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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you prefer more formal dates? (Meals out in restaurants) Or chilled out informal dates (park benches/walks)??

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Do you prefer more formal dates? (Meals out in restaurants) Or chilled out informal dates (park benches/walks)??

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Informal definitely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a date full stop!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Informal...I feel more relaxed

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

i would be glad with either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer going for a drink, not a meal. It’s easier to leave early if it’s not going well.

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By *iking-RaiderMan
over a year ago

suffolk

Bit of both, done the formal way more often but had a date with a girl recently where we went to this ninja tag place, great fun and there was no awkward moments as we had already got seriously competitive with each other a week before we went!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably drink and a meal but in a pub rather than a restaurant or a coffee in a cafe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Default mode is dress to impress, high end restaurant, splash out and make a night to remember.

But totally depends on whatever they're comfortable with, casual dates always follow and they're special too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Default mode is dress to impress, high end restaurant, splash out and make a night to remember.

But totally depends on whatever they're comfortable with, casual dates always follow and they're special too "

Casual to start.. then get formal id say x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Informal for me, no need to go over the top when you’re trying to get to know each other. If the dates going well then extend it, to a restaurant if not, a quick coffee and goodbye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Park/walk pub drink is always a good start

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Informal..I want to see their eyes and mannerisms. That doesn’t need to cost anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both. But my favourite type of date is a park picnic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like a date full stop! "

Hey or Hay?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Depends on how the online chatting has gone. If you have chatted a while, you have usually gained some common interests. Sometimes it is a pub meal, sometimes a McDonald's purely for convenience and location. I have met at a stately home, country fayre....

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Definitely informal and relaxed is my preference

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Just a nice relaxed person that can make me laugh and know dancing , smells nice and loves cudles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like both

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I forgot , informal but formal if make sense

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

More comfortable with a relaxed bar meal rather than dinner in a 5 star restaurant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the latter!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"More comfortable with a relaxed bar meal rather than dinner in a 5 star restaurant."
defenitly i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last (non-speed) date I had was an afternoon drink in a pub. More years ago than I care to remember.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I prefer not to go on dates at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how to date

I'd love to learn though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Informal is better. Currently on my mind walking along Thames.. and then maybe a visit to a boat restaurant. So best of both worlds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person and how they are

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I like adventure dates, spread over a weekend with lots of fun things to do

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Think for a guest date informal works best. A coffee somewhere perhaps. Let the chat flow and see how the chemistry feels.

I'd quite like a date lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Never food. Something informal is far better for me. And if there is coffee involved I'm definitely there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Informality is my middle name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so to do with the vibe your getting from each other and what you are both comfortable with. I've had both and really enjoy both.

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By *irsty bTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

Informal is always good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me."

It's sad but I get that too. It hurts a bit but I think I'm at peace with that part most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Informal less pressure and a more relaxed atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me.

It's sad but I get that too. It hurts a bit but I think I'm at peace with that part most of the time "

It's their issue with themselves, not you. X

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me."

Maybe they are married and not wanting to be seen in public with anyone.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me.

It's sad but I get that too. It hurts a bit but I think I'm at peace with that part most of the time "

I would bloody raging and would not meet them. How insulting is that?. Good enough to shag but not to be seen out with.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me.

It's sad but I get that too. It hurts a bit but I think I'm at peace with that part most of the time

I would bloody raging and would not meet them. How insulting is that?. Good enough to shag but not to be seen out with. "

^^^^^ absolutely this!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I love both kind of dates...... I’m not arsed what we do as long as I’m with him

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens


"I love both kind of dates...... I’m not arsed what we do as long as I’m with him "

I agree any type, but do find a casual social at 1st is more relaxed...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neither. They never want to be seen in public with me.

Maybe they are married and not wanting to be seen in public with anyone."

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like an informal, no pressure park meet. If it goes well there will be plenty of opportunity to do the full on drinks meal etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like a date full stop! "
snap x

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

Informal for the first date, if we have good chemistry there’ll be plenty of time for meals out/weekends away after!

A bit of companionship can go a long way.....!

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