FabSwingers.com forum: I give up

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up.

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By *eanne1984Woman
over a year ago

wallasey

Lots of patience is needed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for a lot of people WD. I can’t find what I want either. Don’t give up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to make yourself stand out!

I do it by making sexist comments and then offering a feel you better hug, so it makes it seem like I'm a nice person!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think the same. the men are very difficult so thought maybe have better luck with women... then come to realisation it's just people and covid times

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cue Kate Bush

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Same for a lot of people WD. I can’t find what I want either. Don’t give up x"

I went over a year without meeting at one point. Happens to most of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have to make yourself stand out!

I do it by making sexist comments and then offering a feel you better hug, so it makes it seem like I'm a nice person!"

I just get my lils out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same for a lot of people WD. I can’t find what I want either. Don’t give up x

I went over a year without meeting at one point. Happens to most of us. "

Same. Not that bothered though. I could meet if I wanted to. Just want the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key "

Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key "

Wait until Shag can start posting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass."

Ok. Come here I want you NOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Wait until Shag can start posting again

It’s probably his next status update after what are your Saturday night plans?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Wait until Shag can start posting again

It’s probably his next status update after what are your Saturday night plans?!"

. Love shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.

Ok. Come here I want you NOW"

*Fires up the Ford Focus*

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Wait until Shag can start posting again

Well you can tell shag that line from a film. “You can either let it happen or make it happen”.

Sitting around waiting for snow or go to Lapland?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't rely on fab for sexual attention. It'll probably wreck your self esteem too.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's just not the best time is it!

Peeps maybe don't want to start chatting since they don't want to meet...understandably.

Yes, its frustrating but moaning won't win you brownie points either, I mean this in the nicest possible way WD

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same OP. I won't ever meet anyone who I fancy so I won't meet anyone.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Cue Kate Bush "

I used to have a poster of her on ma bedroom wall when I was a teenager

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Thanks for the support guys I get loads of messages from guys and loads and loads from tv/ts they seem to like the hairy dad bod look but from women not so much and I dont like to send messages looking like some kinda sex pest so I tend to just fab a picture or maybe send a message with a simple compliment "

You're very unlikely to get a meet just from fabbing pictures. If your message is polite you're not being a sex pest so don't worry about that. Just send them then forget about them so any response is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.

Ok. Come here I want you NOW

*Fires up the Ford Focus*"

See you in 6 hours. I’ll have a fishfinger sandwich and a cuppa ready

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Let’s all have a sing along, you know the tune

Whiny, unhappy people,

Whinny, unhappy people (not) holding glands....

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I have the same problem. Polite happy and respectful. Some polite no's or not for me which is fine but i get ignored alot or just deleted. I understand it cant be helped sometimes but everyone says put effort in. When i do i get shot down in flames so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.

Ok. Come here I want you NOW

*Fires up the Ford Focus*

See you in 6 hours. I’ll have a fishfinger sandwich and a cuppa ready

How did she know those are my two favourite things, think she’s a keeper this one.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Now’s the time to play your trump card.

Cock avatar all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whoever came up with “patience is key” needs their head wobbled. Focus man! Focus is key

Yeah, I call bullshit on the patience is key mantra, our time is fleeting, we are nothing but shadows on the wall, all things must pass.

Ok. Come here I want you NOW

*Fires up the Ford Focus*

See you in 6 hours. I’ll have a fishfinger sandwich and a cuppa ready

How did she know those are my two favourite things, think she’s a keeper this one. "

There’s not much Nora doesn’t know

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is nice advise. But its not good trying and getting nowhere

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

Just fab BS unfortunately... Send messages and they never even get read etc Dont let it get you down, as said above, have patience. The patience of a saint and, one day, you might be lucky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how your feeling, its frustrating and even upsetting but just keep being you WD and don't get down buddy.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Question for you mate.

What would you do if you weren’t on fab, because you can always still do that and remember that I’m sure something is bound to come along.

Don’t chase a dream, just be ready to grab it when it comes.

I’ll go back to being my dickish self now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s all have a sing along, you know the tune

Whiny, unhappy people,

Whinny, unhappy people (not) holding glands...."

Oh look, the Bloke in a couple chirping up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just not the best time is it!

Peeps maybe don't want to start chatting since they don't want to meet...understandably.

