FabSwingers.com forum: People's kinks vs basic decency

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that people have certain kinks and get a thrill from doing various sexual things in their daily lives BUT, there is such a thing as a time and place for it and also basic decency.

My news feed always has a guy who works in the local shopping mall, taking about "bulging behind the counter" and "stroking behind the counter" and I've just seen another guy posting about having a wank on a train.

Just because you get off on it, that doesn't make it right to risk involving other, non consenting people in your kinks. Same with exhibitionists and flashes- there's a reason why getting caught could see you put on the sex offenders register.

Do people not understand boundaries or are so they so self absorbed that they don't care about consent, decency and respect for others?

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've heard it put as kink responsibility.

For me, it's about consent. In public you must assume lack of consent.

By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Just because they talk about it or put as a status does not mean that they actually do it, most people live in a fantasy world..and aim for shock and awe or judgement

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just because they talk about it or put as a status does not mean that they actually do it, most people live in a fantasy world..and aim for shock and awe or judgement

For many, yes. But some post photos of it...

By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I used to get asked if my swing dresses were short (lol no look it up) and if I enjoyed flashing people (absolutely not). Apparently I'm not a real swinger because I keep my skirt down in public.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to get asked if my swing dresses were short (lol no look it up) and if I enjoyed flashing people (absolutely not). Apparently I'm not a real swinger because I keep my skirt down in public."

You'll get there one day !

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