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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hate it when single guys moan couples and single ladies never reply to them and when we say no sorry your not out type they get all funny about it, am i missing something???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when single guys moan couples and single ladies never reply to them and when we say no sorry your not out type they get all funny about it, am i missing something???"

yes

you missed out the shagging them bit !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it happens all the time, just block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah you missed the block button

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

yes you are missing something - they have a right to their opinions so why get "hate" it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yes. You're missing the fact that the single guys on here are all separate people and not some sort of collective consciousness. Some are assholes, just like some women and some couples are. The trick is not to let that affect how you interact with the others...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I hate it when single guys moan couples and single ladies never reply to them and when we say no sorry your not out type they get all funny about it, am i missing something???"

some people... be that men, women and couples... just grumble for the sake of grumbling.....

if they then give themselves an ulcer from it.... their issue not mine.....

mind you... audi drivers... grrrrr!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not missing anything, other than the other nine grillion threads on the same theme! And that's about the only moaning I'll do. For a single guy, that's not too had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i play as a single but am part of a couple, and weve had this on both profiles, to be honest it doesnt bother us we just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah block button is now my friend :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah block button is now my friend :P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its not a opinion tho is it they just get nasty rather than just saying thanks for replying take care, No means no

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Its not a opinion tho is it they just get nasty rather than just saying thanks for replying take care, No means no "

it not just a man thing... you should see some of the stuff I get when I say no "no ta" to women and couples......

just as well I have a very thick skin......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have only had this issue with single guys FACT thats why i put single guys x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We have only had this issue with single guys FACT thats why i put single guys x"

but I am telling you its not just single guys....

so if I said I have never had that sort of male from a single guy... would you be remiss to dismiss it????

its not just a "single man" thing... it is "people being an arse and not taking rejection well" thing.... and that includes men,woman and couples!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when single guys moan couples and single ladies never reply to them and when we say no sorry your not out type they get all funny about it, am i missing something???"

Why are you moaning about it?

Maybe the 'itch' that makes you moan and whinge is the same one that gets to them.

They have something they dont like about the site, you have something you don't like about the site.....am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have only had this issue with single guys FACT thats why i put single guys x

but I am telling you its not just single guys....

so if I said I have never had that sort of male from a single guy... would you be remiss to dismiss it????

Well said as usual!

its not just a "single man" thing... it is "people being an arse and not taking rejection well" thing.... and that includes men,woman and couples!!! "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Think we must be missing something....

We have only ever had around 5 nasty relies to a 'thanks but no thanks' message in the few years that we have been doing this. (Not that we are complaining..lol)

If you get one, just hit the delete and then the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well yes. You're missing the fact that the single guys on here are all separate people and not some sort of collective consciousness. Some are assholes, just like some women and some couples are. The trick is not to let that affect how you interact with the others..."

Thanks!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Forgot to add they were mostly from couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Haha one big mass of single guys..............like a 50s B movie!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I Thursdays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you miss that there are some nice single guys here who will not message you asking for sex but will only contact you to say something positive about you and even say thank you when you tell them to F...off..

You should add that point..

Nice profile by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha one big mass of single guys..............like a 50s B movie! "

sci-fi gangbang movie:

they came from out-her space

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it when single guys moan couples and single ladies never reply to them and when we say no sorry your not out type they get all funny about it, am i missing something???"

we dont all get funny about it...if someone says no thanks to me i thank them for their reply and wish them well.

i just think a reply is polite..

some of us are big enough to accept that.

i know people say they get 'hundreds' of mails a day, which i sometimes doubt, but it takes about 20 seconds to do and its just plain polite...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Haha one big mass of single guys..............like a 50s B movie!

sci-fi gangbang movie:

they came from out-her space"

Typical you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well yes. You're missing the fact that the single guys on here are all separate people and not some sort of collective consciousness. Some are assholes, just like some women and some couples are. The trick is not to let that affect how you interact with the others..."

here here...well put...

just cos mr x is wanker dont assume all men are..

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ive been thinking....4 years on here,never had a single negative response from a no thanks,have met some fabulous guys,some that I consider friends now

It can't just be luck surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been thinking....4 years on here,never had a single negative response from a no thanks,have met some fabulous guys,some that I consider friends now

It can't just be luck surely? "

It's easy to explain - you're a mod, they daren't slag you off else you'll ban 'em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had nice replies after sending a 'thanks for your message but no thank you'

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Ive been thinking....4 years on here,never had a single negative response from a no thanks,have met some fabulous guys,some that I consider friends now

It can't just be luck surely?

It's easy to explain - you're a mod, they daren't slag you off else you'll ban 'em! "

I don't tell people that! scares em away

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By *attman23Man
over a year ago

Wath

I 100% agree, if I recieve a sorry no thankyou or a message along those lines I'm just happy their tool the time out to tell me, I think its ridiculous that any guy would find that offensive or respond in a negative manner to that.

These guys are the ones that give the rest of us a bad name!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I've only had nice replies after sending a 'thanks for your message but no thank you'"

Me too, and only one person asked why they weren't my type and I didn't respond any further to it and that was the end of that....If someone did become arsey, I'd just employ the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....yet another boring 'knock the single guys' Thread....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've only had nice replies after sending a 'thanks for your message but no thank you'"

Is amazing the number who reply with a thank you, think they just pleased to get any sort of reply

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"....yet another boring 'knock the single guys' Thread....

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No there are positive posts on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....yet another boring 'knock the single guys' Thread....

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And not all of us are nasty...

Some of us are really nice and extra polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"....yet another boring 'knock the single guys' Thread....

No there are positive posts on here"

Yes there are and most welcome but I meant the OP and title.

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