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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

HELLO FORUMS! As a resident fatty im just gonna be blunt because well i can be..

Either its the fact im older and more acceping of my size 32 body, maybe i am more confident with it, perhaps men are openly and freely coming out as 'fat admirers'..

Could be desperation and that any hole is a goal of course.. (huge pinch of salt with all messages)

... But i dont feel ive ever been so 'popular' with men. Loads of guys are saying they truly 'dig' big BIG girls..

Now few back when i was a size 22/24 (still big but smaller by my standards today) it was like i was a tabboo.. and only 'closet fat admirers' showed interest.

Funny how times change.

Personally i love everyone and all body sizes, but for all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could just be because you're beautiful? Throw the salt away!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could just be because you're beautiful? Throw the salt away! "

A few will comment on my face..

Most want me to sit on them though, or grab the fat on my stomach and ass..

Personally im just happy that a couple of blokes genuinely seam to enjoy a SSBBW

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

You are stunning inside and out and deserve to be admired

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We all have our insecurities, I think. We're all valuable in our own way. Love yourself. Or try to. It's difficult, sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I’m a bit different because I’m unhappy with my size and I don’t want to be someone’s fetish. I want someone to want me for the whole package, face, body and personality, not just because they like to grab my fat bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could just be because you're beautiful? Throw the salt away! "

This. You're gorgeous, fun and sexy to boot! You deserve all the attention you receive, and more. I would!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned to love my body over the years,and your right Sassy guys seem to like big girls these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

respect to yourself and to others one love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose I’m a bit different because I’m unhappy with my size and I don’t want to be someone’s fetish. I want someone to want me for the whole package, face, body and personality, not just because they like to grab my fat bits "

Absolutely this, I don't need validation from others, I have it from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suppose I’m a bit different because I’m unhappy with my size and I don’t want to be someone’s fetish. I want someone to want me for the whole package, face, body and personality, not just because they like to grab my fat bits "

I mean i know im an awesome person lol

Naturally im not just gonna be a tick box fetish for a person. If i did choose to meet a guy it would be because i was confident it was an all round appriciation. Just helps that there are men who LOVE big women. I feel more confident when they are confident with how to handle a girlnof size (if thats a right way of saying things lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could just be because you're beautiful? Throw the salt away!

This. You're gorgeous, fun and sexy to boot! You deserve all the attention you receive, and more. I would! "

Awww Josh.. you are a doll x x x x

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

Looks and body , don't mean a thing if they ain't connected to a good person

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By *edsguyMan
over a year ago

south of Bedford


"HELLO FORUMS! As a resident fatty im just gonna be blunt because well i can be..

Either its the fact im older and more acceping of my size 32 body, maybe i am more confident with it, perhaps men are openly and freely coming out as 'fat admirers'..

Could be desperation and that any hole is a goal of course.. (huge pinch of salt with all messages)

... But i dont feel ive ever been so 'popular' with men. Loads of guys are saying they truly 'dig' big BIG girls..

Now few back when i was a size 22/24 (still big but smaller by my standards today) it was like i was a tabboo.. and only 'closet fat admirers' showed interest.

Funny how times change.

Personally i love everyone and all body sizes, but for all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx"

Fantastic curves xx be proud of them you are lovely

Rob

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"HELLO FORUMS! As a resident fatty im just gonna be blunt because well i can be..

Either its the fact im older and more acceping of my size 32 body, maybe i am more confident with it, perhaps men are openly and freely coming out as 'fat admirers'..

Could be desperation and that any hole is a goal of course.. (huge pinch of salt with all messages)

... But i dont feel ive ever been so 'popular' with men. Loads of guys are saying they truly 'dig' big BIG girls..

Now few back when i was a size 22/24 (still big but smaller by my standards today) it was like i was a tabboo.. and only 'closet fat admirers' showed interest.

Funny how times change.

Personally i love everyone and all body sizes, but for all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx"

I like you because your gorgeous. Your body shape isn't relevant at all to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're absolutely stunning ou show off the curves girl x

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By *lderandbolderMan
over a year ago

clonakilty

Well done you are correct

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

It's not the size of the shadow you cast, It's the size of your heart that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe times are changing and men who like bigger ladies (not necessarily to my extreme size) are just more forward in voicing their views.

