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Where you nervous on your first meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What was your first meet like. Was it a social or did you go straight in. Was it nerve racking or complete fun. Any funny stories, or things that went wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 18...he was in his 20s. I'd never met anyone offline before.

I was SHITTING myself.

Still here 13 years later tho

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick

Hell yeah I was nervous

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I’m nervous with EVERY meet if it’s my first or second time meeting them...

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Very nervous. More nervous than anything else, ever.

It was all good though - great in fact... I'm still here

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

Morning everybody.

I was a bit nervous on first meet. Met socially, with looking to go onto a swingers club that night. after chatting for awhile.

The lady had me at ease instantly. Lots of laughs and onto club for a great night. First ever 3some , then spent rest of the chatting with her and others in club. Went back to hers for lots more fun until it was daylight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous and excited... I had instructions for the first 30 seconds

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My first solo meet from here was a social and "nervous" isn't necessarily the right word, but there were a degree of nerves for sure but was lovely and we had a great time.

Agreed to meet another time to get more intimate and was a mixture of nervous and excited driving there but once there was able to relax and again had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous Excitement with most meets. Always a social first

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nervous, a bit intimidated. No reason to be. Social.

We still talk every day and meet regularly when we can (obviously not during the pandemic).

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick

Hell yeah I was nervous "

And you’ve been banned from that coffee shop ever since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m nervous with EVERY meet if it’s my first or second time meeting them..."

Me to,it's a.good thing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was so nervous I couldn't stop talking

We talked for hours ( well I did )

Poor fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick

Hell yeah I was nervous

And you’ve been banned from that coffee shop ever since! "

Costa has a nationwide ban on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick

Hell yeah I was nervous "

I remember I got the text ‘babe I did something but don’t be mad’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick

Hell yeah I was nervous

I remember I got the text ‘babe I did something but don’t be mad’ "

I was so nervous that you’d realise you didn’t want me doing any of this and you’d hate me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have lots of nervous energy. The only problem with that is it makes me giggly and talk way too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet was a social and, like every other meet since(not that's there have been that many), I be nervous. Nerves I treat as a good thing though, they keep me on my toes and keep me from getting too comfortable too soon. Plus, I've always been self conscious so even though we've swapped photos and messages etc, I still brick it hoping they like me in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a bit nervous, it started as a social but we had already discussed exactly where we were both hoping it would go. It was good fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always have lots of nervous energy. The only problem with that is it makes me giggly and talk way too much "

I can get like that, that's why I like going dancing, I can dance out the nervous energy. One place I always feel safe is the dancefloor.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"First meet was a social and, like every other meet since(not that's there have been that many), I be nervous. Nerves I treat as a good thing though, they keep me on my toes and keep me from getting too comfortable too soon. Plus, I've always been self conscious so even though we've swapped photos and messages etc, I still brick it hoping they like me in person "

Exactly this!... I think I’m inherently self conscious anyway, so meeting new people is nerve wracking in vanilla life let alone in this lifestyle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was supposed to be a social but within seven minutes I was sucking his dick

Hell yeah I was nervous

I remember I got the text ‘babe I did something but don’t be mad’

I was so nervous that you’d realise you didn’t want me doing any of this and you’d hate me"

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We are always nervous, but excited nerves. It's all part of it. The day we don't get nervous is the day we stop swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First meet was a social and, like every other meet since(not that's there have been that many), I be nervous. Nerves I treat as a good thing though, they keep me on my toes and keep me from getting too comfortable too soon. Plus, I've always been self conscious so even though we've swapped photos and messages etc, I still brick it hoping they like me in person

Exactly this!... I think I’m inherently self conscious anyway, so meeting new people is nerve wracking in vanilla life let alone in this lifestyle!"

I'm the same except for in everyday life, I think I'm a lot more confident when potential attraction is taken right out of the mix

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Not as much as I thought..it was the meets that followed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was nervous as hell on the drive and even more nervous at the door. We were then fucking in less than two minutes after he opened the door lol. We'd talked and cammed a lot though xx

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London

Can I come back to this thread after it's happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous excitement, plenty of adrenaline not knowing what to expect! Still exactly the same now after a dozen or so meets!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I wasn’t nervous, I treat every meet like catching up with an old friend.

