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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

What is it you find arrogant about checklists?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

Are you arrogant-ist? Do people not have the right to import their arrogance on others, in fairness, you can always reject it if you so desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. Either you are very brave Me OP or you haven't realised it's the ladies rule on these sites and can be as choosy as they like.

And choosy is not bring arrogant.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

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I d say, ignore the ones with the check list if they are not for you. Everybody has different aspirations on here, looks for different things or combinations of things. The phrase"we are all the same" and "we are all looking for the same thing on here" makes me chuckle for it is not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you just hate predictive text on a new phone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Arrogance does not have to be there, standards yes or preference. I have no problem in a person protecting themselves but expecting pics to be fabd before being spoke to , be too nice to except acknowledge a person via a wink.

People that wink maybe shy initially and wants to be broken in to the environment.

The site is here for people to have a experience not for their confidence to be dented

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Arrogance does not have to be there, standards yes or preference. I have no problem in a person protecting themselves but expecting pics to be fabd before being spoke to , be too nice to except acknowledge a person via a wink.

People that wink maybe shy initially and wants to be broken in to the environment.

The site is here for people to have a experience not for their confidence to be dented "
I can see where you are coming from, I think - I would prefer to say that nobody should be disrespected, whether it is on this site or in any other encounter. It does sound to me though as if you were taking something perhaps a bit too personal? I d try to ignore and move on to other profiles - good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not talking about me personally, I not fussed about. It , it just wanna know peoples opinion and view on it. Do people consider other people when the deal with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance does not have to be there, standards yes or preference. I have no problem in a person protecting themselves but expecting pics to be fabd before being spoke to , be too nice to except acknowledge a person via a wink.

People that wink maybe shy initially and wants to be broken in to the environment.

The site is here for people to have a experience not for their confidence to be dented "

Arrogance to me is an attractive trait in a male or a female. But then, I call it confidence with a bit of cheek. It's an each to their own thing, if you prefer people who constantly seek compliments by insisting they're awful in order to encourage ppl to big them up then carry on in fakesville. To me that's just pathetic, but as I said in first place, each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one is going to hold your hand on a site like this , if a profile doesnt interest you due to peoples checklists or prefrences ...then move on to another one , simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some interesting incites on here .. how would people feel if you was in this position?

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran


"I'm not talking about me personally, I not fussed about. It , it just wanna know peoples opinion and view on it. Do people consider other people when the deal with them?

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If it's not about you personally - why did you say am I being too sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

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you are being sensitive. as in life there is a bit of everything on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

you are being sensitive. as in life there is a bit of everything on the site."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think people should just be less sensitive n that would probs solve the whole debate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Listen I'm asking if its too sensitive to say. But I must the response from some seem a little defensive. Remember this is a forum not a dear Deirdre. I asking for peoples opinions I don't need life coaching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're anti-therapist then?

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"no one is going to hold your hand on a site like this , if a profile doesnt interest you due to peoples checklists or prefrences ...then move on to another one , simple "

Well said...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Listen I'm asking if its too sensitive to say. But I must the response from some seem a little defensive. Remember this is a forum not a dear Deirdre. I asking for peoples opinions I don't need life coaching "
Maybe I misunderstood your opening post which to me sounded as if you were somewhat disatisfied with the site as people put so called checklists on profiles; you also named the thread arrogant women which again suggests to me that you are not happy with something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some interesting incites on here .. how would people feel if you was in this position?"

In what position ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because one can?

Who is to say what one can or cannot have in one's profile?!

Arrogance:

Offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


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I d say, ignore the ones with the check list if they are not for you. Everybody has different aspirations on here, looks for different things or combinations of things. The phrase"we are all the same" and "we are all looking for the same thing on here" makes me chuckle for it is not true."

spot on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Are you arrogant-ist? Do people not have the right to import their arrogance on others... "

French Cheese...

Now that's an arrogant import...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Listen I'm asking if its too sensitive to say. But I must the response from some seem a little defensive. Remember this is a forum not a dear Deirdre. I asking for peoples opinions I don't need life coaching "

Then why start a thread if all you will accept are replies that agree with you?

It's a forum for discussion....not for back slapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Are you arrogant-ist? Do people not have the right to import their arrogance on others...

French Cheese...

Now that's an arrogant import..."