Yes, its frustrating but moaning won't win you brownie points either, I mean this in the nicest possible way WD

Jo x"
I know you love me jo that's all that matters xxx

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I have the same problem. Polite happy and respectful. Some polite no's or not for me which is fine but i get ignored alot or just deleted. I understand it cant be helped sometimes but everyone says put effort in. When i do i get shot down in flames so to speak"

Then don’t hang your hope on a virtual message, sent to an unknown on the internet. We create our own disappointment in this life, build your profile as best you can, put photos out there that make you feel confident and desirable and let them come to you.

It is a fools hope to be eager on here, just be you, probably a nice kind gent with a few quirks and kinks that SOME people may find desirable. If you must send a message, don’t invest your happiness in it, enjoy the moment of crafting a saucy message to a random on the internet and playing with the potential.

I often think that once a month, for a week, single guys shouldn’t be able to send a message first, I wonder whether this would even the flow, so to speak and promote greater discourse.

Stay sane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

You need to get yourself out there in a positive and respectful manner.

Try posting on the forums more.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Question for you mate.

What would you do if you weren’t on fab, because you can always still do that and remember that I’m sure something is bound to come along.

Don’t chase a dream, just be ready to grab it when it comes.

I’ll go back to being my dickish self now.

Good advice , remember you’ll never get a bargain if you don't even go to sales.... but if you go the sales you may get more than you bargained for ( famous Chinese proverb)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't rely on fab for sexual attention. It'll probably wreck your self esteem too. "

This^

Plus, as already pointed out by some wise wizard, the patience thing really is utter bullshit along with so much of the universal one size fits all fab forum wisdom spouted by ppl trying to get a shag from pretty ladies and/or gents! Take time thinking about what you realistically want to achieve and what will make you happy, then take EVEN MORE time creating a plan to achieve it along with fab domination! Then when you're ready - execute it and enjoy!

Stand out in a good way.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didn't realise you were back Wookiedad! Lovely to see you again xx

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

From my experience most women don't appreciate whining and a "woe is me" attitude, Op. The more often you come across like this the harder they'll avoid.

Have you also considered that given current circumstances there's no incentive for messaging new people either as even if there's interest you might no be able to act on it for a while?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s all have a sing along, you know the tune

Whiny, unhappy people,

Whinny, unhappy people (not) holding glands...."

Ha ha I’m a big fan of humor.

Liked the holding glands bit.

Good band though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming back to this. And this is full of assumptions!

Don't rely on fab for your self esteem.

Having low self esteem sucks. I know, I have both been there and done that, but shallow attention on fab won't cure it a bit, especially if you're a man. Work on your esteem, give yourself your own confidence and it'll become less important on fab.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

Hhhmm.......Whada mean?

I sent you all those "special" videos, and private pic's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Didn't realise you were back Wookiedad! Lovely to see you again xx"
I've been back a week or so now I have fabbed a couple of your pictures xx

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By *herubCheeksWoman
over a year ago

seaside

Most guys state Bi just so couples go for them ..hard decision as i won't meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No expectations is key. I enjoy the forum and the chats I have on messaging. At the moment I'm not particularly looking as I wouldn't be meeting anyway. I'm not thinking I've got to have a meet or I've got to generate interest. Just taking it easy, going with the flow and seeing what happens. Anything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didn't realise you were back Wookiedad! Lovely to see you again xx I've been back a week or so now I have fabbed a couple of your pictures xx

Thanks! Glad you're back, chin up though, I'm sure lots of people just aren't looking to meet at the mo so there's not much point messaging new people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point letting Fab get you down OP, its takes a very long time to show your personality on the forums but eventually people come to see the type of person you are and it becomes attractive to them, after that life on fab becomes far easier. I don't think a single woman spoke to me on fab for around 8 months but as I came with no expectations it made it much easier to accept, so I changed tac and used the forums to solely to amuse myself. If it is truly eating at you then maybe a break for a week or two would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you really want to do other things in life and struggle, do you just say "I give up" and does saying that make you more likely to achieve them? Make your words and actions more positive and assertive and goal oriented. Courting pity and sympathy on the forum's brings a lot of chat and online friendships for a fella I'm sure, but I doubt a lot of shags....?

