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"I know single ladies and couples are inundated with mails, included in those some pretty moronic questions, copy and paste, crass comments and pics etc. But. If you’ve sent a polite and respectful mail but perhaps not quite picked up the nuances of what someone meant, or you’ve misread a profile, surely it’s either easier to either ignore or point out someone’s mistake. The amount of times real twatty and uncalled replies get dished out by some is just uncalled for. I think some folk have been on here that long they become hardened to the point of being aggressive and abusive, there’s just no need. There I’ve said it. And yes I’ll get replies pointing out how many shitty mails couples and females get, but there’s just no need to be twatty to the polite and respectful guys out there!
Ps. Those guys that send the crass, abusive, copy and paste etc kinda deserve all that comes their way......"Dont believe all the hype dude that women and couples are inundated with messages. If they are, then their not using their filters and block button properly . I know hot women that get very few messages , simply by strict filtering . Women love having the power and the attention. No matter how polite your messages, from some ladies you are never getting a reply. Pull your big boy pants up and just don't stress the little things. If you can't handle a wee rude reply now and then , then it's time to say sionara.  | |||
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"I know single ladies and couples are inundated with mails, included in those some pretty moronic questions, copy and paste, crass comments and pics etc. But. If you’ve sent a polite and respectful mail but perhaps not quite picked up the nuances of what someone meant, or you’ve misread a profile, surely it’s either easier to either ignore or point out someone’s mistake. The amount of times real twatty and uncalled replies get dished out by some is just uncalled for. I think some folk have been on here that long they become hardened to the point of being aggressive and abusive, there’s just no need. There I’ve said it. And yes I’ll get replies pointing out how many shitty mails couples and females get, but there’s just no need to be twatty to the polite and respectful guys out there!
Ps. Those guys that send the crass, abusive, copy and paste etc kinda deserve all that comes their way......
Dont believe all the hype dude that women and couples are inundated with messages. If they are, then their not using their filters and block button properly . I know hot women that get very few messages , simply by strict filtering . Women love having the power and the attention. No matter how polite your messages, from some ladies you are never getting a reply.
Pull your big boy pants up and just don't stress the little things. If you can't handle a wee rude reply now and then , then it's time to say sionara. "Or sayonara  | |||
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"I know single ladies and couples are inundated with mails, included in those some pretty moronic questions, copy and paste, crass comments and pics etc. But. If you’ve sent a polite and respectful mail but perhaps not quite picked up the nuances of what someone meant, or you’ve misread a profile, surely it’s either easier to either ignore or point out someone’s mistake. The amount of times real twatty and uncalled replies get dished out by some is just uncalled for. I think some folk have been on here that long they become hardened to the point of being aggressive and abusive, there’s just no need. There I’ve said it. And yes I’ll get replies pointing out how many shitty mails couples and females get, but there’s just no need to be twatty to the polite and respectful guys out there!
Ps. Those guys that send the crass, abusive, copy and paste etc kinda deserve all that comes their way......
Dont believe all the hype dude that women and couples are inundated with messages. If they are, then their not using their filters and block button properly . I know hot women that get very few messages , simply by strict filtering . Women love having the power and the attention. No matter how polite your messages, from some ladies you are never getting a reply.
Pull your big boy pants up and just don't stress the little things. If you can't handle a wee rude reply now and then , then it's time to say sionara.
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"I know single ladies and couples are inundated with mails, included in those some pretty moronic questions, copy and paste, crass comments and pics etc. But. If you’ve sent a polite and respectful mail but perhaps not quite picked up the nuances of what someone meant, or you’ve misread a profile, surely it’s either easier to either ignore or point out someone’s mistake. The amount of times real twatty and uncalled replies get dished out by some is just uncalled for. I think some folk have been on here that long they become hardened to the point of being aggressive and abusive, there’s just no need. There I’ve said it. And yes I’ll get replies pointing out how many shitty mails couples and females get, but there’s just no need to be twatty to the polite and respectful guys out there!
