FabSwingers.com forum: Photos vs reality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

I think my photos are a true reflection of me, however I don’t show my worst part (my mum tum!) but recently took some very candid photos that I have not been brave enough to upload. Im not sure why, when anyone I meet would see it anyway!

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

We are what we are and should be loved/liked for that reason i say

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I think mine are a true reflection but I have hidden my most hideous parts such as my tummy. I don’t use filters or airbrush

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

Im not sure the storm trooper is a natural look though lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not the best at taking pics so mine are a true representation

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By *iking-RaiderMan
over a year ago

suffolk

I think i need to update mine. I think I look better now than what most of my pictures show! Lost a bit of chub lately haha

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m real and unfiltered. I show my all round person but need to emphasise my lockdown tub

Ive met enough people here for them to call me out of it wasn’t so.. current videos show the unfiltered face moving too

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I am me!!

No filters. Just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

those unlucky enough to be my friends on here get to view my over hang, me stood, me bent over, me lying down.. my tits out of a bra.. my asshole and pussy..

yup i think everything is shown.

i decided this time around not to hide anything else im only paranoid prior to a meet. this way its all out there

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

My pictures are recent and totally honest with no filters. I hide my face in public pictures but I’m happy to send with a messsge.

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

I look better in person. Lol

Hate photos.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I might have a well placed hand in some to hide the baby shelf, but it’s still me and when my video is live you even see it laugh

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

What you see is what you get, glitter and all!

Jo.Xx

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

I struggle with my mum tum to,but I think we notice and worry about things that others just don’t ,especially in the heat of moment but l guess everyone has their insecurities it’s important to not over think things but easier said than done x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I won't put any pictures up that I think are unflattering. I'm not daft

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Mine are pure reflection of me without filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm clenching like a mofo to hide my dad tum but other than that unfiltered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my last profile I had a 'cleavage' pic that was actually my elbow cleavage. I got lots of compliments on my great tits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a point of putting a video on that reveals my worst bits (in my opinion) that way there’s no surprises face to face

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Photos are an advertising mechanism in my opinion. They drive the footfall to your profile and hopefully meets.

While I would have no issue posting photos of my dad bod and average dick, thats not what we are trying to “sell”, so instead we post photos of wax play, rope and some DS elements.

I care little about what a person looks like, its their attitude, personality, willingness to try new things and sense of adventure that attract us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics are a reflection of me I take quite a few and only get about a couple i like I try my best to pose but me and the camera arent friends lol

I never use filters or face apps the only altering I do is trim them

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Mine are a true reflection of me, different parts of me..black and grey colour..bit of teasing..

Best thing is ive always been told i look so much better in person..result

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"What you see is what you get, glitter and all!

Jo.Xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes

Taken from decent angles

But all i change is the colouring, maybe make myself look less pale

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics are all unfiltered and not enhanced so yes all those scars are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit heavier than my pics and I don't show my worst bits (tum) but as I only meet in a club rather than off here it doesn't matter

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

My pics are unfiltered, but obviously make up has been applied!

I don't take photos of my wobbly bits/fat stomach as I hate it.

Also, due to lockdown lard (16lbs), I've changed my body type to AMPLE from CURVY. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i decided this time around not to hide anything else im only paranoid prior to a meet. this way its all out there "

This is a bit how I feel. Part of me wants to just upload them as then there’s no surprises and I don’t have to worry about what he will think of my stretch mark covered mum tum

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No point in trying to be something you are not that is why i post recent pics and never edit them.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

People have said my photos don't do me justice.. im crap at taking pics..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I barely know how to use the camera on ma phone, let alone filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point in trying to be something you are not that is why i post recent pics and never edit them."

You don't have a colour camera?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

i decided this time around not to hide anything else im only paranoid prior to a meet. this way its all out there

This is a bit how I feel. Part of me wants to just upload them as then there’s no surprises and I don’t have to worry about what he will think of my stretch mark covered mum tum

Do you think that will bother people?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ll admit I enhance my pictures or find the right ones that make me look at my best (it takes time

However my videos aren’t touched up, that’s me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play around with filters, and try to go for flattering angles. I also hide my tummy.