We started with watching a footie match and gave up at half time as we weren’t really paying attention to the game, the rest stays private

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was excited. I arrived early and he did not arrive at all. Yes stood up on first meet. Not a good start to my fab journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was your first meet like. Was it a social or did you go straight in. Was it nerve racking or complete fun. Any funny stories, or things that went wrong? "

Hi op.

My very first meet was a social. In fact most of mine have been.

We went for a drink in the sunshine overlooking Broadstairs beach.

Was fine.

All socials been fine.

Ranging from coffee on Ramsgate Harbour.

To a drink in a pub all day.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It was a social meet at lunchtime with The Brain (remember him? Had his name written on his cock as his avatar, great forum contributor).

We arranged to meet outside Costas in Coventry and I was more nervous of standing there with the locals eyeing me up knowing I didn't belong than I was of having a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always nervous excited.

Not my first meet, but on my first sexual meet with my current meet I was shaking with nerves at one point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awful. He looked nothing like his pics, I could just about see the resemblance. Looked like he’d not had a shower for a month, had hardly any teeth. Very very weird conversation. I couldn't get out of there quick enough! Then when I got home he said at least I’ve still got all your pics to wank to. Made me feel sick! Didn’t meet anyone else for 6 months after that then met someone who was to become one of my best friends in the world.

Older and wiser now! And the reason I rarely send explicit pics unless I’ve met someone.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I don’t remember my first meet as such as I dived straight into the club scene without having met/knowing anyone. I was absolutely terrified - I’d watched porn for the first time 6 weeks earlier. It was a total change of lifestyle tbh - but let’s just say I went in with both feet!

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By *irlwithcurves40Woman
over a year ago

Essex

I was so nervous! Even though I'd recognised him from around town. We had chatted all day and then met in the evening, Literally met him and we were straight at it within minutes! 18 months later and im still here and fucking him regularly!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I’m always nervous. It’s part of the fun. First meet was a little wacky (straight in so to speak) but a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a meet off here yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet. "

Wanna change that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met anyone from here yet, but am a healthy mix of nervous and excited at the prospect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet.

Wanna change that? "

Get you! Straight in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet.

Wanna change that?

Get you! Straight in there "

Haha! I don't mess about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet.

Wanna change that?

Get you! Straight in there

Haha! I don't mess about "

Go girl

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It was a social that merged into sex and I was nervous and excited

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over a year ago

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

my first fab meet - was straight to her hotel room while she was in town. Yes I was nervous, but so was she!

But now I'm not nervous meeting socially or more if I've been chatting a bit beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet to have a meet on my own

We have had meets together and she gets so nervous but it adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet.

Wanna change that? "

Hmmm let me think about that one????

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet.

Wanna change that?

Hmmm let me think about that one????

Of course "

Woohoo!

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Was super nervous. Still get nervous now.

First meet was me and a partner with a couple. He was fine, I was a wreck. I still remember what I wore and when I was so nervous I didn't want to go in and in typical me fashion I was worked up about my looks, my size etc.

He pushed me against the stairs (they lived in a flat), kissed me and told me if I wanted to bottle it and leave, he wouldn't mind because the hard-on pressing into me was because of how I looked not where we were and he'd happily take me home and fuck me senseless.

That thought still makes me smile.

Doesn't stop me getting nervous now though.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Lots of nerves and butterflies on first social, the time flew by. Still get butterflies on any meet but I think that’s a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had a meet off here yet.

Wanna change that?

Get you! Straight in there

Haha! I don't mess about

Go girl "

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By *r_BigHeadMan
over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

I think the excitement of not knowing what's going to happen and the nervous butterflies made it so memorable and exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely crapping my pants, not a good look for anyone

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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My first fab meet, incredibly nervous! I tend to get nervous about all meets though

The first meet though just went for it! We spoke for a wee bit and he made me feel very relaxed and ended up spending the whole night together which I didn't think would happen but was a lovely night

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

No my first ever fab meet was a scripted by me fantasy, so I knew exactly what was going to happen

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My first ever fab meet was supposed to have been a social only. I had a bit of nervous excitement going in. Needless to say, the social part quickly escalated into more than I expected. Perfect first experience

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