Its just nice to no longer feel like i was constantly in the shadows..

Social media, online bloggers of larger fashion sizes all help i think.

I am no way saying this is a healthy lifestyle and of course there are downsides.. but im coming from a positivity angle.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Maybe times are changing and men who like bigger ladies (not necessarily to my extreme size) are just more forward in voicing their views.

Its just nice to no longer feel like i was constantly in the shadows..

Social media, online bloggers of larger fashion sizes all help i think.

I am no way saying this is a healthy lifestyle and of course there are downsides.. but im coming from a positivity angle. "

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

It doesn't bother me in the slightest what women look like a simple smile can get me instantly hooked a sexy personality goes a long way with me be yourself ignore the haters focus on the admirers and yes you are very attractive if I say so myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It doesn't bother me in the slightest what women look like a simple smile can get me instantly hooked a sexy personality goes a long way with me be yourself ignore the haters focus on the admirers and yes you are very attractive if I say so myself "

Im sure you mean well but it would bother me when you imply looks dont matter.

I think they hugely matter and id want that confidence in a man to say 'fuck yeah, your body is lush'

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west


"It doesn't bother me in the slightest what women look like a simple smile can get me instantly hooked a sexy personality goes a long way with me be yourself ignore the haters focus on the admirers and yes you are very attractive if I say so myself

Im sure you mean well but it would bother me when you imply looks dont matter.

I think they hugely matter and id want that confidence in a man to say 'fuck yeah, your body is lush' "

I didn't really say looks don't matter I just prefer a good personalty as I believe there is no such thing as an unattractive person if there is point them to me if that's the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm. Fair play to you OP but (speaking as someone who has always gotten lots of attention) until I feel like guys actually want to date me and not just fuck I'll always feel shit and self conscious. Now I'm losing the weight but starting to look like a melted candle so either way for me it's lose lose *shrug*

Best get my cat allergy medicine in!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hmm. Fair play to you OP but (speaking as someone who has always gotten lots of attention) until I feel like guys actually want to date me and not just fuck I'll always feel shit and self conscious. Now I'm losing the weight but starting to look like a melted candle so either way for me it's lose lose *shrug*

Best get my cat allergy medicine in! "

My life is an entire battle with weight.. ive always been trying to shift it. Good luck though Amber.. (beautiful name btw) x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is not defined by size.

Times are changing and more people are realising this.

Fat doesn't equal ugly.

Thin doesn't equal pretty.

I've been every size from a 10 to a 26 and have never struggled to find men/women who are interested in me.

You'd be gorgeous at any size OP..

.people like you cos you're you.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys never grow up. They loved playing on bouncy castles when they were wee!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beauty is not defined by size.

Times are changing and more people are realising this.

Fat doesn't equal ugly.

Thin doesn't equal pretty.

I've been every size from a 10 to a 26 and have never struggled to find men/women who are interested in me.

You'd be gorgeous at any size OP..

.people like you cos you're you.

Lu "

Thanks for the compliments. Its probably because im way more accepting of my body image this time and my confidence is growing that maybe i notice it more..

Like you also said times are changing.. woop

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some guys never grow up. They loved playing on bouncy castles when they were wee!"

Lol.. made me giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Beauty is not defined by size.

Times are changing and more people are realising this.

Fat doesn't equal ugly.

Thin doesn't equal pretty.

I've been every size from a 10 to a 26 and have never struggled to find men/women who are interested in me.

You'd be gorgeous at any size OP..

.people like you cos you're you.

Lu

Thanks for the compliments. Its probably because im way more accepting of my body image this time and my confidence is growing that maybe i notice it more..

Like you also said times are changing.. woop"

That's what did it for me...accepting how I look and realising I don't need to change it.

I don't treat myself as the "before" image anymore and honestly, it's life-changing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys never grow up. They loved playing on bouncy castles when they were wee!

Lol.. made me giggle "

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich


" But for all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx"

So much this! Was, and still is a learning process for me. It gets easier as I get older though

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I love my body chub and all. No issues with being naked or looked at. The mirror is my friend.

