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What a man, what a man, what a man, what a mighty good man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ladies of Fab, do you look for a man thats smooth like Barry and his voice got bass? Or is it a body like Arnold with a Denzel face that attracts you? Or how about a man who's smart like a doctor with a real good rep?

I'm sure you would all like a mixture of everything, but what's that one thing about a man that catches your attention right away and touches you in the right spot?

*credit to Salt n Pepa

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Eyes first everytime, If I can read his eyes then game on, If not then walk away, its not failed me yet

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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The way he smiles. I did wonder if it was in his eyes but oh no you'll be deceived.

Now that cringe is over, I do love a voice that resonates with something deep inside me. Certain voices make me feel a bit flushed and think of them talking to me as they fuck me and what sort of filth they'd say as they pull my hair. Most of the time though, it's definitely the smile; a smile that reaches the eyes and is full of genuine warmth and a sprinkling of lust always has an effect on me.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"The way he smiles. I did wonder if it was in his eyes but oh no you'll be deceived.

Now that cringe is over, I do love a voice that resonates with something deep inside me. Certain voices make me feel a bit flushed and think of them talking to me as they fuck me and what sort of filth they'd say as they pull my hair. Most of the time though, it's definitely the smile; a smile that reaches the eyes and is full of genuine warmth and a sprinkling of lust always has an effect on me."

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Mmm a cheeky smile that reaches the eyes

Also nice strong hands to..... You get the idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He keeps me on cloud nine Just like the Temps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*takes notes - eyes and smiles

Would it be strong eye contact, or is it a quick lingering glance and then he looks away all coy?

When he smiles, do you want to be the cause of that smile, or should he just be a smiley guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of snot nosed ex flames couldn’t be him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of snot nosed ex flames couldn’t be him "

it's a great song isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His eyes, always look to the eyes first, then smile. And he has to be able to make me laugh.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"*takes notes - eyes and smiles

Would it be strong eye contact, or is it a quick lingering glance and then he looks away all coy?

When he smiles, do you want to be the cause of that smile, or should he just be a smiley guy?"

A generally happy guy is always nice but beimg the reason for a smile is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*takes notes - eyes and smiles

Would it be strong eye contact, or is it a quick lingering glance and then he looks away all coy?

When he smiles, do you want to be the cause of that smile, or should he just be a smiley guy?"

Like this would be creepy

It's all about the voice for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of snot nosed ex flames couldn’t be him

it's a great song isn't it "

What song, I’m just answering the question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His eyes, always look to the eyes first, then smile. And he has to be able to make me laugh.

"

Do you want belly laughs, dnot out your nose or little chuckles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His eyes, always look to the eyes first, then smile. And he has to be able to make me laugh.

Do you want belly laughs, dnot out your nose or little chuckles? "

*snot

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"*takes notes - eyes and smiles

Would it be strong eye contact, or is it a quick lingering glance and then he looks away all coy?

When he smiles, do you want to be the cause of that smile, or should he just be a smiley guy?"

Strong eye contact definitely, watching his pupils expand and contract as he talks, his iris change shades then he subconsciously bites his lip...

Oooft

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of snot nosed ex flames couldn’t be him

it's a great song isn't it

What song, I’m just answering the question "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, his eyes, the look he gives, the moment that takes your breath away and you think “ I want”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*takes notes - eyes and smiles

Would it be strong eye contact, or is it a quick lingering glance and then he looks away all coy?

When he smiles, do you want to be the cause of that smile, or should he just be a smiley guy?

Like this would be creepy

It's all about the voice for me."

I think I'll change one of my profile picks off the back of your answer, my eyes are very lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*takes notes - eyes and smiles

Would it be strong eye contact, or is it a quick lingering glance and then he looks away all coy?

When he smiles, do you want to be the cause of that smile, or should he just be a smiley guy?

Strong eye contact definitely, watching his pupils expand and contract as he talks, his iris change shades then he subconsciously bites his lip...

Oooft "

noted

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By *llenGTWoman
over a year ago

East/West Mids

Eye contact yes, followed by a smile directed at me. Confidence is a must, so attractive. I am a sucker for a good head of hair, well groomed for some reason, no idea why!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eye contact yes, followed by a smile directed at me. Confidence is a must, so attractive. I am a sucker for a good head of hair, well groomed for some reason, no idea why! "

Ah fook! I'm sorting 3 crowns, a recedo on both sides and a bald spot. Would a whig do?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

A good smile, sparkly eyes and a nice bum and I'm sold...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this answer has changed over time for me..

when i was like a teenager i was 'gushing' over those gym fit types with no chest hair and id all be into the stereotypical clean shaven 'pretty boys'

then through my 20's it went to bit of chest fluff, liked 'rugby/dad bods' strong legs and shoulders, if he was well dressed, clean, nice strong hands, clean nails, good hair, nice shoes

now i am in my 30's its totally about a mental connection.. of course i am physically drawn to nice teeth and smile, but truly is about a mans mind. If he can get to me mentally he then has the ability to do things to me sexually that perhaps others couldnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The glint in the eye as you first make contact..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good smile, sparkly eyes and a nice bum and I'm sold... "

Do you have a favourite of those 3 or could you settle with 2 out of 3 or is it a deal breaker that he must have the perfect trifecta to float your boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He always has heavy conversation for the mind

Which means a lot to me 'cause good men are hard to find!

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By *ED00Woman
over a year ago

South Devon... Torbaydos

I love big arms and shoulders and a good sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this answer has changed over time for me..

when i was like a teenager i was 'gushing' over those gym fit types with no chest hair and id all be into the stereotypical clean shaven 'pretty boys'

then through my 20's it went to bit of chest fluff, liked 'rugby/dad bods' strong legs and shoulders, if he was well dressed, clean, nice strong hands, clean nails, good hair, nice shoes

now i am in my 30's its totally about a mental connection.. of course i am physically drawn to nice teeth and smile, but truly is about a mans mind. If he can get to me mentally he then has the ability to do things to me sexually that perhaps others couldnt. "

Quoting City Jeans- he always has heavy conversation for the mind

Which means a lot to me 'cause good men are hard to find!

This type of thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His eyes, always look to the eyes first, then smile. And he has to be able to make me laugh.

Do you want belly laughs, dnot out your nose or little chuckles? "

Belly laughing without the smot please, snotty look just isn't classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A glint in his eye but mainly it is a bit of intelligence. If he can't speak properly, hold a conversion or is thick as mince, it's never going to happen. No matter how attractive he appears!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His eyes, always look to the eyes first, then smile. And he has to be able to make me laugh.

Do you want belly laughs, dnot out your nose or little chuckles?

Belly laughing without the smot please, snotty look just isn't classy "

No I'd say it wouldn't be the best of looks lol

Belly laughs - noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A glint in his eye but mainly it is a bit of intelligence. If he can't speak properly, hold a conversion or is thick as mince, it's never going to happen. No matter how attractive he appears! "

Thick as mince Haha that's brilliant!

If theres nothing between the ears then he'll likely be useless between the legs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cheeky smile, doesn’t shy away from eye contact and definitely has to have a sense of humour

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Definitely a genuine smile that makes his eyes sparkle

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"A good smile, sparkly eyes and a nice bum and I'm sold...

Do you have a favourite of those 3 or could you settle with 2 out of 3 or is it a deal breaker that he must have the perfect trifecta to float your boat? "

2 out of 3 works for me....

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Shoulders, eyes, hands,height, twinkle...yes please

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Bookmarking this one as this thread theme always provides a large variety of answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested to know what category I come under

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