

Ir forgetting to mention you have cats and then discover they are allergic

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm guessing because they want to meet in a hotel?

For a multitude of their own personal reasons, such as:

They might have kids at home.

Men can be dickheads and they don't want them knocking on at 2am after they've had a skinfull in future.

They don't want to invite random men they've met on the internet, who might possibly be murderers, into their home.

Neutral venue is the best first meet in my opinion.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Cos I love a travelodge selfie

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

They own the hotel and business is down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married kids and dont want the fred west’s at the door ! Most invite me for dinner though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hotels so many reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I cannot speak for womanhood

Maybe you should ask them?

Just saying

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Its more fun in a hotel, I don't go to mens houses or accommodate at my family home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No neighbours that you have to see again to complain about all the noise that was made.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Maybe they don't want a stranger in their home.?!

More secure?!

Jo.Xx

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By *arewithmeMan
over a year ago

Craven Arms

My question is,,,,,,,,,,,, Does it matter what they ask for, its there profile there choice, simples

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They like collecting the miniatures.

I joke. It's probably because they feel safer.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Safer than visiting someone’s home. Hotel meets are pretty awesome, apparently people are more filthy in hotels too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something naughty about a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, my girlfriend and I love hotel meets! Getting a day room and inviting a stranger makes it feel so much more naughty and exciting!

Plus she's a squirter and I like my own mattress dry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safer? Cleaner?

Wouldnt have to be put off by the potential that their meets bedroom resembles Kevin pattersons bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could also feel safer in a public place, where either their or their meets’ name is registered. Would you be comfortable allowing a relative stranger into your home?

If I got to know them a bit first then yes.

Lol but what I meant to ask last night was why do some ladies insist on meeting at home and not hotels.

I noticed it in a couple of profiles. In my d*unkeness I messed this thread up last night. "

Lol you really messed this one up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They like collecting the miniatures.

I joke. It's probably because they feel safer. "

Fuck that. Have you seen the prices of the bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I prefer hotels. It’s neutral ground safer as cameras in hotels. (Though I have cameras in my building everywhere ) so they kinda moot the first point .

Mostly though bringing randoms home isn’t always the best of things as some people can be stalkerish / problematic Later on. etc. Had this myself in my last apartment with a crazy Ivan type Person that kept turning up

Also a lot of women won’t feel safe going to a guys / couples home .

Maybe it’s also a turn on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It's their preference, they may feel safer using hotels. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, my girlfriend and I love hotel meets! Getting a day room and inviting a stranger makes it feel so much more naughty and exciting!

Plus she's a squirter and I like my own mattress dry! "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


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They're married"

You can’t say that about married women

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