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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you like them?

Do you talk to random strangers and smile at their children?

Do you spend every waking moment with others and feel lonely after 2 minutes of being alone?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I'm a fussy peopler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i do like some people some of the time.. depends on my mood.

lately its been positive so people do get friendly smiles and yes it includes children in a non freaky way and when appropriate.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have various hats I can put on. I can be gregarious and peopley, including strangers. But it takes its toll on me and then I need people to fuck off for awhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a huge fan of people and I can feel uncomfortable meeting new people sometimes. Sometimes I enjoy the company of others but more often than not I'm happy in my own space

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I like people and often chat to random strangers, not their kids though...

Im lucky to have found the right balance of lots of people and solitude time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like them?

Do you talk to random strangers and smile at their children?

Do you spend every waking moment with others and feel lonely after 2 minutes of being alone?

I'm sorry to say but I don't like people, not all of them, but mostly.

Very rarely talk to strangers.

Yes, I do feel alone by myself but I can't trust people anymore.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Do you like them?

Do you talk to random strangers and smile at their children?

Do you spend every waking moment with others and feel lonely after 2 minutes of being alone?

I'm not sure the two correlate

No I dont much like many people and I'm damn sure they have no time for me , yet

If I want to be I'm ok with them I do talk to random people and I always smile or induce a smile in children

I also just seem to read their emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really a fan of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like people. I'll rarely start a conversation with someone myself but if someone is nice and wants to chat I'm happy to make small talk with them. I like kids too when they are in a good mood. I'm really happy in my own company though, and definitely don't seek out other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t like people.

I like my own company. Apart from when I’m horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mood dependant.

Just casual day/day, I avoid the conversation purely because people piss me off. However if there’s a conversation going that I like or have thoughts on I’ll not be afraid to join in.

I’m more of a sit back & soak in my environment then react..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know this reminds me of a few days ago when I walked by a house and an old man was stood at his door saying he was lonely and how he just wanted to talk. I stood at his gate and he chatted with me and my daughter for a few minutes and it really made his day.

How can you not have time for people like that?!

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I like people marginally less than ventriloquists.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan in general, I avoid places where there are lots of them, I love being on my own, I could easily live in the wilderness, but I’d need WiFi. Generally I won’t make the effort to talk to strangers but sometimes, when you find yourself both laughing or smiling at the same thing I’ll say something, not in a forced way, but when it just flows, sometimes you’ll have a chat and it’s like you knew them and then you never see them again. But on the whole society is not something I recognise or want to be part of, queueing in your car for the drive thru junk food, buying crap you don’t need, getting angry, or just being selfish and entitled, this is what I see around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. And I work with kids, stuff having any kind of interaction with them outside of work

No.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not a people person at all really. I’m not good with children other than my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I’m in. Most of the time I’ll talk to anyone and everyone. I’m one or the other really. I either love everyone or need everyone to stay the fuck away from me.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I like people... but sometimes don't like being around them or taking to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. And I work with kids, stuff having any kind of interaction with them outside of work

No."

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m one of those nice approachable smiley folk. I don’t mind chatting to anyone who sparks a conversation about the weather. This makes me a magnet for weirdos but I tend to be firm with a polite version of ‘off you fuck’ when the novelty has worn off.

I love being surrounded by others and I love being my own company. Sometimes the latter is better though.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Other people amuse me.

I love listening into other people's random everyday conversations.

It's better than the tv!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know this reminds me of a few days ago when I walked by a house and an old man was stood at his door saying he was lonely and how he just wanted to talk. I stood at his gate and he chatted with me and my daughter for a few minutes and it really made his day.

How can you not have time for people like that?! "

This is lovely x

I end up doing things like this but inside I resent it and want to run away

For some reason if there's a needy person anywhere nearby they zone in on me!