I don’t particularly love it being fetishised and the sole reason someone is interested but I can usually pick up on those obvious signs beforehand. Other than that my body is up for ‘grabs’ in the right context.

Go Sassy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress size is irrelevant for me . I look for a pretty face, nice eyes and confidence. I'm no slim jim I'm 6ft and was 22st just lost a stone so now 21st target weight 16st so long way to go xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" But for all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx

So much this! Was, and still is a learning process for me. It gets easier as I get older though "

ah man youve ink and piercigs! something ish i was brave enough to have..

i am a wimp lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love my body chub and all. No issues with being naked or looked at. The mirror is my friend.

I don’t particularly love it being fetishised and the sole reason someone is interested but I can usually pick up on those obvious signs beforehand. Other than that my body is up for ‘grabs’ in the right context.

Go Sassy!!

"

The mirror is my friend now, but didnt always used to be.

As i lost weight and quickly my body would be proper flabby,, at least now its kinda firm and 'deliciously firm' as i call it.

You are beautiful btw x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dress size is irrelevant for me . I look for a pretty face, nice eyes and confidence. I'm no slim jim I'm 6ft and was 22st just lost a stone so now 21st target weight 16st so long way to go xx"

And i have every faith you will get there. Good luck on your journey x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you as I told you yesterday you are beautiful. I'm doing it for my boys as I coa h his rugby team not for how I look x

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Your on my hot list have been for long time. Sexy as fuck comes to my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its probably the combination of beauty and confidence- makes you irresistible xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your on my hot list have been for long time. Sexy as fuck comes to my mind "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its probably the combination of beauty and confidence- makes you irresistible xx"

awww Thanks beautiful.. x x

I do have days where my confidence wobbles but i am sure everyone experiences that x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re beautiful and I admire your confidence. Confidence is sexy and so are you. You seem like a lovely person from what I’ve seen too .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You’re beautiful and I admire your confidence. Confidence is sexy and so are you. You seem like a lovely person from what I’ve seen too . "

oh man i am proper feeling the love today, genuinely wasnt the intentions of this thread but its making me all warm n fuzzy hehe.

means a lot Nora, thank you. x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx"

Amen!!! Preach it!!! Well said Sassy. You're beautiful and sexy and you can have your pick of the site

I only wish men encouraged each other like this and there was a male body positivity and acceptance movement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is sexy in itself,and you have that in abundance Sassy

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By *orny.hot.guyMan
over a year ago

Costa del Midlothian

you are gorgeous. Totally love the cheeky wee wink in your 2nd video xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always liked bigger girls, but only in the last several years have I been open about it. I remember being ridiculed by supposed friends for having a crush on a girl that they didn’t approve of because of her size. I guess at the time I cared too much about what other people thought, and kissed out on life experiences as a result. Anyway you ladies are gorgeous! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked bigger girls, but only in the last several years have I been open about it. I remember being ridiculed by supposed friends for having a crush on a girl that they didn’t approve of because of her size. I guess at the time I cared too much about what other people thought, and kissed out on life experiences as a result. Anyway you ladies are gorgeous! X"

Thanks for sharing that, its honest.

I do notice the difference that its more acceptable these days compared to a few years ago. I always felt a 'guilty pleasure' to some men on here. Their gf's or previous partners are a size 8 yet here they are wanting to shag me...

even with actual male friends of mine who would previously have dated gorgeous slender women have now mixed it up and gone for a more curvy girl..

of course i am sure its all down to their 'bubbly personalities'

i am just happy that times are changing and acceptance for all body types/sizes/colours are happening.

love is love after all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it would be your a very pretty lady, and i do love the larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked bigger girls, but only in the last several years have I been open about it. I remember being ridiculed by supposed friends for having a crush on a girl that they didn’t approve of because of her size. I guess at the time I cared too much about what other people thought, and kissed out on life experiences as a result. Anyway you ladies are gorgeous! X"

I know exactly where your coming from I've always been attracted to bigger guys,even when I was half the size I am now,my mates always made fun ,but me being I fiesty redhead I still dated them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a beautiful lady and with confidence that shines. That really appeals to people xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked bigger girls, but only in the last several years have I been open about it. I remember being ridiculed by supposed friends for having a crush on a girl that they didn’t approve of because of her size. I guess at the time I cared too much about what other people thought, and kissed out on life experiences as a result. Anyway you ladies are gorgeous! X

I know exactly where your coming from I've always been attracted to bigger guys,even when I was half the size I am now,my mates always made fun ,but me being I fiesty redhead I still dated them "

Of course it works the other way too..

