FabSwingers.com forum: Answers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why not everyone answer on here? No one interested about meet for fun or cam fun or whatever.. just see the message and that’s it, lol , can answer honest, u are not my type or something like that.. :/ I think i delete my account.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

When you’ve been here a while you will understand why

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can u explain why?

basically I don’t understand why..

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Why you make same post twice? Maybe that why you get no answer...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol, it is just a simple question.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Dont worry my friend it's you not them

When you leave you will still have the same problem and attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol, it is just a simple question.

But you complained nobody answers. So we all did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yh sure

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We get various messages asking us if we'll meet. No hello. No introduction. No acknowledgement that we have names. No effort. Nothing. It's like we're sitting here waiting to fulfill somebody's fantasies. Surprisingly, that's not why we're here.

Before we would even vaguely consider meeting anybody we would need to know we could have a conversation with them and that they would be respectful rather than selfish. Sadly, the majority of messages we get demonstrate very well that they are only interested in getting their end away. These are not messages we want to bother replying to let alone show that somebody would be enjoyable to socialise with.

"Hi."

"How are you?"

"Wanna meet?"

Do not count as conversations.

So, OP, if you are having difficulty getting replies or meets, ask yourself this question:

"Am I presenting myself as somebody worth replying to and/or meeting?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause I don’t want to

Do you reply to junk mail you get through your door OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you have time to reply to 100s of messages an hour?

That's what some women get flying into their inbox.

Don't take it personally.

No reply, no thanks

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You joined during lockdown, OP. If you were hoping for meets then I think you are being somewhat unrealistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You joined during lockdown, OP. If you were hoping for meets then I think you are being somewhat unrealistic. "

There's a lockdown?

Who knew?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always i do induction, bla bla , and I don’t wanna meet in first message, i have to know the person.. :/ im not stupid .. :/

but still no answer..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I answer politely, I don't think we fit or things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one owes you a reply!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Have you ever though about this , if they haven't msg back is because are not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cause I don’t want to

Do you reply to junk mail you get through your door OP?"

Savage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

300 messages a day on average and nearly all are off men then its impossible to answer/reply to all x

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"300 messages a day on average and nearly all are off men then its impossible to answer/reply to all x "

With that ass i think i can make it 301

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe , but just see the message and that’s it.

but thank you

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Op would you feel better getting lots of not my type replies?

Sometimes if you say no thanks, women get replies asking why not etc or abuse

Just take no reply as no thanks, even better delete the message from your sent folder.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Op would you feel better getting lots of not my type replies?

Sometimes if you say no thanks, women get replies asking why not etc or abuse

Just take no reply as no thanks, even better delete the message from your sent folder."

I like to save my sent messages to remind me of the good times

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

[Removed by poster at 22/09/20 15:35:17]

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I have 308 unread messages, I can’t reply to all and if you get in to good conversations with people they build up. If your message doesn’t stand out it won’t be priority. It really annoys me when people think that their message should be read above all the others I haven’t read. Sorry but that’s the way it is. It’s not being rude it’s just not viable to reply to every one

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