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By *aul1973Hull OP   Man
over a year ago

East Hull

Would you rather regret something you did, or something you didn't do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you rather regret something you did, or something you didn't do?"

Is that something or someone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely rather regret the things you do than don’t. Hopefully lessons can be learned (or not ) but the “what if??” involved of not doing something would be more frustrating

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t regret a thing........ it’s part of life’s great tapestry

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Something i did do. Should have listened to my parents.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Definitely rather regret the things you do than don’t. Hopefully lessons can be learned (or not ) but the “what if??” involved of not doing something would be more frustrating

J x"

This

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Had anyone else got that song going through their head...'regrets, I've had a few, but then again......'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had anyone else got that song going through their head...'regrets, I've had a few, but then again......' "

Only the Sid Vicious version

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Had anyone else got that song going through their head...'regrets, I've had a few, but then again......' "

I did it my way and made a pigs arse of my life. Nevermind i will come back as a butterfly and hopefully life will be easier.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Had anyone else got that song going through their head...'regrets, I've had a few, but then again......'

Only the Sid Vicious version "

I remember both

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By *aul1973Hull OP   Man
over a year ago

East Hull


"Would you rather regret something you did, or something you didn't do?

Is that something or someone?? "

either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather regret what I’ve done.

Life’s too short to sit back old wondering what could have been.

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By *aul1973Hull OP   Man
over a year ago

East Hull


"Definitely rather regret the things you do than don’t. Hopefully lessons can be learned (or not ) but the “what if??” involved of not doing something would be more frustrating

J x"

what if I did, or what if I didn't do, both can be equally frustrating, but I get your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apples and pears really, innit? I try not to shy away from new experiences, and whilst I'm proud of myself in general I'm not proud of everything I've done. I try to learn though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apples and pears really, innit? I try not to shy away from new experiences, and whilst I'm proud of myself in general I'm not proud of everything I've done. I try to learn though.... "

I was trying to say this but couldn't find the words, well put Nippy

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By *aul1973Hull OP   Man
over a year ago

East Hull


"Apples and pears really, innit? I try not to shy away from new experiences, and whilst I'm proud of myself in general I'm not proud of everything I've done. I try to learn though.... "

All we can do is learn from past experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you rather regret something you did, or something you didn't do?"

Now that’s an interesting question. I “try” to live my life in a way that I don’t have many regrets and thus far I only have one or two regrets to call my own.

I think I’d rather regret an action than regret not acting given the choice... but it depends on the situation. The choice not to act is still an action and can use just as much willpower and courage.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I would rather regret something I've done.

I try not to have regrets though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never regret anything my motto is "fuck it" whether I did or did not

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd rather regret something I didn't do I think

Regretting something you did means you made a piss poor decision or choice. I'd rather have not made the decision in the first place.

If I'm regretting it that will likely mean I've hurt someone or myself or that badness has come of something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t regret a thing........ it’s part of life’s great tapestry "

^^This^^ I don't regret anything I have or haven't done. No point it's now done and dusted and the 'me' that made the choice is in the past. And if I had made a different choice doesn't mean things would've turned out better.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I never regret something I didnt do but have regretted things I have ...

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A good question

Personally, I would more likely regret something I have done - especially if it in any way detrimented someone else.

...Unless of course they deserved it

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't regret the things I've done. I do sometimes regret the consequences but I'm a firm believer that because the things you do turn you into the person you are and give you the life you have, they shouldn't be regretted.

However I do regret some things I've not done. Which is why I do my best to not have regrets and do the things I believe I want to do. Doesn't always work, partly because apparently the rest of humanity have free will and they don't always fall in line and do what I want them to.

(totally talking about Chris Hemsworth and his current refusal to turn up at my front door, obvs)

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I don't have regrets, any choice I make has the potential of hurting someone and I can't live my life for other people, I can only be aware of my choices and how they impact others and deciding for myself if its a worthy cause

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By *awhide69Man
over a year ago

ayr

Regret not finding out about Fab. earlier have had a lot of wasted years.

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