You arrogant whatsit I think you're safe tho coz you're a guy arrogant

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

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Theres loads of arrogant people on here.....i dont see the problem with it really, so why do you think checklists are arrogant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see it you cant be what your not ..just be you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

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There are arrogant women, arrogant men, arrogant couples both on here and in real life. The trick is to avoid people you don't like and concentrate on the ones you do like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is arrogant about having a list of needs/wants that you check a potential partner against? How else do you syphon out those you are not interested in unless, of course, you truly are willing to meet anything with a pulse.

Accept that the majority of women, and men, on here all have their own checklists that they work from and people will enjoy the site so much more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally skip by profiles with checklists...too much hassle.yes it's usually fem profiles that have them but as guys outnumber fems on here they they can afford to I suppose.

Auds.x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm not talking about me personally, I not fussed about. It , it just wanna know peoples opinion and view on it. Do people consider other people when the deal with them?

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Yes...and no!

My profile is specific in what I want. My play time is limited and this is purely fantasy release for me: my filters are set to the max. Therefore, I'm considering my fellow man in outlining what I'm looking for.

If a man decides to take it upon himself to contact me, knowing he's outwith my criteria, but by being on site I'm duty bound to meet them, then nope, don't give a flying after that.

Why would I be delightful to a married man who contacts me stating this is NSA, I can accommodate, therefore so what that he can't, what's to stop me meeting him.

The sense of entitlement and these whiney threads are what's killing the fun.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Hold on a god damn minute..... since when exactly have men been allowed to post their opinions on these forums!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Arrogance does not have to be there, standards yes or preference. I have no problem in a person protecting themselves but expecting pics to be fabd before being spoke to , be too nice to except acknowledge a person via a wink.

People that wink maybe shy initially and wants to be broken in to the environment.

The site is here for people to have a experience not for their confidence to be dented

Arrogance to me is an attractive trait in a male or a female. But then, I call it confidence with a bit of cheek. It's an each to their own thing, if you prefer people who constantly seek compliments by insisting they're awful in order to encourage ppl to big them up then carry on in fakesville. To me that's just pathetic, but as I said in first place, each to their own x "

My kind of gal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

There are arrogant women, arrogant men, arrogant couples both on here and in real life. The trick is to avoid people you don't like and concentrate on the ones you do like. "

Fortunately theres no such thing as an arrogant Brummy...

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


".... or you haven't realised it's the ladies rule on these sites."

Disagree there. Some may think they do but no-one rules just have more choices much of which by nature of the amount single guys. Some single, some attached. Let's not inflate their ego's anymore than some already are.

The ones that do thrive off their powers of choice and have diva profiles some of us find cringeworthy. Maybe they're nicer in person but just appear rotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

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Of course they are on a site like this, supply and demand. Far too many blokes to women, so they can pick and choose to their harts content.

You have to live with and find away round it.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"I'm I being to sensitive or are there quiet a few arrogant women on here? This is meant to be a site of fun and good social side, why does itseem some people have a 20 point checklist?

You are right there are a lot. Although there are a great many nice, normal and pleasant ones too.

I find the really arrogant ones are usually the less attractive. The pretty and attractive Ladies don't feel they have to prove anything.

Having said that I am sure women get a lot of crude, rude and lude messages in which case the bloke deserves what he gets...bugger all!

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By *icesweetgirlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't have any check list or demands, I will chat to anyone lol. I personally don't like profiles with loads of do's and dont's. Variety is much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fussy, no doubt about it, however, why shouldn't I be?

I like to list my likes and dislikes upfront, so as to save time and effort in trawling through tones of mud in order to find a worthy potential gem.

If that makes me arrogant, then I am proud of it!

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"I am fussy, no doubt about it, however, why shouldn't I be?

I like to list my likes and dislikes upfront, so as to save time and effort in trawling through tones of mud in order to find a worthy potential gem.

If that makes me arrogant, then I am proud of it! "

It does not make you arrogant in the least...and eveyone has the right to be fussy. The likes and dislikes list is good as you say. I just put Safe sex on mine...which in my mind means Im happy try anything safe and relatively sane!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There are plenty of arrogant men, ladies and couples on here. But there are also lots of pleasant ones to balance it out. Same as anywhere really!

Just skip the profiles that you don't like the sound of and concentrate on the ones that you do.

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