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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol it’s funny because we genuinely have lives and if I’m talking to you now it’s only because I want to plan to meet in the future

Does this happen a lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people treat the site like a free escort service sadly, just want a quick shag there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are really busy and have unpredictable jobs or life events.

Therefore, when they have a few hours off, they'd like to make the most of it.

Other people are traveling from different counties or countries and want to have fun there and then as they won't be long in that place.

It may sound a bit pushy for someone to ask to meet right away, but I don't judge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people treat the site like a free escort service sadly, just want a quick shag there and then"

This is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct!

The amount of people that haven’t read our profile and start with the following message like -

‘Wanna meet me’

‘Me and my mate looking for a threesome tonight, come mine’

‘I’d love to fuck you all night babe’ *attached dick pic...

Instant delete, Mrs finds it the biggest turn off!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't judge the people wanting quick meets but I do judge the fact that they have 100% have not bothered reading my profile when they message asking that

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

One couple looked at me about a month ago, then messaged me if I'd consider meeting them anytime soon?

They were in southern Ireland!

Oh, of course, no problem at all. I'll either get a flight, or a combination of train/coach and a ferry, all to satisfy their wishes!

What planet are they on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys thinking this is basically "insta-shag" and then being offended when told no is all too common.


"Lol it’s funny because we genuinely have lives and if I’m talking to you now it’s only because I want to plan to meet in the future

Does this happen a lot?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For real, if someone is into meeting instantly they will say in their profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One couple looked at me about a month ago, then messaged me if I'd consider meeting them anytime soon?

They were in southern Ireland!

Oh, of course, no problem at all. I'll either get a flight, or a combination of train/coach and a ferry, all to satisfy their wishes!

What planet are they on?"

Maybe they were planning a visit to Hull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was active on the scene I would almost always be looking for last minute meets.

I found it hard to plan in advance due to my lifestyle, and it suited me better that way.

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By *ax1971Man
over a year ago

St helens

When i 1st joined the site in my nativity i thought yes going to get some sex tonight.... lol.... took me over a year just for my 1st social...

Now it's a big part of the fun to get to know each other and the chase...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always agree and ask them to meet me at Tesco. Explaining that I work there. They just to ask at the reception for Dan.

For some reason there is always a guy named Dan in every Tesco I have been to. 2 to be exact

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I always agree and ask them to meet me at Tesco. Explaining that I work there. They just to ask at the reception for Dan.

For some reason there is always a guy named Dan in every Tesco I have been to. 2 to be exact

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I volunteered at the Tesco at the start of lockdown to help out and the Dan that was working there was very jumpy, like he's seen some stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always agree and ask them to meet me at Tesco. Explaining that I work there. They just to ask at the reception for Dan.

For some reason there is always a guy named Dan in every Tesco I have been to. 2 to be exact

"

Loooool

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By *ella chowMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yeah I don't want a quick shag to clash with coronation Street (only joking)

Honestly it depends on what each individual is wanting/desire

They will receive a yes or no

that simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I don't want a quick shag to clash with coronation Street (only joking)

Honestly it depends on what each individual is wanting/desire

They will receive a yes or no

that simple "

Exactly

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

[Removed by poster at 20/09/20 17:01:34]

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I get messages at like 3am to meet now or at 6am and I can barely open my eyes and stumble out of bed. Not really looking to invite some random stranger round

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

I need notice as i live a busy life with family and work ,a bit of notice to change things is all it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get messages at like 3am to meet now or at 6am and I can barely open my eyes and stumble out of bed. Not really looking to invite some random stranger round "

Isn't it crazy...i also get offers to send a taxi to pick me up at all hours of the morning lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol it’s funny because we genuinely have lives and if I’m talking to you now it’s only because I want to plan to meet in the future

Does this happen a lot?"

Life’s to short BlahBlahBlah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is work and life gets in the way.I reckon it’s very hard to meet straight away these things need to be planned..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who messages me expecting an immediate meet would get told to shove it.

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