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Think of it like playing the slot machines, every once in a while youll win..meanwhile just keep tugging

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You come on here to meet people? I thought this is where people gathered to just talk about sex and get horny perving at pics and videos of things you only read about in your dad's vintage porn mag collection. "

This is mostly what I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Didn't realise you were back Wookiedad! Lovely to see you again xx I've been back a week or so now I have fabbed a couple of your pictures xx

Thanks! Glad you're back, chin up though, I'm sure lots of people just aren't looking to meet at the mo so there's not much point messaging new people x"
I'm not to fussed about meeting I just love a good flirt the meetings will happen at some point in the future after that x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Think of it like playing the slot machines, every once in a while youll win..meanwhile just keep tugging

or even worse, the 10 p machines... ya think you gona get a win when the coins fall down... but you don't

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

This is mostly what I do

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The best thing is you don't even have to get dressed up, pay for drinks/food and at the end of it you've still emptied the tank

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

This is mostly what I do

The best thing is you don't even have to get dressed up, pay for drinks/food and at the end of it you've still emptied the tank"

I just need to perfect the art of spooning myself after.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

This is mostly what I do

The best thing is you don't even have to get dressed up, pay for drinks/food and at the end of it you've still emptied the tank

I just need to perfect the art of spooning myself after. "

If you're double jointed or especially flexible you may be just manage it, if not then give it up as a lost cause and be the big spoon to a pillow

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense. Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"

I prefer to decide after seeing forum posts and a wider range of subjects covered as to whether I'd think we were compatible in the convo and brain department, coz the company kept for me is more important than the sex itself

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense. Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"

You mean diy skills don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Don't give up! Shame we're not nearer to you

A lot of people aren't meeting due to Covid too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

From my experience most women don't appreciate whining and a "woe is me" attitude, Op. The more often you come across like this the harder they'll avoid.

Have you also considered that given current circumstances there's no incentive for messaging new people either as even if there's interest you might no be able to act on it for a while?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't give up! Shame we're not nearer to you

A lot of people aren't meeting due to Covid too."
be nice to be able to just flirt and build from there

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me "

That's one thing I can't bring myself to do - I don't think I could cope with being rejected by men as well as women....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

"
areyou giving me eyes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

areyou giving me eyes x

Maybe..

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By *r Rubba LoverMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I get a lot of this too. Keep wondering if the Aether is trying to tell me something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Weird isn't it, I probably wouldn't want to meet someone that was actively wanting or searching to meet. It wouldn't feel like it was naturally developed if that makes sense.

***

Would feel more like "I want to meet because I want sex, you'll do"

***

*** I feel like they only mail me for that reason all the time. Not just this pandemic year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

areyou giving me eyes x

Maybe.. "
I'm in see ya guys

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

This is nice advise. But its not good trying and getting nowhere"

Thing Is the numbers of messages women get it really wouldn’t b get noticed ... Hundreds of messages and I’m being honest I don’t ever check winks. Persistence is key to be fair ....... I often lose people I would have chatted with due to sheer volume. Which has its own frustrations believe me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

So what or who is it you're looking for?

Be truthful.

Fact is even though people have been meeting, they shouldn't have been, so no, you've not missed out, you've not been unlucky.

Many peoples heads are in forum thread mode rather than 1-1 convo mode, and this IS because of covid. Starting chatting to someone with a view to meeting WILL make you then feel like you're missing out if you can't meet due to restrictions or then if it fizzles out over time you'll feel bad because of that. That will frustrate you more I would imagine than not getting messages.

I reckon your best bet is to do what most sensible people have done and write this year off as far as meeting or connection making goes, and wait until the organised socials are back up and running.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me its the friendships I've made over the last 2yrs thats been the most important to me, I know what the site is here for but I'd say most of the girls I chat too don't remotely see me in that way if not all of them.

There friendships are more precious to me as God knows I've needed them over the last 12 months and more now than ever.

Perhaps its my age or the fact I know I'm not as attractive to the girls as younger guys but despite my cheeky nature and the fact that I'm still a horny devil I'm less bothered about sexy meets but do cherish my tiny group of girl friends on my list. If you can alter your expectations and gain friends like mine then rich will you be my friend

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I think for me its the friendships I've made over the last 2yrs thats been the most important to me, I know what the site is here for but I'd say most of the girls I chat too don't remotely see me in that way if not all of them.

There friendships are more precious to me as God knows I've needed them over the last 12 months and more now than ever.

Bonding not bondage

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"So what or who is it you're looking for?

Be truthful.

Fact is even though people have been meeting, they shouldn't have been, so no, you've not missed out, you've not been unlucky.

I reckon your best bet is to do what most sensible people have done and write this year off as far as meeting or connection making goes, and wait until the organised socials are back up and running. "

Well stated and completely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There friendships are more precious to me as God knows I've needed them over the last 12 months and more now than ever.

Bonding not bondage

You always leave me tongue tied PP xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"So what or who is it you're looking for?

Be truthful.

Fact is even though people have been meeting, they shouldn't have been, so no, you've not missed out, you've not been unlucky.

