FabSwingers.com forum: Secret Santa

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I appreciate it would mean giving out your address but I don’t know any other way around it. (Unless I acted as a middle man but that would mean posting the parcel twice)

Would anyone be interested?

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tempting! I love picking presents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as this isn't a sausage fest!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes I would love a secret Santa x

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just a side note I will of course keep all ‘matches’ and names and addresses locked away in my filing cabinet then shred it just incase there’s any weird problems (I appreciate it’s scary giving out your address) but I am up for it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo POF did a secret santa type photo thread last year.. He paired us up, we created photo and sent it to our partner

Could do xmas videos this year?

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Ooo POF did a secret santa type photo thread last year.. He paired us up, we created photo and sent it to our partner

Could do xmas videos this year? "

That’s a good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooo POF did a secret santa type photo thread last year.. He paired us up, we created photo and sent it to our partner

Could do xmas videos this year? "

Now this is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or a voice clip reading a selected text!

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Or a voice clip reading a selected text! "

The night before Xmas?

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

I've been thinking about something similar for the last few weeks, but more along the lines of Nora's secret service, hypothetical crappy gifts & calling it Secret Satan

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

I know. It’s a hard one. The more I think about it the more I think it’s a rubbish idea. There’s loads on here I would happily trust but some others I dunno

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'm at least partly interested in this

Depends on the final form it takes, I reckon

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Oooo i love the idea of this i would very much be up for taking part in this

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Oooo i love the idea of this i would very much be up for taking part in this

Might just do it with a select group. Not everyone’s as open as us two x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not happy in giving my address out,though video message sounds canny

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

"Oooo i love the idea of this i would very much be up for taking part in this

Might just do it with a select group. Not everyone’s as open as us two x"

That is true but i have sent you a few suggestions to keep address safe

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Oohh sounds like a fun and interesting idea

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd be in potentially.....

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well let me and Martyn have a think. We think we might have cracked it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There's a couple of potential ways round the address thing - one that would definitely work and one that I'm not sure would work, but would be reliant on buying something the user wanted so not totally secret.

The one that would definitely work would be the recipient creates an Amazon wishlist and the sender has it delivered to an Amazon Locker and sends the recipient the code to open it - that way the only address that is given is the town where the recipient collects it from.

The other way, and I'm not sure if this works, is I'm not sure the recipients address is shown if you buy from an Amazon Wish List they send you a link to - I know that certain "professional ladies" have wish lists to be sent "Tributes" and am guessing they'll not be giving out their address to all and sundry. If the address isn't shown that would also work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a lovely idea OP.

I've used a similar thing before.

People create a wish list on their amazon and add the link from their amazon account. In this case to a post. People who want to gift to that person goes on to the list via the link, views list, selects a gift, orders, and pays and gift is delivered. No address details are shown to the buyer.

Buyer can add a note if they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

for the record i will openly admit to stalking you.. im not in the closet lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

This may be of use :

https://www.collectplus.yodel.co.uk/send-a-parcel/new-parcel

Not looked at it too closely, but I believe it allows you to send it to a local store for collection, so you do not need their address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your secret’s safe with me

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Well let me and Martyn have a think. We think we might have cracked it.

All the faith in the world in you guys chick

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Another suggestion could be the gifts are site subscriptions, pay by text and message Goodnitegirl with the name of recipient & the activation code for her to pass on to the right person for them to use the code

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

for the record i will openly admit to stalking you.. im not in the closet lol "

I've come to realise, you're not the only one.....

I'll need a PA for the Bhav'fan club'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

for the record i will openly admit to stalking you.. im not in the closet lol

I've come to realise, you're not the only one.....

I'll need a PA for the Bhav'fan club'

If its a 'fan club' do i then get a poster of you for my bedroom wall and a members badge and some stickers? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

"Well let me and Martyn have a think. We think we might have cracked it.

There are a number of different ways it can be done yo protect peoples privacy. We will go through the finer details and report back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be in for this depending how it happens.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

Best hope you're not paired with me then!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"As long as this isn't a sausage fest!"

You’re too fussy man!

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I'd be interested in this, depending how it's run

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

It will never get off the ground as most wont trust none trusted people on here.

Certainly not to have an address to send it to the user.

On another note as id be one of them.

Id like to know some answers so I could pick something more as a surprise for the user.

Simply so the present could also be a surprise from the secret santa.

Yes we could do naughty presents toys to handcuffs or nipple clamps

But how many ladies here would give there sizes as well ?