The reality of me naked isn't very pleasant but by the time I get to that point, I usually find ways to distract them!

No one has run away or recoiled in horror at a social meeting yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No filters just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i decided this time around not to hide anything else im only paranoid prior to a meet. this way its all out there

This is a bit how I feel. Part of me wants to just upload them as then there’s no surprises and I don’t have to worry about what he will think of my stretch mark covered mum tum

Do you think that will bother people? "

Probably

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By *arlpeterMan
over a year ago

London

I think we all have taken a pic at some stage and thought...... Naaa not using that one haven't we?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I think we all have taken a pic at some stage and thought...... Naaa not using that one haven't we? "

All the time.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

Good to see you back on chill out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

I dislike taking photos, but I dislike even more filtered ones.

My photos are me, completely as I am. People can either take me as I am or leave me be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

You’re back, hello stranger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you pick your phone up and the front camera is accidentally on, I’d never let anyone see a picture of me from that angle. Chins hanging everywhere.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"No point in trying to be something you are not that is why i post recent pics and never edit them.

You don't have a colour camera?"

Changed colour for another thread today but never change body shape or iron out wrinkles.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

Good to see you back on chill out

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

I dislike taking photos, but I dislike even more filtered ones.

My photos are me, completely as I am. People can either take me as I am or leave me be

I'd take you as you are

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve nearly always been told I look much better in person than in my photos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to hide and no need to lie, this is me, like it or lump it

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

Hello you. Welcome back.x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

You’re back, hello stranger!

I like the new name

Back for a limited time only

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By *reywolf_18Man
over a year ago

ayr

Lol I'm not great at taking pictures so with mine what you see is what you get. I am planning to do better ones though

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

i decided this time around not to hide anything else im only paranoid prior to a meet. this way its all out there

This is a bit how I feel. Part of me wants to just upload them as then there’s no surprises and I don’t have to worry about what he will think of my stretch mark covered mum tum

Do you think that will bother people?

Probably

I don’t think you have anything to worry about, I agree with Sinderella’s point above

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"What you see is what you get. No false advertising here

Hello you. Welcome back.x"

Hello back. Still looking

my dear x

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I am what I am, yes all photos are a true picture of me apart from black and white, I will use angles to hide my tum though

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Even when models have their photos taken, they throw away most of the photos to end up with a great one or two.

Flattering angles are allowed, I think

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I am what I am, yes all photos are a true picture of me apart from black and white, I will use angles to hide my tum though"

What tum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my picks are very genuine it’s no one else but me.They show all my bad bits and my scars.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I am what I am, yes all photos are a true picture of me apart from black and white, I will use angles to hide my tum though

What tum?

See it works

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I am what I am, yes all photos are a true picture of me apart from black and white, I will use angles to hide my tum though

What tum?

See it works

Sorry meant

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Definitely 100% me and nothing else believe it or not

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I am what I am, yes all photos are a true picture of me apart from black and white, I will use angles to hide my tum though

What tum?

See it works

Sorry meant

Great angles then

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I am what I am, yes all photos are a true picture of me apart from black and white, I will use angles to hide my tum though

What tum?

See it works

Sorry meant

Great angles then

You can tell me one day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I uploaded it

will probably regret it in the morning when I’m sober

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My pics are all me and apart from black and white and some cropping are unfiltered....of course I pick which I think show me off best but I've not had anyone say they don't think they're a fair representation of me yet

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By *winger-manMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Camera angle is key x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I uploaded it

will probably regret it in the morning when I’m sober

Nothing to worry about, it's a great photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"those unlucky enough to be my friends on here get to view my over hang, me stood, me bent over, me lying down.. my tits out of a bra.. my asshole and pussy..

yup i think everything is shown.

i decided this time around not to hide anything else im only paranoid prior to a meet. this way its all out there "

they show your lush personality too X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mention that I have a belly, but I don't have photos as such. I won't filter though as I live in fear of being called out. People have apparently been pleasantly surprised but that.means nothing. It's hard to show a part of your body you don't love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never be worried what other people think, if they dont like it then hey theres plenty that do. Me being one

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I do think my pictures really shows who i am in most aspects in the most simple way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean - everyone says I look better in person, because well. I just don’t really take selfies....

