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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why not everyone answer on here? No one interested about meet for fun or cam fun or whatever.. just see the message and that’s it, lol , can answer honest, u are not my type or something like that.. :/ I think i delete my account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why people get upset that they don't get a no thank you, surely the outcome is the same as an unanswered message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have no time. They are swamped. They arent in the mood for 1:1 conversation. They are busy on forum. They will answer later. So many explanations.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

This comes up near daily. There are a LOT of single guys on here, many don't understand how to talk to women or couples and are surprised when asking for a fuck/meet they get ignored. If you ask most women on here how many messages they get daily you would understand why many go unanswered so best thing you can do is read profiles, make sure you match their preferences and take time to construct a well thought out message.

Also covid kinda gets in the way a bit too

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

OP, not to sound condescending or dismissive of your post or feelings, there are HUNDREDS of posts similar to this one on here.

An unread / deleted message is a form of "no thanks" and is deemed acceptable. Just got to get used to it, I'm afraid, because there are a similar number of threads stating why, if someone explains why it's a no from them, they her folie up messages and/or abuse

It's not for the faint hearted, this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand why people get upset that they don't get a no thank you, surely the outcome is the same as an unanswered message. "
I would have thought so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have two identical threads....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have two identical threads...."

Do you message ppl twice too.....?

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside


"You have two identical threads...."

I noticed this, i reckon that's what he's doing wrong with his messages, double barrel

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Why not everyone answer on here? No one interested about meet for fun or cam fun or whatever.. just see the message and that’s it, lol , can answer honest, u are not my type or something like that.. :/ I think i delete my account. "

Lovely eyes.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will meet you next week as long as you stay 2 metres away, wear a mask and agree no bum fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I will meet you next week as long as you stay 2 metres away, wear a mask and agree no bum fun."

Pussy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read and deleted=NO THANKS

Unread for days=swamped and NO THANKS

Read but not deleted, but no reply for a week=NO THANKS

That’s how I always take it, women receive a ridiculous amount of messages and 60-70% are vulgar or crude. I’m not going to feel sorry for myself because someone doesn’t find me attractive or hasn’t had the time to say NO THANKS whilst filtering through 200 messages.

Pick yourself up and move on

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Does this mean OP that you answer all unsolicited calls from random call centres and chat politely toi them?

Just asking as it's exactly the same principle as receiving countless unsolicited messages on here.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

As the great Bruce Lee said

Don’t think, feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you . Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear , yet another thread on "why don't I get a replies"

Really if you don't get reply, take as not a good fit, and move on. If you think you are a good fit, try and engage with them in the forums

Basically what I'm saying is , you gotta put some work in it

Rant over lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the great Bruce Lee said

Don’t think, feel. "

I thought Yoda said that - no ?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

You kmow want op it's the same for lots of people on even the smug ones

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"As the great Bruce Lee said

Don’t think, feel.

I thought Yoda said that - no ?

"

I’m sure Bruce Lee has it first but I’m happy to sit corrected. Either way, I like it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Just get yerself known on the forums, in a positive way, most of the meets that I've had off here have come about through general banter, leading to flirting, pm's, swapping numbers, then hard rampant sex

Ahhh, those were the days

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