I reckon your best bet is to do what most sensible people have done and write this year off as far as meeting or connection making goes, and wait until the organised socials are back up and running.

Well stated and completely agree

Thank you. I do have sense at times. Rare, I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can message me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but your profile seems thrown together in minutes ie straight looking for tv/ts ? Your single looking for separate room swapping? Your status says what does a guy have to do to get sexual attention a bit of thought in your profile may help this is an observation not criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

I know you haven't asked for profile advice, so I shouldn't really give any...But I would remove the references to being a widower..it may well be putting lady's off...I speak from experience as a widow myself...I find telling people my husband died is a conversation killer in all walks of life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard to get chatting , I mean I’m polite and never rude to anyone ...but I know it will take time to make new pals

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Aww maybe if you're lucky, one of the popular forumite women will do a appreciation thread to cheer you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate measure s op

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

I know that feeling fell

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

If you're just looking for sex with women be better off on other sites this we're shit gets weird.

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I often think that once a month, for a week, single guys shouldn’t be able to send a message first, I wonder whether this would even the flow, so to speak and promote greater discourse.

Stay sane! "

Makes sense. Im not massively confident. I joined this to see what it was like. No joy so to speak

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is nice advise. But its not good trying and getting nowhere

Thats true but i dont want to send too many then be classed as clingy/annoying

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Don't give up, just look at it as being an opportunity to improve, be inventive with your pics and give yourself a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have decided to take up asexual reproduction .... it is the future!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Don’t worry OP. Just don’t change and try to be someone else. There’s someone out there for everyone so just be yourself

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Maybe change your approach when messaging plus let's not forget there is a pandemic going on that has put many off from meeting

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking

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By *herubCheeksWoman
over a year ago

seaside

"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking "

By webcam !

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking

By webcam ! "

Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself why

Look within yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking

By webcam !

Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different "

Columbo is on the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same for a lot of people WD. I can’t find what I want either. Don’t give up x"

I'm here Nora ....just saying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up OP - it's hard work, and even more so in these uncertain times

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking "

he probably just voicing what alot of people feeling atm. dead-end conversations etc... verifications doesn't represent someone's feelings or experiences p

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

If it helps I'm not having any luck either but I know it's unrealistic I'll find it on here anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same for a lot of people WD. I can’t find what I want either. Don’t give up x

I'm here Nora ....just saying lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking

By webcam !

Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different "
yes did notice this a lot of people are using forums to try and bypass the fact that there is a pandemic on and try to improve their meet chances during it

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"Hold on your verified as recently as 3 months ago so this is clearly attention seeking

By webcam !

Yeah once but the other 3 times he was verified he has stated nobody wants him but his veris say different yes did notice this a lot of people are using forums to try and bypass the fact that there is a pandemic on and try to improve their meet chances during it "

Yep completely agree and then people wonder why the cases go up nearly 7000 cases over there I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desperate measure s op

Cans of Lynx and Sky remote controls are desperate measures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's almost impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I'm Peter Gabriel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Climbing up on Shrewsbury Hill

I could see City Jeans

Cos of the lurgy, time stood still

Millennium Falcon flew out of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give up I think I should turn bi I'm sure I'd get more luck or at least fab straight women just don't seem to want me

From my experience most women don't appreciate whining and a "woe is me" attitude, Op. The more often you come across like this the harder they'll avoid.

Have you also considered that given current circumstances there's no incentive for messaging new people either as even if there's interest you might no be able to act on it for a while?"

Its not a good look on women too if it's a regular thing!

Hope you can keep yourself busy. Busy man with interests and passions are ones which usually gather some interest. Change one thing about your look, changes often give me a boost of confidence. New hair. New accessory. New styling. Anything. In other words just focus on you not on who doesnt want you. And then someone might knock without much effort from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't believe the masturbation

Just had to trust Wookiedad's information

My shaft going boom, boom, boom

"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't believe the masturbation

Just had to trust Wookiedad's information

My shaft going boom, boom, boom

"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home"

I've finished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't believe the masturbation

Just had to trust Wookiedad's information

My shaft going boom, boom, boom

"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home

I've finished."

Don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't believe the masturbation

Just had to trust Wookiedad's information

My shaft going boom, boom, boom

"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home

I've finished.

Don't give up."

Okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't believe the masturbation

Just had to trust Wookiedad's information

My shaft going boom, boom, boom

"Jim", he said, "keep on stroking, I've come to take you home

I've finished.

Don't give up.

Okay."

Morrisons offering discounts on dry cleaning of curtains. Pull yourself together.

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