But I’m proud I made my penis look huge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always get told our pics dont do us justice x

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I mean - everyone says I look better in person, because well. I just don’t really take selfies....

But I’m proud I made my penis look huge

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I mean - everyone says I look better in person, because well. I just don’t really take selfies....

But I’m proud I made my penis look huge

Why, is it actually really small?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean - everyone says I look better in person, because well. I just don’t really take selfies....

But I’m proud I made my penis look huge

Why, is it actually really small?!

Tiny, but it’s okay. Why god give us tongues......

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I mean - everyone says I look better in person, because well. I just don’t really take selfies....

But I’m proud I made my penis look huge

Why, is it actually really small?!

Tiny, but it’s okay. Why god give us tongues......"

Does licking your penis make it bigger?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes, well no. I’m actually more stunning in the flesh

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yes, well no. I’m actually more stunning in the flesh

With your make up on x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Yes, well no. I’m actually more stunning in the flesh

With your make up on x"

Shush you, I only wear make up on Wednesday’s

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yes, well no. I’m actually more stunning in the flesh

With your make up on x

Shush you, I only wear make up on Wednesday’s

I'd love do you up

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Yes, well no. I’m actually more stunning in the flesh

With your make up on x

Shush you, I only wear make up on Wednesday’s

I'd love do you up"

I’m on the pill so you can’t

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yes, well no. I’m actually more stunning in the flesh

With your make up on x

Shush you, I only wear make up on Wednesday’s

I'd love do you up

I’m on the pill so you can’t

Filth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do add filters.

I do only pick the best pics

Maybe a sign of a lack of confidence

And yes; probably cat fishing peeps

But our profile clearly states my size and how I live sex

So if you read it- mix with the images you’re probably getting a better image x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mine are me updated most days no filters but like u my mum tum not on show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very recent photos.. personally l think a person is only fooling themselves if they don't put up the " real deal " photos of themselves as why hide what it really is ? ...BUT ..l fully understand ..and respect .. what a person sees in themselves , different people look at different things in different ways ,how many times would people have had meets only to think the words .." you look different from your photos "

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Yep my pics show all my bad parts

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Good angles & the odd crop & b/w image on ours nothing else. We have both put on a bit of weight since lockdown but not loads & have started to do something about it so as we are not actively chatting to people to arrange anything we don’t feel it necessary to update pics.

We are body conscious as are most people but not that conscious we lay off the pizza & pies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, my cock's at least twice as big in real life but I Photoshop it down so I don't scare the ladies away

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My friends pics yes as they are all angles and poses that my friends have seen me in already

Public pics are just for a laugh so the sky's the limit on imagination

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

None of my pics have any filters or ‘touch ups’ on them, and I would like to think they are an accurate representation of me. Nobody who has met me from here has ever asked “ Where’s the guy from your pics?” anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are me

Clothed in the main

I have a very poor mental relationship with my body

I am under no illusion that the issue lies with me, not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe mine are a good reflection of me and my personality. Very honest, upfront and love being naked. Nobody should hide any part as we are all beautiful in our own way

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

I can't take selfies, so my pics don't look the best, never seem to be able to look relaxed and natural... lol...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine are a true reflection and I never use filters or airbrush them in anyway. However, I also know my best angles and like most people don’t post a bad picture or a picture that I’m not happy with. Many of us have body insecurities and parts of our bodies we are not happy with but they are part of what makes us who we are, so we need to learn to love even the bits we are less keen on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take mine from a flattering angle and I use natural light and know how to pose. I obviously post photos that I think show the best side of me but I do also show some totally unposed, natural ones for friends only.

I don't use filters or edit my body shape though. So I think that's a good balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I alwais show what I am as a person and in pictures aswell..a lie alwais have a short leg..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting on a video call with a guy I later met. He said I didn’t look like my pics so I propped up my phone and stood a few feet away and posed. He then agreed I did.

Conclusion; I look like crap up close!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, my cock's at least twice as big in real life but I Photoshop it down so I don't scare the ladies away

Now THATS what you call a very considerate gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No filters, up to date and just me. Though I do make sure the room is tidy!