Though id like to ask one more question whatever you got would you take a pic show it for all to see ?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

In an ideal world it could happen at an organised group social. All who were listed to attend could be partnered up to buy, by the organiser. Put in a big tub like a normal working office. All we need is covid to f*ck off in time for Christmas

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

"while in theory it'd be fun. I'd be slightly concerned about the closet weirdo stalkers on here

Best hope you're not paired with me then!"

closet stalker maybe, but you're not weird....i think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time we did it, it was just custom picture exchange if I remember correctly

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"In an ideal world it could happen at an organised group social. All who were listed to attend could be partnered up to buy, by the organiser. Put in a big tub like a normal working office. All we need is covid to f*ck off in time for Christmas

We said this on the phone discussing it earlier but of course corona shits on it all again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooo i love the idea of this i would very much be up for taking part in this

Might just do it with a select group. Not everyone’s as open as us two x"

I'd be in as hopefully I'll be around more from next month

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By *reevesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sounds like a laugh. I could be up for getting involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oooo i love the idea of this i would very much be up for taking part in this

Might just do it with a select group. Not everyone’s as open as us two x"

We did a secret Santa a couple of years ago in one of the many group chats we are in with you GG. I got a lovely present from SJ. I recall we only spent a fiver each . It was a fun thing to do

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Oooo i love the idea of this i would very much be up for taking part in this

Might just do it with a select group. Not everyone’s as open as us two x

We did a secret Santa a couple of years ago in one of the many group chats we are in with you GG. I got a lovely present from SJ. I recall we only spent a fiver each . It was a fun thing to do

Did you? How did I miss that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am watching how this develops and could be interested in doing it

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested in taking part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a nice idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooooo yessssss!

I haven’t read the thread, will there be a spending limit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took part in one on s.h last year, went very well and was hilarious! Would 100% take part again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Secret Santa but not keen on giving out my address. I've done a special picture SS a few times which was fun but not actual gift sending.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I like the idea of Secret Santa, but I always seem to end up with the person that makes no effort...at work one year I got a Body Shop set that was a free gift when you spent a certain amount. And last years photo challenge on here I didn't get a picture in return

I know that makes me sound like an ungrateful diva, but it's a bit disappointing when I always spend ages searching for an appropriate gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the idea of Secret Santa, but I always seem to end up with the person that makes no effort...at work one year I got a Body Shop set that was a free gift when you spent a certain amount. And last years photo challenge on here I didn't get a picture in return

I know that makes me sound like an ungrateful diva, but it's a bit disappointing when I always spend ages searching for an appropriate gift "

I’m the same

I got a good secret Santa at school, the whole of sixth year (the final year in Scotland) did a secret Santa. Someone made me a ring made out of wire, it was a double ring (went on two fingers) and was a giant deathly hallows symbol. Eventually found out who it was, I barely knew the girl but she had asked around, found me on Facebook etc. It was so lovely

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not something I'd do on Fab, but I was part of a forum secret Santa several years ago. It was amazing how well some people "got" me and the wonderful stuff they came up with. And I had a lot of fun trying to figure out other people too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate it would mean giving out your address but I don’t know any other way around it. (Unless I acted as a middle man but that would mean posting the parcel twice)

Would anyone be interested? Stop it right now it's still summer I say dont start Christmas yet

Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m keen

I love secret Santa and love spreading all the happy!! X

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By *ig TennentsMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Sounds great!! The biggest problem I’ve got is finding a gift bag big enough to fit myself in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that makes me sound like an ungrateful diva, but it's a bit disappointing when I always spend ages searching for an appropriate gift "

I think the photo Secret Santa was extended to anybody who said "I'm in" on the thread and a lot of those people weren't regular posters and didn't bother/make an effort!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'll be doing the Mistletoe kisses!

Jo.Xx

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Right. So. I’ve worked it out best I can.

‘Click and go’ via the post office.

The recipient would pick a local post office so the only information really is their nearest town.

There’s an option to hide the senders information from the recipient.

The only ‘problem’ I presume is that you’d have to give out your name unless you can go in and say ‘have you a parcel for prettyjugs123’

I know it won’t appeal to everyone but those that are interested please inbox me to discuss.

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry madam, do you have a parcel for AnalCreampieLover please?

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sorry madam, do you have a parcel for AnalCreampieLover please?"

I’m sending you a letter with that on now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be bwing stupid but couldnt you just do amazon wishlist purchases does that show the delivery address

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I may be bwing stupid but couldnt you just do amazon wishlist purchases does that show the delivery address "

It’s not something I have ever used. If anyone would like to enlighten me??

Kinda defeats the object of a surprise though doesn’t it? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may be bwing stupid but couldnt you just do amazon wishlist purchases does that show the delivery address

It’s not something I have ever used. If anyone would like to enlighten me??

Kinda defeats the object of a surprise though doesn’t it? Xx"

If everyone set up a random named amazon account then you picked who got who it would still be secret ish maybe ???

I dont know enough either about how it works to be much use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this idea and I really want to say I'm in, however the address thing cropped up recently with a fabber who knew where I lived and it's made me think twice now about how much I tell folk here, even the ones I'm planning on shagging....

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