I've often thought some of the larger men are hot and in the past ive said to friends 'oh he is hot' and they've looked at me as if i am off my head.. just because he is a large framed guy..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose I’m a bit different because I’m unhappy with my size and I don’t want to be someone’s fetish. I want someone to want me for the whole package, face, body and personality, not just because they like to grab my fat bits "

I have a bit of a problem with this new term ‘someone’s fetish’. Maybe someone looks at your pics, gets chatting to you and realises you’re goddam sexy although totally unlike their previous types? They are then more interested in the parts of you that are different? I’d be interested to hear what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get how a women worries about her body.

you have children and some never get it back and blame the man for her new shape

i prefer people to be who they are. not everyone can change it (medical issues etc).

if your attracted to someone who cares what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose I’m a bit different because I’m unhappy with my size and I don’t want to be someone’s fetish. I want someone to want me for the whole package, face, body and personality, not just because they like to grab my fat bits

I have a bit of a problem with this new term ‘someone’s fetish’. Maybe someone looks at your pics, gets chatting to you and realises you’re goddam sexy although totally unlike their previous types? They are then more interested in the parts of you that are different? I’d be interested to hear what you think "

Well then It wouldn’t be a fetish it would be because they have got chatting to me and see I’m more than my wobbly bits I suppose.

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl.

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By *kskiier999Man
over a year ago

Sherston

I’ve always liked larger ladies, big boobs and a big bum. I think there is something extra special about the softness of their skin.

I am also massively turned on by a larger woman riding my cock, both the feeling of the extra weight and the sight of those curves bouncing.

Of course with a face as pretty as yours @cute&sassy, with that gorgeous body it would be heaven

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

Personalities are key for me, dress size isn't a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personalities are key for me, dress size isn't a factor."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose I’m a bit different because I’m unhappy with my size and I don’t want to be someone’s fetish. I want someone to want me for the whole package, face, body and personality, not just because they like to grab my fat bits

I have a bit of a problem with this new term ‘someone’s fetish’. Maybe someone looks at your pics, gets chatting to you and realises you’re goddam sexy although totally unlike their previous types? They are then more interested in the parts of you that are different? I’d be interested to hear what you think

Well then It wouldn’t be a fetish it would be because they have got chatting to me and see I’m more than my wobbly bits I suppose.

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl. "

Ahh ok I get you now....

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl. "

This exactly. Feel free to fetishise and to have a preference for whatever you (the hypothetical you) prefer. But don't tell me that, as it doesn't make me feel special or sexy. It makes me feel like I could be any fat/big/bbw/overweight woman. And that's not going to help you make me feel like you want me in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personalities are key for me, dress size isn't a factor."

so true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl.

This exactly. Feel free to fetishise and to have a preference for whatever you (the hypothetical you) prefer. But don't tell me that, as it doesn't make me feel special or sexy. It makes me feel like I could be any fat/big/bbw/overweight woman. And that's not going to help you make me feel like you want me in particular. "

Ah see i dont view that statement like that..

I see it as 'well at least they have a type, they confidently know they wont be bothered or offended by my rolls, stretch marks, over hang., cellulite'

I wouldnt meet them strictly because they said that statement, its the starting place for me to build up communications and to find out if i am for them and more to the point that they are a bit of what i want..

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl.

This exactly. Feel free to fetishise and to have a preference for whatever you (the hypothetical you) prefer. But don't tell me that, as it doesn't make me feel special or sexy. It makes me feel like I could be any fat/big/bbw/overweight woman. And that's not going to help you make me feel like you want me in particular.

Ah see i dont view that statement like that..