I've had many shocks over the years, particularly in clubs when I've met couples and women, who are very different in appearance.

Perhaps a reflection of the pressure people feel to be body beautiful? Don't get me started on why men are missing in most couples profiles.

Pity people feel a need to filter, or even go AWOL (men), when ultimately a partner will be in and on you from just about every angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My photos aren't a true reflection of me, in real life I'm in colour, not black and white as the photos suggest

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’ve put weight on due to the menopause - which I hate.

If I’m likely to meet someone I’ll send them ‘warts and all’ pics of what I look like now. Hoping to get it back off again so I don’t have to do that!

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By *irsty bTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

All my pics are very recent. Too many people use filters nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My photos aren't a true reflection of me, in real life I'm in colour, not black and white as the photos suggest

Do you have a head?

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Our photos are all very real, a few were taken by professionals, but most by us. Either way, they're almost brutally honest. They show us, lumps, bumps and all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My photos aren't a true reflection of me, in real life I'm in colour, not black and white as the photos suggest

Do you have a head?

I keep giving mine to guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My photos aren't a true reflection of me, in real life I'm in colour, not black and white as the photos suggest

Do you have a head?

Afraid so, it's far too big to fit in the photo though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My photos aren't a true reflection of me, in real life I'm in colour, not black and white as the photos suggest

Do you have a head?

I keep giving mine to guys

I wish someone would give me some...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I currently don't have any pics on my profile but I always send a face pic directly taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a full length nude picture letting it all hang out.

What's the point of pretending - unless you don't plan on meeting anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

Yep my pictures are a true reflection of me. I might suck my tummy in a bit and position myself to hide the lumpy bits sometimes though! I think we naturally want to show the best version of ourselves.

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset

Mine is a true reflection of myself now.

I used to hide bits and edit pictures to make it look like what I thought others would like to see...but then I thought how silly is that? If I meet someone and they think I look like my photos, they will be disappointed when we meet face to face.

Obviously I still have some insecurities, but I'm happy enough in my own skin now

(only taken 30+ years to get there! Lol)

What you see is what you get with me

I'm not everyone's cup of tea and wouldn't want to be. If they don't like what they see, they can pass me by

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By *onyboyABCMan
over a year ago

Leicester

My pics are rubbish better in the flesh,well I think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My photos aren't a true reflection of me, in real life I'm in colour, not black and white as the photos suggest

Do you have a head?

Afraid so, it's far too big to fit in the photo though!"

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I don't use filters or anything, so they are true in that sense.

I do use angles to my advantage and lighting and only shoe my best features in my public photos.

My friends only pictures show more of the true me.

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By *onyboyABCMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I don't use filters or anything, so they are true in that sense.

I do use angles to my advantage and lighting and only shoe my best features in my public photos.

My friends only pictures show more of the true me. "
you look mighty fine to me,ile be your friend x

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

"I don't use filters or anything, so they are true in that sense.

I do use angles to my advantage and lighting and only shoe my best features in my public photos.

My friends only pictures show more of the true me. you look mighty fine to me,ile be your friend x"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some filtered for colour and some not but none to change shape or size.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I crop, I suck in my stomach, and I use colour effects (black and white or something, not speckles or whatever that make things look better than they are). On one photo I got rid of a giant pimple on my arse, and on another one I got rid of some red eye. Other than that, my photos are as I am, and I upload them the day I take them or possibly the day after.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

Yep they’re me ! I do the best with what I’ve got like it or hate it it’s how I am take it or leave it

By the way OP your pictures are great !

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I really am a cock

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I really am a cock"

saaame

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By *onyboyABCMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I really am a cock

saaame

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think you would look better in suspenders and French knickers mmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am exactly as in my pics, although I'm sure we all try to take a slightly creative picture to garner attention? People assume they know what others are attracted to. We're usually wrong I think.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Only filters I use are black and white or to add a colour splash. What you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I take a crap photo ... much better in the flesh ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use angles, lighting and poses to my advantage to accentuate the best parts of me but I don't dramatically change anything. The only difference in real life is that I come with a head and generally have more clothes on

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I use black and white and sometimes blur the edges or tattoos for anonymity etc. Otherwise they are very accurate. Although yes I do tend to avoid pictures with my stomach showing as its my biggest flaw.