Ps. Those guys that send the crass, abusive, copy and paste etc kinda deserve all that comes their way......
Dont believe all the hype dude that women and couples are inundated with messages. If they are, then their not using their filters and block button properly . I know hot women that get very few messages , simply by strict filtering . Women love having the power and the attention. No matter how polite your messages, from some ladies you are never getting a reply.
Pull your big boy pants up and just don't stress the little things. If you can't handle a wee rude reply now and then , then it's time to say sionara. "I’ve no issue with not getting a reply, that’s par for the course and everyone’s right not to reply. Secondly I can handle a bit of rudeness, my post is merely to point out that there’s no need that’s all. My pants are adequately big and adequately pulled up thank you  | |||
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"I know single ladies and couples are inundated with mails, included in those some pretty moronic questions, copy and paste, crass comments and pics etc. But. If you’ve sent a polite and respectful mail but perhaps not quite picked up the nuances of what someone meant, or you’ve misread a profile, surely it’s either easier to either ignore or point out someone’s mistake. The amount of times real twatty and uncalled replies get dished out by some is just uncalled for. I think some folk have been on here that long they become hardened to the point of being aggressive and abusive, there’s just no need. There I’ve said it. And yes I’ll get replies pointing out how many shitty mails couples and females get, but there’s just no need to be twatty to the polite and respectful guys out there!
Ps. Those guys that send the crass, abusive, copy and paste etc kinda deserve all that comes their way......
Dont believe all the hype dude that women and couples are inundated with messages. If they are, then their not using their filters and block button properly . I know hot women that get very few messages , simply by strict filtering . Women love having the power and the attention. No matter how polite your messages, from some ladies you are never getting a reply.
Pull your big boy pants up and just don't stress the little things. If you can't handle a wee rude reply now and then , then it's time to say sionara.
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"I agree with you OP. I get too many messages to ever answer. But if I do open a message, I reply to it. And IF I can see the writer has tried to be polite then I think he should get a polite response. Without exception. It would be different if the original message was abusive or crude of course, but even then I wouldn't be rude, I'd just say no thanks. No one is above manners. " But its not rude to not reply to a message. Its rude to expect one. | |||
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"I admit I’m a bit twatty at the moment when i receive a message. My profile is hid and I still get messages and it reapply irks me. I said to one earlier please don’t message me as I’m hid for a reason and he came back with a load of crap that I should put myself in someone else’s shoes. Needless to say instantly blocked. " Exactly why I don't reply. | |||
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"I agree with you OP. I get too many messages to ever answer. But if I do open a message, I reply to it. And IF I can see the writer has tried to be polite then I think he should get a polite response. Without exception. It would be different if the original message was abusive or crude of course, but even then I wouldn't be rude, I'd just say no thanks. No one is above manners. But its not rude to not reply to a message. Its rude to expect one." No it's not rude to not reply, especially if it's a stupid message. But it is rude to reply with unkindness. Better to ignore, as you say. If they become abusive, then they forefit the right to complain about a sarcy reply. But OP was talking about respectful messages. It's different. | |||
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Whenever I get that my response is always "well you just did."
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"I agree with you OP. I get too many messages to ever answer. But if I do open a message, I reply to it. And IF I can see the writer has tried to be polite then I think he should get a polite response. Without exception. It would be different if the original message was abusive or crude of course, but even then I wouldn't be rude, I'd just say no thanks. No one is above manners. But its not rude to not reply to a message. Its rude to expect one. No it's not rude to not reply, especially if it's a stupid message. But it is rude to reply with unkindness. Better to ignore, as you say. If they become abusive, then they forefit the right to complain about a sarcy reply. But OP was talking about respectful messages. It's different." Yeah I totally agree with this. No need for rudness at all. Don't change who or how you are because someone else is being rude or has bad manners... | |||
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