I see it as 'well at least they have a type, they confidently know they wont be bothered or offended by my rolls, stretch marks, over hang., cellulite'

I wouldnt meet them strictly because they said that statement, its the starting place for me to build up communications and to find out if i am for them and more to the point that they are a bit of what i want.. "

For me it's about the timing and how they say it though. First message and stated in a similar way to described for me is a no. After we've chatted a while, being told they like my figure and are aware of all it entails is perfect. I still won't believe them right away, but that's to do with my issues and I'm working on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl.

This exactly. Feel free to fetishise and to have a preference for whatever you (the hypothetical you) prefer. But don't tell me that, as it doesn't make me feel special or sexy. It makes me feel like I could be any fat/big/bbw/overweight woman. And that's not going to help you make me feel like you want me in particular.

Ah see i dont view that statement like that..

I see it as 'well at least they have a type, they confidently know they wont be bothered or offended by my rolls, stretch marks, over hang., cellulite'

I wouldnt meet them strictly because they said that statement, its the starting place for me to build up communications and to find out if i am for them and more to the point that they are a bit of what i want..

For me it's about the timing and how they say it though. First message and stated in a similar way to described for me is a no. After we've chatted a while, being told they like my figure and are aware of all it entails is perfect. I still won't believe them right away, but that's to do with my issues and I'm working on that. "

ah yeah timing is key,

you are beautiful though NSP.. you have litterally all the men in the forum wanting you x x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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you are beautiful though NSP.. you have litterally all the men in the forum wanting you x x x x "

And the women

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

The biggest put off for me is when someone messages saying I love big/fat/bbw. I’m not just a fat girl.

This exactly. Feel free to fetishise and to have a preference for whatever you (the hypothetical you) prefer. But don't tell me that, as it doesn't make me feel special or sexy. It makes me feel like I could be any fat/big/bbw/overweight woman. And that's not going to help you make me feel like you want me in particular.

Ah see i dont view that statement like that..

I see it as 'well at least they have a type, they confidently know they wont be bothered or offended by my rolls, stretch marks, over hang., cellulite'

I wouldnt meet them strictly because they said that statement, its the starting place for me to build up communications and to find out if i am for them and more to the point that they are a bit of what i want..

For me it's about the timing and how they say it though. First message and stated in a similar way to described for me is a no. After we've chatted a while, being told they like my figure and are aware of all it entails is perfect. I still won't believe them right away, but that's to do with my issues and I'm working on that.

ah yeah timing is key,

you are beautiful though NSP.. you have litterally all the men in the forum wanting you x x x x "

Nah.... Not all by any stretch. But I don't need all....

It is nice to feel like some want me though.

And thanks chica.... You too x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"

you are beautiful though NSP.. you have litterally all the men in the forum wanting you x x x x

And the women "

Again.... Not all. Just the important ones wifey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

you are beautiful though NSP.. you have litterally all the men in the forum wanting you x x x x

And the women

Again.... Not all. Just the important ones wifey "

Oofftt!!! Love it when your talk all romantic to me

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

its important to enjoy your body & let others enjoy it too, models worry they are too fat too thin too flat etc just enjoy what you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My misses is size 26/28

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore big and very big women and have been with a few , one was 46st and a size 36.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and quite close lol

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By *enttoesuckerMan
over a year ago

canterbury


"HELLO FORUMS! As a resident fatty im just gonna be blunt because well i can be..

Either its the fact im older and more acceping of my size 32 body, maybe i am more confident with it, perhaps men are openly and freely coming out as 'fat admirers'.. id love to suck your toes x

Could be desperation and that any hole is a goal of course.. (huge pinch of salt with all messages)

... But i dont feel ive ever been so 'popular' with men. Loads of guys are saying they truly 'dig' big BIG girls..

Now few back when i was a size 22/24 (still big but smaller by my standards today) it was like i was a tabboo.. and only 'closet fat admirers' showed interest.

Funny how times change.

Personally i love everyone and all body sizes, but for all the women with hang ups on their bodys.. its wasted energy.. please love yourselves xxxx"

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By *ugofirstMan
over a year ago

livingston

I have just looked at your profile and would say there is a lot more than the size you are, you have a beautiful face and look about you

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