I'm going to hell

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm a people person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m not a fan in general, I avoid places where there are lots of them, I love being on my own, I could easily live in the wilderness, but I’d need WiFi. Generally I won’t make the effort to talk to strangers but sometimes, when you find yourself both laughing or smiling at the same thing I’ll say something, not in a forced way, but when it just flows, sometimes you’ll have a chat and it’s like you knew them and then you never see them again. But on the whole society is not something I recognise or want to be part of, queueing in your car for the drive thru junk food, buying crap you don’t need, getting angry, or just being selfish and entitled, this is what I see around. "

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Well I talk to strangers and smile at kids but I'm not lonely on my my. Actually finding I'm enjoying time without people more and more just now!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Other people amuse me.

I love listening into other people's random everyday conversations.

It's better than the tv!

This

Ok perhaps I enjoy people around as I do like to people watch and indeed random people are better than TV

Still am a sucker to make a child smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the Anti Nowhere League sang.

I Hate People

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not a people person. I will politely smile at other dog walkers but make sure I keep moving so they don't stop and chat. I don't think I've ever felt lonely (maybe once). Quite happy in my own company.

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By *aramelsCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I often lip read people, particularly women and will began a conversation sometimes based on what they’ve been talking about. Exceptional icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like dogs with meatball noses.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I like people

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Outside of my friends circle I have a tendency to come across as quite rude and stand offish. I don’t mean it I’m just wired a little differently.

Part of being me and where I am in my brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole, I dislike people, I'll stick with my dogs

But in saying that, if a randomer stops to speak, I'd engage in conversation if I'm not in any rush with whatever I'm doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Other people amuse me.

I love listening into other people's random everyday conversations.

It's better than the tv!

This

Ok perhaps I enjoy people around as I do like to people watch and indeed random people are better than TV

Still am a sucker to make a child smile "

I'd much rather people watch than have any of them talk to me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t start conversations with strangers but they seem to talk to me, so I will talk back. I just figure they need someone to talk to so why not, it’s a couple of minutes out of your day and you might be the only person they speak to all day.

Friends are getting used to it when we go out

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Generally, im an insular arse. However in the last six months I've been making more of an effort to be nicer to strangers when out in public, on the basis that life is hard enough without getting needlessly chippy.

Spread a little happiness as you go round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wonder any of us actually meet people being the grumps that we are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally, im an insular arse. However in the last six months I've been making more of an effort to be nicer to strangers when out in public, on the basis that life is hard enough without getting needlessly chippy.

Spread a little happiness as you go round."

No sorry.

I can't answer you while you have the creepy eye picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a wonder any of us actually meet people being the grumps that we are

Maybe the apocalypse has made us all grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the people I spend time with. Not so bothered about the rest.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

No sorry.

I can't answer you while you have the creepy eye picture

What's creepy about an eye? It's not like I'm licking it this time...

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I couldn't think of anything worste, than going to a party with one other.. and being introduced to all their friends.

I hate it... It's horrible

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I have various hats I can put on. I can be gregarious and peopley, including strangers. But it takes its toll on me and then I need people to fuck off for awhile."

^ This, some days I have 4 or 5 people in ma gaff for a few hours, but it's nice to usher the last ones out, batten down the hatches, put the kettle on and just chill out on ma own for a while

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I find people fascinating and often chat to random individuals in queues or the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People...what a bunch of bastards"

"People like Coldplay and voted for the Nazis; you can't trust people, Jez"

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I really enjoy solitude and I like people, but only for so long, then I crave time on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice people yes. I think even the most self proclaimed anti social amongst us yearns social interaction?

If you dislike company, why be here seeking it is what I'd ask those people?

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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I like smiling at people at I'm passing. I'm struggling a bit with the masks because they can't tell I'm smiling and I can't tell if they are smiling back.

I don't start conversations often but I do chat if someone talks to me.

I don't feel lonely when I'm on my own. I can be a bit introverted when I'm in a group so I do feel lonely around others at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Nice people yes. I think even the most self proclaimed anti social amongst us yearns social interaction?

If you dislike company, why be here seeking it is what I'd ask those people? "

Seeking company for sex behind a screen is a different ball game from meeting people in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people but I do have days that I prefer my own company. More often than not though I will strike up a conversation with a stranger, standing in a queue, or a member of the public I encounter in work, or wherever. I like random conversations with randoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my people.