To be honest even a few months ago I'd never have thought I'd have been able to put half the pictures up I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All me. I’d look a damn sight better if I knew how to photoshop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pics are me there just to show what you would get if we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my pics are true reflection most taken after finishing a night shift my face pics are hidden as dont want to scare anyone off before seducing them with my personality lol they are available on request

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Ours are pretty much us, what you see is what you get. If we ever come across a situation where someone didn't like us in person than that's cool

we'll call it a night with them, go get d*unk and dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the life out the black and white filter lol

I would take a video nowadays and choose the best screens shots which I feel paint me in the best light. My pictures are me, but I definitely pick the better ones...some of the others I've taken in the past are shocking lol

I dont think I'm being deceitful, I think I'm just using my best bits so as to have a better chance at attracting women

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I use the life out the black and white filter lol

I dont think I'm being deceitful, I think I'm just using my best bits so as to have a better chance at attracting women

Taking stills of video definitely makes the process easier for me.

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over a year ago

"I use the life out the black and white filter lol

I dont think I'm being deceitful, I think I'm just using my best bits so as to have a better chance at attracting women

Taking stills of video definitely makes the process easier for me."

It's the posing bit that does my head in, I swear I would normally shy away from the camera in most circumstance but on Fab obviously I cant do that. If I set the video re wording in the background just walk about for a bit I can usually work with something in the video

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

I can't be the only person who's fine with what I see when I look in the mirror, but hate pretty much every photo ever taken of myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the life out the black and white filter lol

I dont think I'm being deceitful, I think I'm just using my best bits so as to have a better chance at attracting women

Taking stills of video definitely makes the process easier for me."
it’s a game changer had done this in the past & no doubt will do again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I look much better in a photo. You can't see my fat moving around or things like my wonky bottom teeth when I smile. I always take my photos in flattering light too so that helps and I'm usually posed. I do look like my photos though, but the still capture version is definitely much more flattering than the moving around version.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look better in person, I have never been photogenic

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Mine are unfiltered, that said, they don't show that much! I don't show my mummy tummy, just like I'd try to keep it hidden in a club too. And who knew I had wrinkly elbows?! I didn't til I saw the one of my dress lifted!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Most people chose the most favourable shots but that doesn’t mean they aren’t a true reflection. Just a highlight reel. I have been told a few times I’m better in person than in my pics though.

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over a year ago

Other than black and white, we don’t use filters but ours are usually taken in a kind light and at angles that suit. We tend not to show stomach or I’s legs (or hairline!) as they don’t look great.

That said, we only meet at clubs so if people think we’re ropey compared to our profile then they don’t need to approach us

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think I have a decent enough collection of both flattering images I have taken time taking and silly off the cuff ones to give an accurate representation of what I look like. Anyone I meet will likely have spontaneous pics sent while chatting and I've not yet had anyone change their mind

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

I hate photos of me but as I'm not great with a camera or lighting, think they represent me fairly well.

As for 'mum tum' there is nothing wrong with it. In fact in your latest photo showing it, you look absolutely stunning.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Good afternoon , camera is ready smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have a decent enough collection of both flattering images I have taken time taking and silly off the cuff ones to give an accurate representation of what I look like. Anyone I meet will likely have spontaneous pics sent while chatting and I've not yet had anyone change their mind

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They won’t change their minds - sensational pics

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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Shush you're stunning

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They won’t change their minds - sensational pics

Thank you

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Shush you're stunning

Thanks Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are your pictures a true reflection of how you look in person?

Do you show your less favourable (to you) parts?

I hate photos of me but as I'm not great with a camera or lighting, think they represent me fairly well.

As for 'mum tum' there is nothing wrong with it. In fact in your latest photo showing it, you look absolutely stunning."

Thank you. That is kind of you to say.

Reading the comments here spurred me on to upload, well that and a few wines

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ours are as we look, but I keep the parts I hate well hidden. Thank goodness for sexy underwear

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