FabSwingers.com forum: Missed opportunities?

By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not if they don't fancy me... Nothing worse that one sided sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah not really.. they are probably just after something different to what ive got to offer.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yes, especially if they’re better at arm wrestling than you

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

Of course they are

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

No, as they don't think you're special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I’m a shit fuck anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Pretty much agree with what Ariel and Cute and Sassy said. I like me - but if others don’t that’s perfectly fine. I’d hate to turn up or get my kit off on a meet and see someone’s face drop! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm fucking delightful and who doesn't enjoy dry sarcasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty much agree with what Ariel and Cute and Sassy said. I like me - but if others don’t that’s perfectly fine. I’d hate to turn up or get my kit off on a meet and see someone’s face drop! X"

Pretty unlikely tho peachy

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nah. Takes a special kinda special to appreciate me. I’d never want to meet anyone that thought of me as an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sure. Their loss is the next man's face gain

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"No. "

So if you were to message a man ,if, who's profile was most appealing

And he read your profile loved your pics

Miss read a line in your profile and blocked you based upon an unfortunate error

Has he missed out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pah! Yeh! Have you not sampled my apple pie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo! If they don’t fancy me it’s unlikely I’d fancy them. That won’t work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is everyone's cup of tea, Ohpee

I think if you 'settle' for anyone short of who likes you for you then you're the one missing out on something special

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"No.

So if you were to message a man ,if, who's profile was most appealing

And he read your profile loved your pics

Miss read a line in your profile and blocked you based upon an unfortunate error

Has he missed out ? "

So you mean - do I like me and do I think I’m pretty fun to be with and a damned good shag?

Yes - I do - but I’m still not everyone’s cup of tea and I totally accept that!

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

All taking a same linear one causation approach to why rejected

Not all rejections are based upon attractiveness. Some are caused by omissions of data ??

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Yes. I'm fucking delightful and who doesn't enjoy dry anal?"

SIR.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Damned straight! I’m fucking awesome!

If anyone rejects me they must surely be mentally unhinged

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"No.

So if you were to message a man ,if, who's profile was most appealing

And he read your profile loved your pics

Miss read a line in your profile and blocked you based upon an unfortunate error

Has he missed out ? "

Not really. Neither of us could possibly know how a potential meeting might have panned out. You can't miss out on something that hasn't and won't happen

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

I’ve messaged them hoping I’m what they’re looking for, they reject me, then I’m obviously not what they’re looking for

They’re nothing special or in their opinion neither am I so no loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever action a person takes you could always say they might be missing out on something special. Indeed even by doing something special you could be missing out on something equally special or even more special....

It's not really worth the thought unless you know you've made a bad decision, and even then just try not to do it again, but then perhaps in trying not to do it again you'd miss something special - it just goes on....

Just enjoy what you ARE doing I think is the key....

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"No.

So if you were to message a man ,if, who's profile was most appealing

And he read your profile loved your pics

Miss read a line in your profile and blocked you based upon an unfortunate error

Has he missed out ?

Not really. Neither of us could possibly know how a potential meeting might have panned out. You can't miss out on something that hasn't and won't happen "

That's untrue

Of course we can " miss out" on good things

Iv rejected many an opportunity in life based upon a single bad judgment often because of not enough data

I dont regret or beat myself up but of course it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damned straight! I’m fucking awesome!

If anyone rejects me they must surely be mentally unhinged

I’d never reject you

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Whatever action a person takes you could always say they might be missing out on something special. Indeed even by doing something special you could be missing out on something equally special or even more special....

Just enjoy what you ARE doing I think is the key....

I generally agree with this sentiment

Especially the missing out regression concept

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By *ensualtouch15 OP Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

I’ve messaged them hoping I’m what they’re looking for, they reject me, then I’m obviously not what they’re looking for

They’re nothing special or in their opinion neither am I so no loss

Men often say to me I'm missing out them sucking me

I doubt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies I dont think any guys face would drop unless their gay your all gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They haven't missed out on anything. They've had a lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who am I to say they’ve missed out, everyone’s Perception of people is different, some people find others hilarious when others find them annoying and Vice versa

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Damned straight! I’m fucking awesome!

If anyone rejects me they must surely be mentally unhinged

I’d never reject you

Even if I inadvertently tease you about Man Utd’s present score sexy lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damned straight! I’m fucking awesome!

If anyone rejects me they must surely be mentally unhinged

I’d never reject you

Even if I inadvertently tease you about Man Utd’s present score sexy lady?

It’s only half time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damned straight! I’m fucking awesome!

If anyone rejects me they must surely be mentally unhinged

I’d never reject you

Even if I inadvertently tease you about Man Utd’s present score sexy lady?

It’s only half time

Fernandes better score- he’s my fantasy football captain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pah! Yeh! Have you not sampled my apple pie!

You have apple pie?!?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

Of course - but they can't all have me!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Only if they like enthusiastic cunnilingus

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'd say I was 7/10

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Who am I to say they’ve missed out, everyone’s Perception of people is different, some people find others hilarious when others find them annoying and Vice versa"

This really.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No. I'm nothing special. I'm just me. Some like me, some dont x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say I was 7/10"

I’d go 6 and a half

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"If someone rejects "you" are they missing out on something special???

I doubt they are missing anything that's special to them, and that's what counts.

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By *nergeticlemurMan
over a year ago

wiltshire

Everyone's got their likes and dislikes. If one party rejects the other it's likely it wouldn't have been fun anyway

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Potentially!

I think it is really difficult to portray a depth of personality, sense of humour and caring persona in a first message. They may not be right for me but I am not sure if they can always tell without reading the message or following up on it!

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"No. I'm nothing special. I'm just me. Some like me, some dont x"

You are special!

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