I like spending time with the people I love but I also love alone time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a general rule I’m always nice to people. Kindness and a smile costs nothing and might make someone’s day! And I am ALWAYS nice to children/elderly. Just the way I was raised.

But if I’m not in a people mood I just put my headphones in and walk with my head down and avoid. It saves me accidentally upsetting anyone with my mood.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I talk to anyone that talks to me

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Where we live people smile and say good morning when passing each other in the street. It's truly lovely.

We couldn't imagine living somewhere where people don't offer a friendly smile.

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
over a year ago

Northside

I'm a real people person. I love company, especially with those I like. I'd make conversation with strangers no problem and love chatting to elderly people. Most of them enjoy a chat and I've heard some brilliant stories as a result! I fully enjoy my own company though and I've honestly never felt lonely!! I get great craic out of making kids laugh...but not strangers kids. That'd just be creepy!! And you know what they say about kids ...they're like farts. You can just about stand your own!!!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Where we live people smile and say good morning when passing each other in the street. It's truly lovely.

We couldn't imagine living somewhere where people don't offer a friendly smile.

This is one of the things I miss with masks inside... so much less likely to interact with friendly strangers.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I talk to everybody, but sometimes I'd love to be alone at home. Quite good with strangers though I think, I can be friendly enough

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

I don't mind a few people, dislike crowds

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Where we live people smile and say good morning when passing each other in the street. It's truly lovely.

We couldn't imagine living somewhere where people don't offer a friendly smile.

This is one of the things I miss with masks inside... so much less likely to interact with friendly strangers. "

I try to smile with my eyes and probably look not a little mad.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am a loner and quite happy by myself. I get no visitors and have a small circle of family and circle of friends. I will one day become that crazy old recluse in a hoose but as long as i have a dog by my side i will always be content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like them?

Do you talk to random strangers and smile at their children?

Do you spend every waking moment with others and feel lonely after 2 minutes of being alone?

Are you a mind reader?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I am one of those happy smiley people. Chat to anyone, offer to help anyone in a shop, pick people up from bus stops in bad weather etc. I have always had amazing relationships with all the neighbours I have ever had. I also like to close my front door and be alone and do my own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like them?

Do you talk to random strangers and smile at their children?

Do you spend every waking moment with others and feel lonely after 2 minutes of being alone?

Depends on two things really what mood I’m in and what mood there in I know I do kick off sometimes but I seem to come around and make an apology later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you like them?

Do you talk to random strangers and smile at their children?

Do you spend every waking moment with others and feel lonely after 2 minutes of being alone?

Depends on two things really what mood I’m in and what mood there in I know I do kick off sometimes but I seem to come around and make an apology later

They’re *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat a lot to strangers. Chat up kids on the school run, send smiles.. however I am fussy with people who I allow close to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like people but I do have days that I prefer my own company. More often than not though I will strike up a conversation with a stranger, standing in a queue, or a member of the public I encounter in work, or wherever. I like random conversations with randoms

Very similar thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you not have time for people like that?! "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I am one of those happy smiley people. Chat to anyone, offer to help anyone in a shop, pick people up from bus stops in bad weather etc. I have always had amazing relationships with all the neighbours I have ever had. I also like to close my front door and be alone and do my own thing."

Very similar apart from the bus stop thing, which I put down to not wanting to give anyone cause for concern given i am male..

I think people in general are fascinating and ditto I can be happy and content in my own company..

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Very similar apart from the bus stop thing, which I put down to not wanting to give anyone cause for concern given i am male..

I think people in general are fascinating and ditto I can be happy and content in my own company.."

I am lucky I found a career that filled my 'need to give'.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Very similar apart from the bus stop thing, which I put down to not wanting to give anyone cause for concern given i am male..

I think people in general are fascinating and ditto I can be happy and content in my own company..

I am lucky I found a career that filled my 'need to give'."

Ditto till I retired..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My job involves me having to be around alot of people and I have to be "nice" to them 98% of the time. However this has made me loathe 98% of people

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